Taylor Swift at 70 (Me, Not Her): What I Learned at this Late Stage from The Eras Tour
The email subject line included a heart emoji – “♥Calling Taylor Swift Fans” – and offered presale access to The Eras Tour, scheduled in nearby Tampa for shortly before my 70th birthday. “Maybe this could be an early present to myself,” I thought. And was it ever.
I learned a lot from beginning to end, and to mark my seven decades I noted seven lessons I picked up from participating.
Don’t Give Up Just Because Technology Is Typically a Fresh Hell of Frustration
As a Capital One customer, I was sent a link to the presale. I got kicked off the waiting screen twice, but on my third try, I got in! I paid face value for high-demand tickets and enjoyed five months of bragging rights for something that was due mostly to luck.
Facebook Remains Relevant After All
I joined the “Taylor Swift Eras Tour Tampa Shows” Facebook group, which gave me an insider’s view of Swiftie culture, listed neighborhood driveway alternatives to stadium parking, and clued me into where to find itty-bitty purses that complied with the stadium’s bag-size restrictions.
A question I posted about whether other older people were attending spawned 60 “you go, girl” comments and also caught the attention of a 75-year-old, non-ticket-holding superfan who eagerly snapped up my spare ticket since I was using only three of the four I’d purchased.
Dress Up Is Still Fun
I casually threw on a red top with jeans to honor the “Red” album, but most attendees thoughtfully put together outfits representing a favorite among the 10 Taylor Swift eras, a.k.a. albums.
The floor-length prairie dresses draping “Folklore” and “Evermore” fans contrasted with the middle eras’ glam of shorts and miniskirts beneath bustiers and midriff tops. The scene was Halloween on fringed, sequined, booted steroids – all colors and fabrics welcome, shine appreciated, tulle a plus.
The Best Concerts Are Singalongs
Live music is a group activity that fosters camaraderie as we experience it together. Two of my adult daughters joined me, making this an even more special pre-birthday occasion, but in a way the whole crowd felt like family. We sang in unison, and when the words failed me, I could take cues from Swifties facing each other to mirror animated pronunciation.
The Formula for Success – Talent+Drive – Hasn’t Changed
Taylor Swift arrived in Nashville as a 14-year-old singer-songwriter with a pile of songs already crafted. While it took a large team to bring a grand show like The Eras Tour to the concert stage, this was really the tour de force of one person.
Taylor provided all the vocals for the 44 self-penned songs, didn’t stop moving for three and a quarter hours, played piano, strummed guitar and worked the ever-changing choreography. In Tampa, she did this for three consecutive nights.
What Has Changed Is the Production
Architectural Digest devoted an entire article to The Eras Tour’s “intricate world-building” – the imaginative, mesmerizing staging that transformed seamlessly with each segment of the setlist. And we didn’t have to show appreciation by holding up a lighter as in the old days or flashing a cell phone as in the newer old days, because we were each handed a programmed bracelet that lit up periodically in multiple colors to create a bleachers sideshow.
Heed One of Taylor’s Biggest Hits: “You Need to Calm Down”
Anticipating the concert, I had a fair amount of anxiety, rooted partly in my TV news-fed doubts about whether a crowd of roughly 70,000 could be peaceful. And it felt like such an ordeal, from the chance-of-rain forecast to likely long concession lines to the late-night drive back to my home in Sarasota.
It would have been so much easier to just not go. But attendees couldn’t have been nicer or the weather better or the process more orderly or the stadium staff more polite. At 11pm, the women’s restrooms were stocked with thick toilet paper rolls. I was not expecting that.
My bottom line was that this experience was so worth the effort. I think the pandemic turned many of us into frightened homebodies, and maybe it’s time to shed our thin Covid skin. If you’re able to score tickets for The Eras Tour, perhaps coming to a city near you on one of the remaining dates, I suggest you pick yourself up, dig out your sparkly bodysuit and, as Taylor sings, “make the whole place shimmer.”
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Have you been to a concert recently? Whose concert was it? Did you feel anxiety before you went? What did you feel afterwards? Do you think it was worth it? What did you bring back home as lessons learned?
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At the young ages of 70 and 75 my sister and I will be heading to Levi Stadium with my daughter (who brought me up on listening to Taylor Swift from the beginning years) for a night of singing, dancing and just having fun!!!! Yes, we are wearing and sharing friendship bracelets!!!
No is ever too old for concerts.
I work on this tour and I have been in every city and although I have not intensely watched her performance on every show because I have seen it over and over again lol, I do love watching all of you. I love watching the little girls and the ladies singing the words to every single song and being so happy to be there. We work really hard to bring this show from City to city and so it’s really neat for me to see how happy you are!
That’s so sweet! It’s cool to hear that the support staff appreciates how special they’re making this for the fans. It’s been a long time coming for women to feel validated when we take the lead, spending our time in non-competitive activities or crying to express emotion or singing our hearts out or beading our own bracelets to trade. This is just the way many of us are, at any age.
Back in 2008 I want to say(could have been earlier) but it was before Taylor Swift was a household name, I went to Colorado to visit my friend and she said “I got us tickets to the Taylor Swift concert” to which my reply was “Taylor who?” This was before she was a huge pop star and was a country singer. In Colorado all you pretty much hear is country music. So we went to see Taylor Swift before she was the superstar that she is today and the show was great. It was obviously in a much smaller event without out all the hustle and bustle, the bells and whistles and the fanfare. I would never even think about trying to get tickets for her current tour. And I’m not hating on Taylor not at all, I just loved her show before she was a huge star and the show was simple and all about the music, not how many costume changes she can do in a 10 minute time frame.
The woman who bought my extra ticket saw Taylor back then as well – at the Tampa-area’s Strawberry Festival. At that point Taylor was just one more singer trying to break through the country girl landscape. I agree that it’s special to see those small-venue concerts. This is not that – but it’s a triumph of technology meeting artistry meeting uber-celebrity. To me, it’s kind of fascinating to watch someone go from Strawberry Festival level to packing stadiums all summer long and bringing true joy to millions.
This is so wonderful!! Thank you for sharing what you learned from a fantastic experience. Health problems have kept me from attending anything for now. But those problems are being dealt with, so who knows what the future holds? Also, I love it that a 75 y/o woman used one of your tickets! Thank you for your encouragement ❤️
I wish you better health, Deborah! Our hearts stay young while our bodies age and can keep us from continuing some of the things we used to enjoy. Climbing bleachers, being among thousands of people, even sitting in a confined space – all not as easy as it used to be, and health problems seem to crop up one after another these days. That’s one of the reasons I decided to go – do it while I can. I bet you get there, too!