Family

I’ve heard those words more than once over the years. And every time I hear them, I think the person saying them has probably never shared their life with a dog the way many of us have. Because to those of us who love our dogs, they’re never only dogs. They’re family. And many women over 60 will agree…

When we talk about aging in place, we usually think about the place. We love our homes. We want to stay where it’s familiar, and we want to be safe. As we get older, we start thinking about other things we never thought about before. Are there stairs? Do we need an elevator now? Can […]

Estrangement from a child is a profoundly emotional and heart-wrenching experience, regardless of age. For parents over 60, the added layers of age-related concerns can make this situation even more complex…

This year, my son became a father for the first time – and I became a grandmother for the first time! I wrote an article about it, in letter format, if you want to read it. As a retired community health nurse, I was delighted to see my lovely daughter-in-law connect with every local resource available to new mothers. At the same time, I found myself worrying about how few community supports seemed to exist for my son as a new dad…

There are bound to be differences of opinion between two people. You can love each other and still find yourselves fighting over where to go on vacation. And sometimes we say or do something that hurts the other person’s feelings and requires an apology…

There is a particular heartbreak that parents experience as their children grow older. It’s a difficult, hard-to-define, push-pull kind of feeling that’s a mixture of happiness, sadness, pride, and nagging nostalgia. You raised them, worried about them, listened, taught, guided, cried, laughed, and spent decades helping them to become capable adults…

Facing a major financial reorganization after 60 comes with pressure. There’s often less time to rebuild than there would have been decades earlier, the accounts involved are more complicated, and the decisions carry more permanent weight. That’s not a reason for despair – it’s a reason to get organized, methodically and honestly, before making any […]

Nearly every woman I work with wants the same thing. She is looking for like-minded women and has no idea where they are. One of my clients put it to me this way: “Are we all just sitting in our own little globes, wishing for a friend?” The most useful thing I know about finding your people comes from an online dating profile, which is not where I expected to find it…

The funny thing about being a full-time artist is that you think everyone else is creating art too. At least planning to anyway. Fortunately, there are responsible people doing the jobs that we artists try to avoid…

It was a week when my ex-spouse was out of town. I was on a mission. I went through every file I could find in the house and made copies of statements, receipts, account documentation, everything I could find. Even though I didn’t actually file for divorce until almost a year later, sorting through the paper mound I heaped…