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About Martha Bodyfelt

Martha Bodyfelt is a divorce recovery coach whose website “Surviving Your Split” shows women 50 and better how to get their confidence and sass back and move on with their lives. For your Free Divorce Goddess Survival Kit, stop by http://survivingyoursplit.com.
Latest Posts | By Martha Bodyfelt
Struggling with Jealousy After a Divorce in Your 50s or 60s? Help Is Here!
2 years ago

Struggling with Jealousy After a Divorce in Your 50s or 60s? Help Is Here!

By  •  Family

If you divorced in your 50s or 60s, you’re familiar with that feeling. Some of us know it all too well, both during divorce and afterwards. Read More

Divorce After 50: Counter Unfairness Like the Amazing Queen You Are!
2 years ago

Divorce After 50: Counter Unfairness Like the Amazing Queen You Are!

By  •  Family

Let’s talk about one of the most common obstacles that stop us from moving on after divorce, especially after a long-term marriage. Read More

Love After 50: Can Rejection Be a Blessing in Disguise?
2 years ago

Love After 50: Can Rejection Be a Blessing in Disguise?

By  •  Dating

Rejection at this ripe time in our lives can really stink. There’s no way around it. As we learn to move on after divorce, even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about, and spent our lives with as a partner, suddenly doesn’t want to be with us anymore. Read More

Divorce After 50: How to Kick Your Loneliness to the Curb
2 years ago

Divorce After 50: How to Kick Your Loneliness to the Curb

By  •  Family

When you are recovering from divorce after a long-term marriage, loneliness is definitely an obstacle that keeps you from moving on. We get stuck in this mindset because it makes us feel like we have nobody in the world. Read More

How to Uncover the Secret to Happiness After 50
2 years ago

How to Uncover the Secret to Happiness After 50

As we continue this new chapter in our lives, redefining who we want to be after 50, I often hear a common question.

“How can I be happy?”

This million-dollar question seems to be on everybody’s minds. Read More

3 Steps to Finding Happiness After a Divorce After 50
2 years ago

3 Steps to Finding Happiness After a Divorce After 50

By  •  Family

After divorce, are you making this happiness mistake? Let me explain.

A while ago, I was laid off from a 9-5 job and I started to panic. As I started to assemble a resume and apply for new jobs, a voice in the back of my head kept chiming in: “I will be happy again once I am in a new job. Once I get that first pay check, I know I’ll smile and feel better about everything.”
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Life After a Divorce: What to Do When You’re Feeling Lost
3 years ago

Life After a Divorce: What to Do When You’re Feeling Lost

By  •  Family

Divorce after 50 can make you feel like everything you’ve known has been taken from you. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not knowing what to do or where to go from here.

But when you feel like this, don’t panic! There is merely one thing you must remember: Read More

How to Look Forward to the Holidays When You Are Divorced Over 50
3 years ago

How to Look Forward to the Holidays When You Are Divorced Over 50

The holidays are coming. The falling snow, ringing of sleigh bells, and smells of turkey and pumpkin pie can conjure memories of family and togetherness. Read More

How to Find Joy and Gratitude Following Your Divorce After 50
3 years ago

How to Find Joy and Gratitude Following Your Divorce After 50

By  •  Family

When recovering from divorce after 50, every day can feel like a struggle.

Learning how to reinvent ourselves, establish our independence again, and figure out what we want during this next chapter of our lives is a bit overwhelming. Oftentimes, we may forget to see all the wonderful things that await us. Read More

Surviving a Divorce After 50 Teaches Some Surprisingly Positive Lessons
3 years ago

Surviving a Divorce After 50 Teaches Some Surprisingly Positive Lessons

By  •  Family

Divorce for women over 50 gets a bad rap. We have this cultural conditioning where we tend to see a divorced woman left with nothing. She has nowhere to turn and having no clue what to do with the rest of her life. Read More