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6 Benefits of Shopping Online for Personal Hygiene Products

By Jennifer Stern August 13, 2024 Lifestyle

Do you ever feel embarrassed about buying personal hygiene products, like bladder control, sexual health or even denture products?

Has pride stopped you from adhering to day-to-day tasks of taking care of yourself or enjoying your sex life? Have you considered using online shopping to avoid uncomfortable glances?

Motivated by More Than Money

While speaking with a group of seniors, I noticed money wasn’t the only motivator for some of them to start browsing online.

While saving cash is a huge perk, and the convenience of buying from your own home is ideal, some seniors may benefit from the anonymity of the Internet.

This includes everyday products that some people may be embarrassed or less likely to buy in front of strangers, or when out shopping with friends or family.

Bodily Functions

It’s not a secret that some bodily functions come with a certain level of shyness, and using the toilet is a discrete act. Unfortunately, as we age, incontinence, constipation, even intestinal gas and other ailments become more and more common.

Moreover, some necessary medications cause unfortunate side effects, increasing the stigmatized problem.

Purchasing products to treat these conditions is often the best way to approach these natural but unfortunate realities. Yet some individuals would rather not have anyone else be aware of their ailments.

Sexuality

Local pharmacies provide condoms, personal lubricants and other sexual health products sold over the counter and through prescriptions. Yet some people, including the over-60 crowd are reluctant to buy these products out in the open.

Seniors, among all age groups, may also experience shyness walking into a sex shop for adult toys. Despite shops offering discretion with purchases, some shy shoppers are likely spending less (or no) time browsing the aisles.

Anonymity and Convenience

While there is nothing to be embarrassed about, pride can be a strong emotion, and no one should feel ashamed. A huge benefit to online shopping is doing so from your own home. It’s private.

A lot of seniors depend on family members to help them with shopping and errands. Would you want to buy condoms when out with adult kids? Or read the side of a bottle of personal lubricant when your do-good nephew is waiting for you to choose?

Shy shoppers can research products, price-compare and buy everything online – from bladder protection, assisted living products and sexual enhancers – have them delivered home and avoid any eye contact with people aware of their product choices.

Benefits and Quality of Life

With product availability and the elimination of personal barriers, some seniors are more likely to take better care of themselves. Through use of proper hygiene products that can be potentially embarrassing, common problems are less likely to snowball into larger medical problems.

Even something as common as dentures can create a shy reluctance. I had a grandparent who hid the fact that she wore them from me. She would rather go without the proper products than ask me to pick up something from the store for her, and we all know that avoiding oral hygiene wreaks havoc.

The Bigger Issue

The true stigma surrounding seniors and their needs related to bodily functions, sexuality and independent living likely won’t be eliminated by avoiding the mainstream acceptance.

However, shopping online allows seniors to address their needs in such a way that is easy for them. It’s up to society, in general, to reduce the negativity and ignorance to such matters.

There are too many ageist stereotypes about seniors and sex, basic daily requirements and quality of life, and these need to be wiped out by all of us, not just the seniors they impact.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you shop online for personal hygiene products? Have you considered using online shopping to avoid making embarrassing purchases? Please share your experiences and thoughts.

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Christie

Yes! I have been shopping on-line for a couple of years now for personal products. It is a godsend. You have many more products to choose from than in an actual store, and nobody is watching or waiting. I wish this had been available back when I was having to buy Depends for my father. I figured everyone in line was thinking they were for me. They couldn’t miss them because I had to buy lots of them at a time, and the clerk always had trouble trying to fit them in the little bags. I was in my 40s when my parents were in their 80s, so I found it embarrassing, but necessary. I agree wholeheartedly that on-line shopping is great for personal hygiene shopping!

Wilhelmina

I don’t shop on line for my personal products. The cashier could care less what I purchase. If one is shy- especially when with family one could call the store and ask to have it set aside for you to pick up, or ask family member to meet you in set time as you have personal business to attend to…

The Author

Jennifer Stern is a self-described "writer in geek's clothing." Drawing upon years of communications experience in the tech industry, she writes to address common concerns about technology and the internet, specifically for Canadian seniors. She believes seniors can benefit from embracing technology and the convenience it offers.

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