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Dr. Kurt Smith is the Clinical Director at Guy Stuff Counseling & Coaching and works with men and the women who love them. He is an expert in understanding the unique relationship challenges facing couples today. Check out his weekly tips on Facebook or Twitter.

Latest Posts By Kurt Smith

4 days ago

Am I Normal? 7 Emotional Changes Women Over 60 Don’t Expect

For many women, midlife is a time when they begin to recognize that something feels different. It’s not a dramatic moment, but more like a quiet realization that things have changed in ways you weren’t expecting…

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1 month ago

How to Grieve the Loss of Friends as We Age

There’s a particular kind of silence that can come with aging. It’s not the quiet of an empty house (although that can happen too). It’s the silence that comes when someone who used to call you regularly no longer does. Those not-so-subtle reminders can sneak up on you when a birthday passes…

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2 months ago

The Impact of Midlife Drift – When You’re Still Married, But Not Quite Together

Most women don’t wake up one morning in midlife and think, “I don’t love my husband anymore.” What they notice instead is quieter and much more unsettling. The conversations are shorter. The silence is longer. You still function well as a team – bills get paid…

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3 months ago

Got A Neglectful Husband? Here’s What to Do About It

Many women in their middle to later years thought that by now things would feel easier. Quieter, maybe. But certainly, more settled. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for women of this age to feel strangely invisible in their own marriages. Not abused. Just… overlooked. Forgotten…

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4 months ago

5 Steps to Deal with Emotional Abuse Later in Life

Emotional abuse rarely announces itself. Most of the time, it begins with a barely noticeable shift in behavior. Maybe it’s the cold tone that starts to creep in more regularly, or small dismissals of your feelings. For many women in their 60s (and earlier), especially those who’ve spent decades as the emotional…

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5 months ago

Post-Retirement Blues – What to Do When the Freedom Feels Empty

You’ve been working for decades with this goal in mind – retirement. It’s supposed to be the finish line. The reward for all the early mornings, late nights, deadlines, juggling work and family, etc. And you’re finally here. You should be thrilled, right? Friends tell you how lucky you are…

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6 months ago

Bored with Your Husband? How to Keep Dust from Settling on Your Marriage

Remember the excitement you used to feel about your husband? The anticipation of time together was enough to keep you moving through your day. Not to mention the mental notes you’d make about things to tell him or daydreams…

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6 months ago

Life Regrets – How to Stop the “What Ifs” That Haunt You

Life has a way of stirring up an array of uncomfortable thoughts and questions, especially as we get older. Just when we thought we had things neatly organized and our past tucked away where it belongs, we’re hit with the dreaded, “What if?” Women in particular…

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7 months ago

5 Ways to Cope When You and Your Partner Age Differently

Aging is rarely a perfectly synchronized dance. One partner may seem to glide into their later years with energy and resilience. At the same time, the other begins to struggle with health issues, reduced stamina, or mood shifts. For women over 60, this reality can be…

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8 months ago

Start Your Second Act! Reinventing Yourself and Finding Success in Midlife

Midlife is like stepping over the proverbial line in the sand. By the time you’ve hit your 50s and 60s, you’ve lived through career shifts, heartbreaks, child-rearing, menopause, identity changes, and probably a few moments of thinking, “Is this it?” But here’s a big truth…

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