I admit it – I’m an online scrabble junkie. I’ve been playing Words with Friends (WWF) developed by Zynga, for over eight years. I have many games going with people from around the world.
It keeps my brain active and I love connecting with other like-minded Scrabble nuts. The game is always friendly, competitive, and lots of fun. Unfortunately, it’s also attracting scammers, mostly directed at women.
Over the past couple of years, the app has changed. Suddenly, I’m inundated with guys wanting to hook up because they have fallen madly in love with me at first sight.
I put my picture on my profile because many people I have known and lost touch with have found me that way. So, the scammers use my photo to choose an age appropriate mate.
The pictures of these handsome older men are often taken on a yacht or in front of a beautiful home with lots of palm trees. Some are wearing decorated army uniforms or doctor scrubs. All stolen pictures I’m sure.
The app provides a chat facility, attached to each game, that is activated after each player makes the first move. Here are some of the things these clowns have said to me:
There are many stories online about women falling for this routine. They can’t locate you from the WWF app if you haven’t put your full name or personal information there.
So, the scammers start by getting you to join other online chat forums, like Kik App, WhatsApp, Google Hangouts, etc., or they ask for your email. That way they can get more personal and the real scuzzy romancing begins.
Once they have you hooked, they will often ask for iTunes cards or money to pay for surgery for a sick son or daughter. Or they might say they have only a couple months to live with lots of cash to give away. But they need funds from you to activate the dispensing of said estate. (Yes, people do fall for this.)
Many of them are so-called engineers working on an oilrig. I guess that keeps them from being contacted and verified.
I live in Canada, but my profile says I live in the USA. You know when someone says he’s from California and asks, “How’s the weather condition over there,” or “Good morning my sweet Ma,” he’s not from this side of the planet. So, while most players are bona fide, there are many who are not what they seem.
Often, scammers don’t appear to even read your answers, so sometimes I think it’s a BOT doing this stuff. Here are a few examples:
Here are some strategies that I think will help you not fall into these scam traps:
I hope I haven’t discouraged you from enjoying this fabulous game. These cases are in the minority, so just be careful and don’t let them spoil your fun. Still, you need to be aware of who you meet, on any online forum.
I have made many contacts from around the globe, and I enjoy the occasional chat with my players. Communication and mental exercise in any form is much needed as we age and find ourselves with more free time than usual. In my books, scrabble is like word exercise or callisthenics for the brain.
The Words with Friends app is not a dating site. Nor is it a place where women should be in danger. So, until the game developer, Zynga, gets a handle on these scummy scam artists, we need to be diligent and protect ourselves from them.
Since writing this post, I have changed my WWF profile picture to a cranky looking ostrich. I wonder how many handsome suitors I’ll get now?
What online games do you play? Do you have any experiences playing Words with Friends you would like to share? Have you encountered scammers? How do you handle them? Please leave your comments below.