If you struggle with your weight and have body image issues, you’re not alone. It’s estimated that over 90% of women are unhappy with their bodies. And they’ve taken drastic measures to get to a certain number on the scale. In fact, most of the women I work with have tried everything: pills and potions, diets and detoxes, even surgery.
But the outcomes were always the same:
Chances are you know what I’m talking about.
The women I work with have shared some of the factors that contributed to their own weight and body issues.
This last one really hits hard because these messages are everywhere. And every time I see an online message that judges women’s bodies or promotes “thin” as the pathway to happiness I want to cry.
Because when we’re told we are “too fat” or we see images of how we are “supposed to” look, we internalize these thoughts, and they become beliefs for us. And this can set us up for a lifetime of weight, body image issues, and poor self-esteem. Ironically, we end up turning to food to feel better.
Maybe we find ourselves binge eating at night, after dinner, even though we’re not even hungry. Or perhaps we’re secretly stashing carbs, hiding the evidence of our “treats.” Or constantly grazing our way through the pantry or fridge, looking for “something.”
The bottom line is that we’re not feeling good about ourselves or our bodies. So, we’re using food to comfort, numb-out or fill the void. Which usually leads to more weight gain and feeling even worse about ourselves.
And another diet won’t fix that. As a registered dietitian, it would be easy for me to tell women what they “should” eat. But most women already know this! In fact, what I commonly hear from my clients is “I know what I’m supposed to do but I just can’t do it.”
Until we let go of the emotional baggage and the negative beliefs that we’ve accumulated over the years, chances are nothing will change. This is because our emotions and beliefs are running the show behind the scenes.
To feel the power of these negative thoughts and beliefs, take a moment right now to reflect on the messages you heard growing up (and are likely still hearing). Write them down in a notebook or journal.
How do these words make you feel? Do you notice any tension in your body? Maybe a nauseous feeling in your gut? Are you feeling inspired to eat some veggies? Or are you finding yourself craving your favorite comfort food?
I struggled with weight and body image issues for decades. As a dietitian, this was really hard because I felt like a fraud. How could I help other women when I couldn’t even help myself? Well, that was I realized that it wasn’t about the food… it was about my emotions and my beliefs.
When I started letting go of my own emotional baggage and changing my beliefs, that’s when I was finally able to feel good about my body (that came first) and release the extra weight. Yeah!
If you’d like to learn more on how to make this happen for YOU, I warmly invite you to watch my free training – How to Stop Cravings and Emotional Eating So You Can Lose the Weight and Keep it Off.
There definitely is hope to ending your weight and body images issues, but it’s not in another diet.
Is emotional eating a major hurdle in your life? Have you figured out that you eat because of your emotions? How do you work through your emotions so they don’t affect your eating habits?