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My Journey of a Total Knee Replacement (Part One)

By Lily Bradshaw September 05, 2025 Health and Fitness

After an injury about 18 months ago, I had been experiencing pain in my right knee and noticed that it was looking a little thicker than the other.

I telephoned my doctor who arranged for an appointment with a physiotherapist. He sent me straight to the local hospital for x-rays, and called the following morning to say I had developed severe arthritis and, in his opinion, would need a total knee replacement.

Could I Delay It?

To be honest, I was taken aback by this news. I had always been extremely healthy, and I knew a TKR (Total Knee Replacement) would mean a long recovery, something I felt I didn’t have time for. I wouldn’t be able to drive for between six and eight weeks. I live alone, with no family within a hundred miles. I wasn’t worried about the operation at all, but I was worried about how I would cope with being immobile for so long.

I decided I would try to delay it as long as possible. I felt the damage was already done, so I would just have to accept the pain, and do what I could to delay the inevitable. I took calcium and turmeric supplements, began a healthy eating regime, started aqua aerobics, and spent as long as I could in the sunshine.

Things Became Worse

Sadly, things became worse very quickly. My knee started giving way, and I had several falls. It also hurt a great deal and walking was extremely painful. I dropped from walking around 15,000 steps a day to about 500. I couldn’t even walk around a supermarket! As much as I didn’t want to accept it, I knew something had to be done.

Seeing My X-rays Was a Turning Point

I went to see my doctor again to ask if there was any other course of action other than the TKR. She showed me the x-rays on screen, indicating I had severe osteoarthritis, and said she could understand how painful it must be as it was bone on bone. The doctor explained that my options were: do nothing, injections, physiotherapy, or a TKR. In her opinion, the only real course of action was the knee replacement. Sadly, I was beginning to agree.

Operation Assessment

I was sent to a lovely lady called Sara Pearce, a specialist in joint replacement. She went through the operation, the recovery and the potential outcomes. She also agreed that a TKR was the only thing that would really make a difference long term.

It was helpful to have time to talk things through without feeling under any pressure. When I left the office, I was given a pamphlet explaining the operation and what I could do before – for example, exercises and getting my home ready – and also how to prepare for the long recuperation after the operation.

All Systems Go!

The following week I received a letter saying I could choose where I wanted the operation done. My local hospital was approximately a one-year wait, but I could go private and it would be a wait of only four to six weeks… and the NHS would pay! I had heard this might be a possibility and also met a few people at my aqua class who had chosen this opportunity, all extolling their fabulous care. All things considered, I was very happy :)

I called to make my pre-operation appointment and was given a date of September 17th. The operation would be a week or two after. So here I am… preparing my home, filling my cupboards, exercising my muscles and, most importantly, preparing my mind. I know going into this the more positive I am, the better.

Wish me luck :) 

Join the Conversation:

Have you had a knee replacement? What was your experience? Has it changed your life?

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Karen

good luck. I have the same results and will have to TKR in December. It is the soonest I can do it because of work time off.

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Karen, thank you for joining the conversation. I really hope your surgery goes well. Sending you the best of luck for December! Lily x

susan

I could have written this…. I’ve suffered with torn meniscus and osteoarthritis for a few years but after tearing my ACL last May in Portugal on holiday, I haven’t been able to walk far. Finally got an MRI, then referral to orthopaedic surgeon and now I’m waiting for my date for surgery. It will be within the next 3 to 4 months and I’m looking forward to being able to walk again…..

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Susan, thank you for joining the conversation. Oh poor you! I know the pain and frustration of waiting for your meniscus to heal, then finding out something else is wrong! Wishing you the best of luck! Lily x

christy

Glad for the candor, I will need this in the n

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Christy, thank you for joining the conversation. I hope your surgery (if that was what you were about to say!) goes well. Lily x

Nancy Kaminskas

I will be very interested to hear about your experience. I have just accepted that I will need a TKR. Waiting for a consult with my surgeon. I had hip replacement about 14 years ago and really didn’t want to have any more surgeries but on the other hand, I want to travel and walking is a prerequisite 😉

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Nancy, thank you for joining the conversation. As a fellow traveller I know how difficult it can be when you cannot walk properly. I will be writing a couple of follow up articles. Good luck with your operation. Lily x

Judy

I am 6 months post op for my right knee and it’s great to not had that bone on bone pain! This surgery has a longer recovery compared to other joint replacements but worth it. My advise, keep active before surgery as possible. I put mine off for 2 yrs because I had a lot of dental work that needed to be done first. So I went I. Amazon and looked for some comfortable and supportive knee compression sleeves. When I walked I used my hiking stick. Also physical therapy after the surgery is oh so important!

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Judy, thank you for joining the conversation. That is lovely to hear, thank you! I know it is quite a long road to recovery but I am so looking forward to it! Lily x

The Author

Lily Bradshaw has had an interesting and varied career. Twenty years working as a psychotherapist and part time lecturer, followed by 20 years of writing educational courses. Now she is enjoying semi retirement writing books and articles that interest her, mostly about having fun and enjoying life. She has spent the last 2 years travelling solo.

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