In the never-ending quest to reach a desirable weight, some cultures that are worth studying are the French and the classic Mediterraneans, i.e., Greeks and Italians. When adhering to their classical way of eating, people in both cultures generally do not have a problem with weight.

Scientists have long been puzzled as to why the French, who eat a high-fat diet, are rarely overweight and have a lower incidence of heart disease than do the low-fat crazed Americans.

The answer may be pretty simple: The French, Greeks and Italians, for the most part, eat real food, locally grown. Also, they enjoy the experience of eating.

If you’d like to abandon dieting once and for all, look at these seven tips and see which of them align with your present eating style. It may also be a good idea to embrace the ones that do not constitute a part of your current eating patterns. You will feel and look better in a very short while.

Healthy Eating Secret #1 – Eat Small Portions

Eat small portions of really good and real food.

“Real” food is food in its original form – fresh vegetables, whole grains, fruit, nuts, seeds, legumes, unprocessed meat and fish.

Healthy Eating Secret #2 – Get Variety

Eat a wide variety of food, mostly fruits, vegetables and whole grains.

Healthy Eating Secret #3 – Don’t Skip Meals

Don’t skip meals (you won’t forget to eat meals when you stop snacking!).

Healthy Eating Secret #4 – Eat Locally

Enjoy your food and choose fresh, locally grown, quality ingredients when possible.

Healthy Eating Secret #2 – Get In Touch with Your Body

Listen to your internal cues. When you no longer feel hungry, stop eating.

Healthy Eating Secret #2 –  Avoid the Sweet Stuff!

Eat less sugar, a product found in nearly all processed foods. The French eat less than half as much as Americans do. Current research suggests that sugar, not saturated fat, may be a key dietary contributor to heart disease because of its inflammatory nature.

Healthy Eting Secret #2 – Be More Social

Make meal time social when you can. It can be more pleasurable. Just be sure to remove the serving dishes from the table after everyone is served. Linger over tea, not food.

Do Not Diet

What does the word “diet” bring up for you? Hunger? Deprivation? Doing without the food you love? How could that possibly work? Statistically, 85% of the time dieting does not work. Who wants to feel deprived? Not me!

What really works in maintaining a healthy weight is tuning into your hunger signals, having quality food in your refrigerator and pantry, and eating enough – but not too much. Eating in this way gives you room to have a treat now and then without guilt or any of those feelings that come up with dieting.

I developed my online program, 6 Weeks to Diet Freedom, for that very reason. It’s much easier to be successful with your eating habits when you know you will have delicious, healthy food than when someone tells you to only eat what you’re ‘allowed.’

The French have their cheese and chocolate, but in small bites of high quality. The Italians love their pasta, but the flour is unprocessed and the vegetables are the main event. These cultures eat slowly and savor their food.

Between Meal Hunger

If you feel hungry in between meals, there are several things you can do. You can look back at your previous meal and see if you might need a bit more protein (humus, fish, beans, meat, yogurt) or fat (nuts, meat, fish, olive oil, avocado, olives). Or you might discover that you go to the kitchen out of habit, not really out of hunger. Pay attention to your actions, and most importantly, eat quality food and tune into your hunger signals so you have enough, but not too much, to eat.

Soup Solves Many Problems

I’m a summer person, but one thing I love about the cold weather is making soups again. Soup is a melting pot for all things good – vegetables, lentils, beans and herbs. Find some recipes you love (there are many on my website) and have a pot of something ready to enjoy. Soup works as an appetizer, a full-on meal or as a between meal snack. Here is a Squash Soup, one of my favorites and very easy to prepare.


1 peeled and chopped butternut squash

1 small sweet potato, quartered

1 large onion, quartered

1 tbs. coriander

1 tbs. olive or avocado oil

1/2 tsp. dried basil

1/2 tsp. cinnamon

1/2 tsp. cumin


Sauté the onion in the oil. Add the other ingredients along with 4 cups vegetable or chicken broth. Bring to a boil and reduce heat to simmer for 20 minutes.

When cool enough, pour into blender or food processor to puree.

Garnish with slivered almonds and a sprig of parsley.

What habits have you noticed about the way you eat that work for you? Are there habits do you want to change? Please share in the comments below!

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