As part of my usual workday, I always check in on the Help a Reporter Out (HARO) website to see if I can contribute to story queries posted by reporters that are within my wheelhouse as a life coach and freelance digital content creator.
I recently stumbled upon a query from a journalist at Teen Vogue. The audience demographic was of course clear to me and drawing on my experience as a former funeral director, I was in the perfect position to provide a mindful and expert response. As I began writing my reply, a sense of discomfort and a touch of anger unexpectedly came over me.
The reporter sought the insights of subject matter experts (SMEs) on the appropriateness of the text samples she provided for offering condolences to someone who had experienced a loss in the family.
While I did offer constructive feedback on each text response, I also seized the opportunity to share my sentiments regarding the use of texts in communicating with those who are grieving.
“In an age dominated by digital communication, the current generation’s heavy reliance on texting underscores the need for a broader skill set. While texts are efficient, they lack the depth of face-to-face interaction, where body language and tone contribute to a richer connection. Learning to communicate beyond screens is vital for cultivating genuine relationships in a world driven by digital exchanges,” I explained.
This experience triggered thoughts and reflections on the valuable and personal connections we once shared as a community and the gradual loss of face-to-face interaction. In today’s world, technology has tarnished what we, as a society, once considered appropriate behavior. Times inevitably change, but the current digital landscape has impacted this more than ever. Respect, tradition, customs, true personal connection, self-respect, and respect for others have fallen by the wayside.
Reflecting on the adage “Be in the world but not of it,” which is attributed to spiritual and philosophical teachings, particularly within various religious traditions, I find it resonating deeply. It suggests a balance between engaging with the external world and maintaining a sense of distance when needed, a spiritual perspective, and respect for the values and timeless teachings of the past.
As I proudly grow older – it is indeed a privilege – this quote weighs heavy on my mind, prompting me to consider how our sixty-plus generation can navigate the new norm while offering guidance to younger generations who believe having five hundred Facebook friends means they are popular and connected.
Let’s delve deeper into the notion of genuine connections. In a world dominated by screens, our ability to connect on a personal and meaningful level is dwindling. The art of face-to-face interaction is slowly fading away, replaced by the convenience of digital exchanges. While technology has undoubtedly brought about amazing and transformative advancements, it has unfortunately come at the cost of losing the richness of heartfelt human interaction.
Consider the simple act of offering condolences through text messages. While it may seem like a convenient and timely way to express sympathy, it lacks the depth and sincerity of an in-person encounter. Grief is a complex emotion that requires true communication, and the limitations of digital platforms often fail to capture the subtleties needed to comfort someone in pain.
This reflection on the erosion of genuine connections brings to light the overall changing landscape of how we define social interaction. In the past, communities thrived on personal relationships, shared traditions, and a sense of collective identity.
Respect, a cornerstone of meaningful relationships, is now often overshadowed by the instant gratification of online interactions. The concept of traditional customs and etiquette is fading, as the digital world operates by its own set of rules and values. True personal connection, once fostered through shared experiences and genuine conversations, is now replaced by curated online personas and superficial engagements.
As the world around us changes rapidly, it becomes crucial to reflect on timeless teachings that have guided generations before us. Our generation, with its wealth of experiences and insights, holds the key to bridging the gap between the past and the present. As we struggle with the challenges posed by the digital age, we can draw upon the wisdom of evergreen teachings to navigate these uncharted waters.
Now more than ever, our responsibility extends beyond personal reflection. We have the opportunity to guide the next generations and beyond, offering them a perspective grounded in the lessons of the past. It’s not about dismissing the advancements of technology but rather imparting the importance of balance.
In a world where having tons of Facebook friends is perceived as popularity and connection, we can share the true value of genuine relationships. It’s about quality over quantity, depth over superficiality. We can encourage the younger generation to embrace true human interactions, where emotions are conveyed not just through text and emojis but through body language and tone.
As we navigate the complexities of the digital age, it can be a bit overwhelming and even disheartening, but there is a call to action for our generation. We can be the champions of genuine connections, preserving the essence of meaningful relationships that go beyond the confines of screens.
Let’s take the time to mentor and share our experiences with those who are navigating the digital landscape without the wisdom of the past. By doing so, we contribute to a cultural shift that values personal connections, respects traditions, and upholds the timeless teachings that have shaped societies for centuries.
By actively taking these steps, our generation can contribute significantly to guiding the younger generation in cultivating genuine relationships and finding a balance between the digital and real-world aspects of their lives.
Our journey through the digital age is an opportunity to reflect on what we have lost, what we stand to lose, and how our generation can have influence. By embracing the delicate balance between the convenience of technology and the richness of genuine connections, we pave the way for a future where respect, tradition, and true connection can once again flourish!
What difficulties do you experience with technology? Is communication in this digital age more difficult for you? What steps have you taken to increase communication outside of digital devices?