I wrote Creating Magic in Midlife before I had the life I have now living in Ecuador. I always wanted to live internationally. I worked as a trauma therapist but retired from that profession. I asked myself what can give my life meaning? The answer is I live as a creative.
My days are full of friends, work, learning and more. I am an accomplished writer with several projects being developed. My life has purpose and meaning.
This articles explores the idea that for many of us, work has always been important whether we loved working or not. Work! A simple word laden with lifetimes of experiences. Once we reach midlife and beyond, where might work fit or not?
I don’t like the word retirement because it might neglect our need for purpose. Hopefully, we have years to live with hours to spend somehow. How? For each of us, we might need to discover what gives us meaning and purpose. Or, maybe like me, you continue to do what’s been fun and interesting like art and writing. For you? Maybe the adventure of travel, contributing to a cause, or keep doing work you have done and still enjoy, or even a second career. Your choice!
What is the longevity factor? Here is an excerpt from my book, Creating Magic in Midlife (and beyond):
There aren’t too many books that have literally changed my life, but one of them is The Longevity Factor: The New Reality of Long Careers and How It Can Lead to Richer Lives by Lydia Bronte, PhD. Bronte, director of the Long Careers Study and the Aging Society Project, believes that life spans of up to 150 years could be commonplace by the year 2090.
Bronte interviewed scores of people from the ages of 65 to 101 and concludes that older people can do some of their best work later in life, sometimes in entirely new careers. Her biographical profiles provide mountains of evidence that satisfying work makes for an optimum longevity lifestyle.
Her stellar interviewees include well-known names like Norman Cousins, Norman Vincent Peale, Eileen Ford, Barbara McClintock, Julia Child, Studs Terkel, Jessica Tandy, and Linus Pauling – plus lesser known individuals like Nobel Prize-winning physicist Rosalyn Yarrow. What these people have in common is enthusiasm and it’s contagious. After reading this book, you too may decide that continuing to work is more desirable than retirement!
Bronte feels that the option to continue working should be available to everyone, and she offers career models for people interested in working past the customary retirement age. I saw myself in one of those models: I’m an Explorer, one who makes periodic changes throughout life in the pursuit of opportunity and growth. I’ve been a teacher, filmmaker, psychotherapist, writer, seminar leader, and speaker.
Bronte’s other types include the Homesteader, one who chooses a career path early and sticks with it (like Isaac Asimov or George Gershwin), and the Transformer, one who may work at one thing until midlife and then do something entirely different (like Julia Child, who was in the foreign service before she became a chef). Whatever road you are on matters less than the idea of finding new challenges for as long as you want.
Explorer, Homesteader, or Transformer, the choice is yours. In The Longevity Factor, Bronte coins a term that can invigorate a lagging midlifer – a second middle age; a time between 50 and 76, which is characterized by continued activity, greater vitality, and a more positive outlook.
Perhaps the most committed and personally involved student I read about was a 70-year-old woman who had not been a student since she left medical school in her 20s to get married. Exactly 50 years after getting her undergraduate degree, she received her master’s degree in adult education and gerontology. Then she decided to get her divinity degree – at age 72.
Although Bronte emphasizes that there’s nothing wrong with retiring, she says that the option to continue to work should be available to everyone. Acknowledging the conflict this creates with the idea that the old must make way for the young, she calls for more flexible retirement policies and greater recognition of the productive, creative capacities of older people.
What does your second half look like? Are you fully retired or do you work for fun?
Nice Article. My second half, which I hope to retire in 12 – 18 months, is going to involve doing things that make me happy and bring me joy. I just purchased a new camera and plan on spending more time working on my landscape photography hobby. It makes me happy and the photos bring joy to those who receive them. I want to enjoy my grandchildren and visiting my son and his new family in New Mexico. My beloved husband passed away 18 years ago, way too young so I am living with gusto for the both of us. I didn’t plan on retirement without him but he is by my side and I will enjoy it as best I can.
I worked in my chosen field for 50 solid years, retiring at 70 1/2, and moving out of state. My job was creative and interesting, but involved timeline pressures and long commutes, leaving me to increasingly just use my weekends to “recharge my batteries”. I now feel absolutely no need to make myself useful to others, and just enjoy having an “every day is Saturday” outlook on life. I made plenty of contributions during my career, including certain accomplishments at my last employment that are still contributing to the prosperity of that company.
Plans are for a family move to New England in three years; I’d love to find a property where we can do some homesteading. Perhaps not completely off-grid (my dream, not my son’s!) but a small regenerative farm (my daughter-in-law likes that idea). I will be 72 in a couple of weeks.
I discovered a passion for photography after a trip to India when I was 60, currently have a couple of websites, and contribute to the stock photo site Dreamstime. Just to stretch my comfort zone, I entered photos into out state fair starting three years ago and have won at least one ribbon every year since. I can’t really call it ‘work,’ it’s so much fun! (Updating the websites is work, though! LOL)
Hi Shellie … I retired last year with almost 3 decades in the energy sector as a senior Executive Administrative Assistant. I’m now 64 and looking for my next purpose. I saw myself in your post! I have been thinking about launching a website to display my loads of pictures that have been silently living in estorage from my international trips. I would love to pick your brain on how you started. I have questions and not sure where to start this idea. Would you be willing to connect with me? Not sure how we would manage that here? I hope we can connect (fingers-crossed). Thank you for your post.
:-) Rachel
Hi Rachel, I’d be happy to connect. you can send an email to Michelle at naturalhealingviews dot com in the proper email format, of course. :)
If you want to see my stuff, you can visit NaturalHealingViews.com and michellekwood.com
There are easy ways to get started, a free blog at Blogger or WordPress would get you going.
I’m looking forward to ‘chatting’ with you.
Shellie
I believe I’m already in the second half of my life as I will be 70 in February. My professional life was spent in human resources until I was in my 50s. I then start a pursuing jobs that brought joy to my life! I worked in the fitness industry helping adults Feel better about themselves, worked in Parks and Recreation helping children feel better about themselves, worked as a crossing guard which allowed me to feel better about myself because I was making it safe for children and now I am a toll collector on the beach ramps and see families coming to the beach with lots of smiles. It’s important to have a sense of purpose and I felt that I lost it at one point but working and staying fit has allowed me to gain it back ❤️