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About Martha Bodyfelt

Martha Bodyfelt is a divorce recovery coach whose website “Surviving Your Split” shows women 50 and better how to get their confidence and sass back and move on with their lives. For your Free Divorce Goddess Survival Kit, stop by http://survivingyoursplit.com.
Latest Posts | By Martha Bodyfelt
The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Divorce After 60
2 months ago

The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Divorce After 60

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For months, even years, I knew that my marriage was crumbling. Yet, I lied to myself, telling myself a million things that would somehow justify the reasons why I should stay in the marriage. The main one dealt with time. If you are doing the same, embrace these five lessons, so that you can move on and be happy…
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Lacking Confidence After 60? Scrap the Apologetic Behavior
2 months ago

Lacking Confidence After 60? Scrap the Apologetic Behavior

By  •  Family

Ever been in a situation like this before? You don’t pick up the phone in time and when you call the person back, the first words out of your mouth are “I’m sorry.” You bring store-bought cupcakes to your friend’s party and you utter, “I’m sorry…”
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Choosing Your Divorce Battles After 50
2 months ago

Choosing Your Divorce Battles After 50

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When fighting through a divorce after 50, it’s normal to feel like you are getting dragged through the mud for months – even years – wondering if frustration and stress will ever end. Even after the divorce papers have been signed, hurt feelings may remain. Read More

The Divorced 50+ Doormat: 3 Ugly Truths That Probably Apply to You
2 months ago

The Divorced 50+ Doormat: 3 Ugly Truths That Probably Apply to You

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It happens all the damn time and you’re probably not even aware of it. Or you are aware of it, but you’ve just accepted it as a way of life. Read More

Over 50 and Ready to Let Go of Unmet Expectations After Divorce? Here’s How to Take Action!
5 months ago

Over 50 and Ready to Let Go of Unmet Expectations After Divorce? Here’s How to Take Action!

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I have been hearing a very common refrain from divorced women over 50 as they try to move on: “It wasn’t supposed to be like this.” “I’m over 50 and it’s too late to start over…”

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Ready to Feel Confident After 60? Then Quit Surrounding Yourself with Toxic People
7 months ago

Ready to Feel Confident After 60? Then Quit Surrounding Yourself with Toxic People

When you’re working to get your confidence back and build boundaries at 60 and better, there is one “hiding in plain sight” barrier that will keep you from reaching your goals…
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When Divorce Strikes After 50: Here’s How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex
7 months ago

When Divorce Strikes After 50: Here’s How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex

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As a divorce coach for fabulous women 50 and better, one of the most common refrain I hear from clients has to do with their ex – especially during the holiday season. Read More

Leaving a Marriage After 60: How to Know When it’s Time to Let Go
8 months ago

Leaving a Marriage After 60: How to Know When it’s Time to Let Go

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Marriages, especially ones that have lasted for decades, take work. Every day will not be a honeymoon. Arguments, compromises, and sacrifices will no doubt be daily currency. While the give and take in a relationship is normal, there are instances when staying married is not a sustainable option. Read More

Almost Done with Mid-Life Divorce, But Still Feeling Terrible?
9 months ago

Almost Done with Mid-Life Divorce, But Still Feeling Terrible?

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When it comes to divorce, especially if you’re past your 6th decade, the first thing to remember is not to blame yourself. The main reason why you feel terrible even when the whole ordeal is at the finish line…
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Recovering from Your Divorce? Here’s How to Gain Back Your Confidence After 50
9 months ago

Recovering from Your Divorce? Here’s How to Gain Back Your Confidence After 50

In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself after 50, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words, do for yourself what no one else will do for you. Read More