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Declutter Backwards: The Smartest, Fastest, and Easiest Way to Declutter

By Rita Wilkins April 24, 2025 Lifestyle

You spent an entire weekend decluttering and organizing your garage. But less than a week later – bam! Clutter has already started creeping back in, leaving you frustrated and wondering if all that effort was wasted. Ugh!

Is it time to think differently about how you declutter? Maybe it’s time for an out-of-the-box approach – one that’s faster, easier, and smarter. A way that takes far less time and still gets the job done beautifully.

If that sounds like your kind of magic, listen up.

Learn How to Declutter Backwards. Yep, Backwards!

This is the exact opposite of traditional decluttering. It’s quick, efficient, and a huge time- and energy-saver because…

It’s about what to KEEP, rather than what to GET RID OF.

That one simple, yet mind-blowing, mindset shift flips the whole experience on its head – turning decluttering into a positive, not a negative.

  • It takes less time.
  • Reduces overwhelm and decision fatigue.
  • Minimizes emotion and drama.

So Why Is Backward Decluttering So Effective?

When you start by identifying your essentials – the things you truly need, love, and use – you empower yourself to take control of your clutter. It becomes much easier (and quicker!) to recognize what doesn’t serve you.

It creates a simpler framework for those who struggle to let go.

Once you’ve chosen what to keep, the rest becomes obvious.

You gain control and discipline over things you’ve held onto for years – especially those with emotional weight.

Think of it this way:

If you’re decluttering your closet, isn’t it easier to start by picking out the clothes you always wear – the ones that make you feel fabulous every single time?

Exactly.

Why Try the Backward Decluttering Method?

Let’s face it: most people struggle with decluttering. These are the top two challenges:

1. Not Knowing Where to Start

Shifting your focus to what you want to keep gives you a sense of direction and momentum. You see results fast – and that’s motivating.

2. Not Being Able to Decide

The sheer volume can be paralyzing. But deciding what to keep helps you stay calm, clear, and focused.

How to Declutter Backwards

Let’s test this out – starting with your closet.

Step One: The Keepers

Quickly scan your closet and pull out your essentials.

  • What good-quality basics do you wear all the time?  (Think: black pants, favorite jeans, a perfect-fit blouse.)
  • What pieces do you love because they make you feel amazing?

Set those aside. Those are your KEEPERS.

Step Two: The Losers

Now, go through what’s left.

Sort into four piles:

  • Donate
  • Discard
  • Sell
  • Can’t decide

Step Three: The Maybes

Take a second look at your Can’t Decide pile. Do another quick screen – keep, donate, sell, or toss.

Still unsure? Pop them in a “Maybe” box for 30 days. Label the box. Mark your calendar. No peeking!

Step Four: Time to Decide

On Day 30, open your Maybe Box and go through each item.

Make a final decision: Keep, donate, sell, or discard.

⚠️ A word of caution: Don’t get stuck on “just in case” or “someday” items.

Decide to decide.

Step Five: Day 29 Closet Review

Before opening that Maybe Box, review how your decluttered closet is working for you.

Ask yourself:

  1. Have you missed anything? Example: a pair of dressy black pants?
    • If yes, you might find it in the box.
    • If not, give yourself permission to buy a new, high-quality replacement.
  2. Did you edit enough? Still too many white tops or yoga pants? Time to prune again. Donate, sell, or discard.
  3. Still haven’t worn it? If it’s been 29 days and you haven’t touched it… it’s probably time to let it go.

Ask: Why am I still keeping this?

If your answer starts with “someday…” – you know what to do.

Step Six: Decision Day

It’s Day 30. Open the box.

Each item: Keeper or Loser?

No more maybes.

Keep. Donate. Sell. Discard.

Let’s be real: whether you like it or not, clutter will try to sneak back in.

But now, you’ve got the powerful, game-changing solution to declutter backwards.

So why not take control and get it done – with less stress and more success?

So, What Did You Think?

If you followed along with me on this Backward Decluttering Challenge – wasn’t it easier? Faster? Kinder to your time and energy? If you haven’t tried it yet, let me know when you do! I’d love to hear from you. ✨ Please comment and share! ✨

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aleta

excellent informative article..Thank you! I have been decluttering for years.. this information will definitely help

Liza Burger

Last year I turned my hangers in my closet around at the start of the year. Once I wore items, I put the hanger back in correctly. At the end of December, other than a couple of “special occasion” dresses, anything that was still on a backward-facing hanger went to the donate pile!

Liz P.

Oh, Wow: This backwards decluttering has really worked for me. I cannot believe how much easier this is, to take it step by step as listed in this post, backwards. And so much faster. It is still hard for me to decide, but this clarifies. Stuff in the decision pile that does not coordinate with the “keepers” also was easy to say no to. The keeper pile became like the touchstone group for me: are the maybes as nice as those? Do they coordinate with them? If not, bye bye.

Rita Wilkins is the best! I found out that she actually has done her own extreme downsize from a large home to a tiny apartment (I think it was 400 or 500 sq feet? I might not have that right but small). So this comes from real experience. She has some very good YouTubes as well.

Thanks for adding this to the site, Margaret. And thanks for this great idea, Rita.

Lisa

I don’t find a lot of clutter in my closet. The clutter in my life seems to be related to paper – receipts, warranties, notes to myself, articles I want to read, etc. How do I get a handle on that?

Jane

Well buy yourself à shredder. Have a day each week when you shred…..it is fun, and if you need the warranties or specific receipts, just keep them.

Dana Steiner

I lived with constant paper clutter for years. When I started a new job working from home I knew I had to do something or I’d never be able to keep up with the job. I realized that at least half of them had info I could look up online so those went first. The remainder I scanned to my computer. What couldn’t be scanned or found online I filed in my 2 cabinets with plenty of room to spare! It’s been life changing!!! Good luck!

Linda

I can’t get rid of paper clutter at the moment as a lot of it is related to a business I had and has to be kept for 7 years beyond the closure for tax purposes. When it’s time I plan to use a confidential shredding service.

Other papers have to be kept as I’m overseas and they’re to do with things like immigration.

Lesley Andrew

Scan or tak a photo of each and save in an album so you’ve got them digitally.

Joanne

I really like this idea!!
While reading, my mind wandered to items that will hit the “maybe” box – and later probably donate. I’ve decluttered with all but my closet since a recent “grey divorce”, and it all feels so good!
Thanks for a very helpful article.

The Author

Rita Wilkins, known as The Downsizing Designer, is a nationally recognized interior and lifestyle design expert, TEDx speaker, and author of Downsize Your Life, Upgrade Your Lifestyle: Secrets to More Time, Money, and Freedom. She inspires Baby Boomers to reimagine their lives and embrace living abundantly with less. Jumpstart your journey with Rita’s The Letting Go Workbook—your all-in-one guide to decluttering with ease.

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