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About Martha Bodyfelt

Martha Bodyfelt is a divorce and recovery coach whose website “Surviving Your Split” shows divorced women how to put themselves first for a change, get their confidence back, and find their purpose in the next chapter of their lives. For your Free Goddess Recovery Guide, stop by http://survivingyoursplit.com today!
Latest Posts | By Martha Bodyfelt
Recovering from Your Divorce? Here’s How to Gain Back Your Confidence After 50
2 days ago

Recovering from Your Divorce? Here’s How to Gain Back Your Confidence After 50

In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself after 50, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words, do for yourself what no one else will do for you. Read More

Divorce After 50: How to Reinvent Yourself in 3 Steps
2 weeks ago

Divorce After 50: How to Reinvent Yourself in 3 Steps

By  •  Family

For many women who are ending a decades-long marriage, life after divorce can seem like a fog. It’s easy to wonder, “Well, what the heck do I do now?” Read More

Choosing Your Divorce Battles After 50
4 weeks ago

Choosing Your Divorce Battles After 50

By  •  Family

When fighting through a divorce after 50, it’s normal to feel like you are getting dragged through the mud for months – even years – wondering if frustration and stress will ever end. Even after the divorce papers have been signed, hurt feelings may remain. Read More

Lacking Confidence After 60? Scrap the Apologetic Behavior
1 month ago

Lacking Confidence After 60? Scrap the Apologetic Behavior

By  •  Family

Ever been in a situation like this before?

You don’t pick up the phone in time and when you call the person back, the first words out of your mouth are “I’m sorry.” Read More

The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Divorce After 50
2 months ago

The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Divorce After 50

By  •  Family

For months, even years, I knew that my marriage was crumbling. Yet, I lied to myself, telling myself a million things that would somehow justify the reasons why I should stay in the marriage. The main one dealt with time. Read More

The Divorced 50+ Doormat: 3 Ugly Truths That Probably Apply to You
2 months ago

The Divorced 50+ Doormat: 3 Ugly Truths That Probably Apply to You

By  •  Family

It happens all the damn time and you’re probably not even aware of it. Or you are aware of it, but you’ve just accepted it as a way of life. Read More

Leaving a Marriage After 60: How to Know When it’s Time to Let Go
3 months ago

Leaving a Marriage After 60: How to Know When it’s Time to Let Go

By  •  Family

Marriages, especially ones that have lasted for decades, take work. Every day will not be a honeymoon. Arguments, compromises, and sacrifices will no doubt be daily currency. While the give and take in a relationship is normal, there are instances when staying married is not a sustainable option. Read More

When Divorce Strikes After 50: Here’s How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex
4 months ago

When Divorce Strikes After 50: Here’s How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex

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As a divorce coach for fabulous women 50 and better, one of the most common refrain I hear from clients has to do with their ex – especially during the holiday season. Read More

End of Marriage Advice: How to Rebuild Trust After a Divorce in Your 60s
6 months ago

End of Marriage Advice: How to Rebuild Trust After a Divorce in Your 60s

By  •  Family

The reason we struggle with trust after a divorce is because we feel like we’ve been betrayed. It’s a crappy weight to have on your shoulders. Similar to its other invasive cousins – anger, guilt, and resentment – losing trust after your long-term marriage keeps you from getting your life back. Read More

What if Your Spouse of 20+ Years Suddenly Decides to Leave You?
7 months ago

What if Your Spouse of 20+ Years Suddenly Decides to Leave You?

By  •  Family

As the summer gradually winds down and the days start getting cooler, I’ve been thinking a lot about a growing trend in divorce. Read More