Most problems need to be addressed at some point, yet this is one I have somehow side-stepped for years. And I must admit that, of all the problems I have experienced in my life, this is one of the least serious.
It has to do with the management of three little letters. No, not the IRS. Nor the FBI. Nor RIP. Not anything as serious as all that.
The letters in question are PhD. And if you have acquired one of these, what do you do?
Doing a doctorate is probably one of the more joyless experiences on which we embark voluntarily during the course of our lives. You do it because it is there, a qualification which will make you more, er, qualified for the work you want to do, usually an academic post.
Actually, I didn’t do a PhD for this reason. Doing it was free (at the time, a perk of being a university wife), and although I wasn’t quite sure where I was going, I thought it might help in some vague way.
And I liked the idea that if anyone phoned our house and asked for Dr. Richardson, I could say, “Which one?” This was long before mobile phones got the caller to the right person first time.
(Neither of these are particularly good reasons to do a PhD, but they didn’t make it any easier to do the work. Indeed, for complicated reasons, I had two concurrent supervisors who together put me through a lot of hoops. And once I had the qualification, when people phoned, I found it a bit embarrassing to ask, “Which one?”)
When you start a PhD, you probably don’t know how joyless it will be. I certainly didn’t.
But leaving aside the coursework (which wasn’t part of the deal in my time – mid 1970s UK), you spend all your time learning more and more about less and less. You are ‘deep into the weeds’, to use the current cliché, and you are there alone. With luck, you find it fascinating, but not everyone does.
It takes so long, it is hard not to get a bit fed up along the way. No one else is interested, although your supervisor may pretend to be, as needed. Your family and friends are very quickly bored with the subject and will begin to yawn at the first suggestion that you are about to launch into a discussion of some finer points.
But finally, and I do mean finally, you finish the darn thing, hand it in, get tested on it and are told you have been successful. You have a PhD. Congratulations all round.
But what do you do with it? Do you rush about and change every place where your name is listed, such as your driving licence or your Visa card? I have a feeling that is what people do now.
Perhaps surprisingly, it isn’t what I did then. My husband was an academic and he said that since everyone had a PhD, it was rather infra-dig to make much of it. And not wanting to be seen as flash, I didn’t make a big deal. My friends and family knew I had passed the hurdle, but that was about that.
I decided I didn’t want to move into academia. What I had been doing was social research (both beforehand and during the period of study) and I continued to do so, but I didn’t suddenly sign myself with the word ‘Dr’ nor put PhD after my name. I was known to the relevant authorities to be a reliable and thoughtful researcher, and I really didn’t think they would consider me any better if I added my new qualification.
I did keep an eye on what other people did and had some surprises. Some people who published books put their name on the cover (of course, we all do that), followed by PhD, i.e., Mary Smith, PhD. Some people went further and showed their qualification at both ends: Dr Mary Smith, PhD. Definitely overkill. I published books and never mentioned the qualification. I didn’t think it made my books any better.
But some 10 years later, I revisited the issue and thought here I am with a PhD and not even telling anyone – and perhaps that is a bit silly. So, I changed my professional name to Dr. Ann Richardson on official letters or when meeting people for work. Nothing much changed as a result.
I never changed my Visa card or my passport or anything else to do with me as a person. I remain Mrs. Ann Richardson. Who cares?
But I will admit it comes in handy when I want to write to anyone in authority with a complaint. I am definitely Dr. Richardson in such circumstances. I have no idea if it helps, but I did recently get a quick response to a letter to my local Council, whereas a neighbour did not.
And what does one do with an Honorary PhD? By some freak of fate, I was awarded one of these years ago by Mt Holyoke College, although I never learned why. So, I officially have a Doctorate in Humane Letters (a wonderful title which sounds both kindly and literate at the same time). This is shown on my CV (resume) as D.HL (Hon).
I have never ever used it anywhere, although I did write about receiving it in my recent book. It will go down in the historical listing of ‘things no one ever knew’.
I don’t know what other people do. I have no reason to be looking at many CVs of important or semi-important people. If they are self-important, I could make a good guess.
Of course it is. If you need the qualification. It is essential.
And in my case, I would say it was, too, but for completely different reasons. It gave a huge boost to my confidence. It wasn’t being called ‘Doctor Richardson’ – it was the fact of having climbed that mountain and learned a lot along the way.
One supervisor said, “You will never be daunted at the prospect of writing a book.” And he was right. I never am.
And I can always throw in those letters if the situation warrants it.
I earned them.
Do you have a degree? Where do you write it and for what occasions? What did it take for you to earn it?
I’m glad you did go on and get it and then you wouldn’t feel so harassed by it. In my early 40s I did go back and get my masters and was encouraged to go on to get my Ph.D. but I had two little boys and a husband and my work did not need a Ph.D. And I proved with my masters (getting a 4.0 on everything) that I was smart enough and didn’t have to do anything else.
Good for you. Sounds like you made a good decision.
Ann, I absolutely loved your article and could relate to every word despite not having exactly the same experiences. Having seen what my fellow graduates experienced while pursuing a PhD, I left university after happily completing an MA. While I absolutely loved the pursuit of knowledge and learning, the stress was too much and I knew that for me, it would only intensify. Interestingly, my female friends with PhDs sometimes had to hide “those pesky letters” when applying for jobs. “Over qualified” “Intimidating to interviewers” etc. meanwhile my MA opened doors for me. Let’s all wear any and all of our letters with pride, we earned them. Thanks for a great read!
Thanks very much. I wrote this article ages ago and then tucked it away as I didn’t think anyone would be interested, but oddly enough, there is more interest in this than many other articles I have written.
Thank you for your perspective on having achieved your doctoral degree. It sounds as though you have benefited from the achievement, while retaining a realistic and humble view.
I have a rather different experience, having attained the not-very-admirable status of ABD. Yes, I left academia after completing most of my coursework and readying myself for the rigors of researching and writing my disseertation. Why did I desert? Who knows? It was years ago and I recall being lured away by marriage and the prospect of having babies and making a home.
Fortunately, I have had a great career in clinical and epidemiological research, but NOT completing my PhD is one of the great regrets of my life. I loved the field of study and everything about academia…just not enough.
So kudos to you. Even if you didn’t quite know where you were going with it, you finished the job.
I too am ABD. No regrets.I was working in corporate jobs in organizational development, leadership education,instructional design (early e-learning).
I was also going to school and doing a lot of business travel.
After I finished my coursework, completed 3 chapters of my dissertation and passed a 3 day written exam, the university denied a request for an extention. Instead, I was informed I needed to retake classes I had already completed in my masters program because the credit hours were now too old. I would have to retake 5 classes (same instructor,same book) By the time I completed that my qualifying exam and some other requirements would need to be repeated because they too would all be outdated! SO their request in effect had me doing the work of close to two PhDs! And, to add to the fun, my company paid tuition would not pay for repeat classes, pass/no pass grades or credit hours(which covers many reseachc hours and writing).
My committee chair and I believed this was political at heart. She was the head of the professors union at the time.
The ombudsman offered no help and I wasn’t going to hire a lawyer.
Since I had no intention of going into academic work- I left the program. Thus ABD. I wear it with pride and it makes for a good conversation starter.
I did enjoy the advanced classes and gained a great deal from the program. I also learned a lot about the politics of university/academic careers.I went on to enjoy 25 more years in corporate jobs.
Sounds like you were really put through the ringer! I’m glad you had a good career without the D.
ABD is fine.I think the process is quicker now (in the US, perhaps) but spending three years on one subject with no one to discuss it with is a bit tough. Yes, I liked what the process did for me, but it’s not an easy ride. If you have had a great career, then that’s the main thing. Don’t regret! (remember Piaf – “je ne regrette rien”)
I read for a BA in Modern History at Queen Mary, London in my mid 30s. It helped me get into jobs within the Arts and Heritage Sectors that I would not have previously been considered for (before university I’d worked as an administrator for 10 years in a foreign City bank and was stuck there).
I eventually moved away from London and went into business with my husband, then in 2014 he was offered a 6 month contract in Switzerland and we’ve been here ever since. We could run our company remotely so I still worked for it part time until we closed it in 2019, by that point I was 58.
I had sights on going further than a BA, but a spell of ill health intervened followed by business commitments, then when I moved to Switzerland I needed to take German language classes. Retirement is looming and I’ll be moving back to Scotland so I haven’t completely given up on the idea yet!
Retirement is a great period for learning. In my view, life really gets started then. You don’t have to worry about the qualifications – just learn, learn, learn and do whatever you want. It’s great. My last book is all about why i like being old (I am 83, so I definitely qualify!)
Joyless?! Not at all, in my experience. The six years of coursework and research for the Ph.D., as well as the postdoc years at Johns Hopkins, were some of the most joyful years of my life. Intense, difficult, strenuous, yes, with very long days (never less than 10 hours) and never a weekend off. But this time was filled with the joys of learning and discovery, and in the final year, the more mature joys of creating new knowledge and sharing it with other researchers, in peer-reviewed publications and professional presentations. (Not to mention the professorial life, which involved writing many books and articles, and teaching graduate students, with an almost familial joy in “well raising the young” of the next generation of scholars and researchers; and of course there’s teaching undergraduates, but that’s a completely different thing and not nearly so joyful for most of us.) Anyway: for me, now Emerita, the deep happiness and satisfation in my long career began with the delights of the Ph.D., and I’d hate for any younger women reading us to become discouraged. It can be extremely joyful, though certainly challenging, requiring, as you suggest, considerable stamina and tenacity.
I am genuinely sorry, Dr. Richardson, that you had a joyless experience. I know that programs vary widely, but it is just terrible that your program was not intellectually exciting or rewarding enough to bring you these joys, But I’m also glad you found joy afterwards. Perhaps that makes up for it? Hope so.
And the “pesky letters”: I don’t find them pesky at all. I use them in professional settings only as appropriate, and not at all in personal settings. One good questions is: are the male PhDs in a given setting using them? Then you should too. This may be culturally and situationally determined, of course.
I’m glad you have it all sorted and enjoyed even your PhD. There are lots of people like you. I’m glad I learned what I learned, but it was difficult and lonely. Life has been much better since.
So good that it ended well for you; that’s what counts.