I don’t know about you, but there have been different times when I’ve looked around my home and felt overwhelmed by the sheer clutter. Perhaps work kept me so busy that my house took a back seat in my list of priorities. This neglect has somehow turned into a level of hoarding.
One day, you look around and realise that something needs to be done to get your home organised again. So, how do you begin?
First, it’s essential to understand hoarding. Hoarding is a condition characterised by the excessive accumulation of items and the difficulty of discarding them, leading to cluttered and often unusable living spaces. I’ve outlined five different levels of hoarding, ranging from mild to severe.
Most people will fall into the first two levels. However, seeking additional support and professional help is advisable to navigate the decluttering process effectively if you identify with the higher levels.
Regardless of your level, once you take the first step toward a clutter-free home, you’ll feel instant relief and a sense of achievement. This blog covers 12 clutter-busting tips for result-oriented hoarders.
Implementing these strategies will transform your living space into an organised, serene oasis. This will alleviate your anxiety and create a more peaceful and enjoyable environment for you and your loved ones. With a decluttered home, you’ll find it easier to relax, focus, and appreciate the beauty of your surroundings.
Take it slow with a small, achievable area like one drawer or shelf. Finishing something small often motivates you to tackle a bigger space.
Always make it clear within your head what the goal of initiating this decluttering session will be, and those objectives must be easily achievable. Setting goals helps you stay on task, whether clearing out a particular room or reducing the items.
Label four boxes as “Keep,” “Donate,” “Sell”, and “Trash.” As you go, put the items into their corresponding box to make your decision-making easier later.
If you haven’t used something within the last year – chances are, you don’t need it.
Know when to get a professional organiser who specialises in hoarding cases. These individuals can provide structured guidance and empathy surrounding this ordeal.
Keep only one of each item type. Multiple items serving the same purpose can clutter your space unnecessarily.
Set aside regular time slots for decluttering sessions.
Scan all your important documents and save them in digital format. This will reduce the number of pieces of paper around your office and make placing and retrieving them easier.
Having someone to help you can be morally supportive, allow you to make decisions, and allow you to have fun.
For every new item you acquire, make it a responsibility to discard one old one. This ensures balance and prevents new things from becoming clutter in a few months.
Consider the things that do not affect your emotions or general mood. This way you can make a rational and enlightened decision about what to keep.
Each milestone made is worth a little celebration. Positive reinforcement helps you stay focused and eliminate the unnecessary.
Hoarding is a complex disorder that can have crippling effects, interfering with the quality of your life through severe clutter and disorganisation. If we can break this down by learning the five levels of hoarding, we can better rate ourselves and find methods that work and support us.
When our house is tidy, there are benefits beyond physical cleanliness. A little order can make a big difference in mental health – decreasing stress and lowering levels of anxiety, creating an environment that is calm and conducive to relaxation and productivity. Additionally, when we declutter and resourcefully use our home space, it becomes a place for friends to visit.
In doing so, we create a way to be surrounded by organised, simple, essential items that contribute to peace and order and help improve our overall well-being. Bask in the clutter-free life that will take months to achieve but make significant changes that will last a lifetime.
Also read DOWNSIZING YOUR HOME AS A 60+ WOMAN: FACING THE DISCOMFORT OF UNCERTAINTY.
What level hoarder are you? Have you been at a higher level? How did you bring yourself to your current hoarding state? What tips have you followed on your decluttering journey?
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Well, I am relieved to find that I am in catagory #1. I have, in the past, had a messy room in which I have tossed items when company is coming over, but after making several moves and tossing or donating things, I am resisting having a room like that again. I still have too much stuff, and the garage is full of unsorted boxes from my last move (this past mid-March), but at least my car is able to be parked inside.
I find clutter makes me feel a bit anxious. It goes back to being ill over 15 years ago, in the periods where I felt well enough I’d clean and tidy as it was the only thing I had control over. I can’t sleep in an untidy bedroom, I need it to be tidy and restful.
My sister in law is a boarder, rather than throw things out, repurpose them or give them away she moves them up to the attic as “they might come in useful some day”. For instance she has a trunk in the attic full of 70’s clothes that are 5 sizes too small and in there is a sheepskin coat she was given for her 21st birthday that she doesn’t want to part with as she can “have it remade into a body warmer for winter”. She’s 74 and has been saying that for 35 years!
I don’t like visiting as my brother has given up and you have to move piles of things to sit down. The dust in their house kicks my husband’s allergies off and I don’t like drinking tea or coffee from stained mugs.
My sister in law has been lazy all throughout her marriage, she never worked full time so had time to keep the house tidy whilst my brother worked all hours. When she went into hospital for 2 weeks he had the place so sparkling clean and tidy I didn’t recognise it.
That is too bad for your brother. It seems as though he could have reduced the quantity of stuff when she was away.
Believe me his life would have been hell if he had thrown anything out. My sister in law is so lazy she spends most days watching TV sitting in a recliner chair and knitting clothes for a baby doll she’s had all her life. Their spare room is cluttered with old obsolete daisy wheel printers (she says they’re still serviceable) and haberdashery from her disastrous craft projects which always look awful, I’ve seen 5 year olds do better. She doesn’t cook either.
The hardest issue I have with discarding something is discovering a few weeks after the item has been disposed of that I need it. Then I have to go buy it again!! So frustrating.
Ha! Happens to me, too. It’s one of the reasons I hesitate to discard many “one day” things. *sigh*