In our fast-paced, stressful world of heavy traffic, long commutes, crowds of people, intense work demands, and constant bombardment with news of political upheaval and war, there is another way of looking at the world – a way that brings peace. This worldview is the haven that can be called spirituality. It unlocks a dimension of life beyond what we experience on the sensory and physical levels.
It is found inside us. It invites us to explore our inner depths and to find harmony – with ourselves, with others, and with the sublime forces that guide the universe. Spirituality can be a profound journey of self-discovery and enlightenment. It is a pathway to inner peace and fulfilment.
Spirituality begins with a feeling, a sense, or belief, that there is something greater than ourselves pervading the universe and us. We acknowledge that reality is more than what we perceive with our five puny senses. That greater energy, or force, is close to us, and if we reach out to it, it will contact us. Some of us find this easier than others do.
We are fortunate if we have a strong sense of the energy around us, but if we don’t, it is enough to believe that it is possible and reach out in faith. This reaching out to begin a relationship with the ultimate is the beginning of spirituality. In The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself, Michael A. Singer describes this process in an easily understood exposition.
Spirituality is not synonymous with adherence to any specific religious worldview. Religions are organized systems of ideas and rituals whose purpose is to engage with the divine in a form understood by their adherents. They are usually practised in groups. These systems can be a uniting force in a community, and they encourage individuals to find the numinous in a form they can understand and accept.
person can be religious without being spiritual – a zealous adherent to a religious system who has no personal relationship with the ultimate. As Eckhart Tolle states in The Power of Now, “Being spiritual has nothing to do with what you believe and everything to do with your state of consciousness.” Neither does it require renunciation of the material world. Rather, it encourages a balanced perspective that integrates spiritual insights into daily life.
Becoming spiritual involves a journey inward; it’s a process of self-exploration and reflection. We take this journey accompanied by our higher self – that is, the calm and compassionate version of ourselves that is above the fray of everyday life. I like to think of mine as my awesome best friend.
Practices such as meditation, mindfulness, yoga, contemplation, prayer, or spending time in nature facilitate this inner journey by connecting us with our inner selves and the universal energy in the natural world. Examining ourselves and our belief systems and being honest with ourselves are also important. They lead to deeper understanding of ourselves and to inner transformation and positive growth. This path, then, is a way to become a mature human being.
Spirituality is all about living life in personal companionship with the universal force that flows through everything. This makes us strong, because nature is strong. Often nature seems it is being cruel to be kind. The herd of deer remains young, healthy and strong because the predators keep it that way. The forest is renewed when lightning strikes, setting it ablaze.
Spirituality helps us learn to accept the big picture and act as does nature when necessary. For instance, all creatures act in self-defence, and so may we. All creatures are first concerned with their own safety and well-being, and so should we be. We can’t support others unless we are strong ourselves.
Spirituality’s inner journey has been a source of comfort and inspiration to millions of people. In my experience, those who take this narrow path discover that it works. Spiritual people find that we are loved unconditionally by the universe that produced us, and we are called to develop the better side of our nature to create a world of peace for ourselves and those around us.
Embracing spirituality can yield profound benefits for individuals and communities alike. On a personal level, it fosters inner peace and resilience in the face of adversity. It gives a deeper sense of purpose as we train ourselves to live a life full of love on all levels. It promotes mental and emotional well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and depression.
Spirituality also enhances interpersonal relationships by fostering empathy, compassion, and understanding. We accept the people around us with the unconditional love we experience from the universe. This spills over into our relationships with our community and the society around us.
Studies suggest that spiritual practices can positively impact physical health, immune function and overall longevity. Researchers at Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health say, “Spirituality should be incorporated into care for both serious illness and overall health.” The Oxford Textbook of Spirituality in Healthcare makes it clear that spirituality is being taken very seriously by the medical profession.
In his book The Road Less Travelled, M. Scott Peck observes, “The whole course of human history may depend on a change of heart in one solitary and even humble individual—for it is in the solitary mind and soul of the individual that the battle between good and evil is waged and ultimately won or lost.” This is the choice we are here to make. The Awakened Brain: The New Science of Spirituality and the Quest for an Inspired Life by Lisa J. Miller, a New York Times bestselling author, makes that same point, backing it up with scientific evidence.
What is the relationship you have with the ultimate? Have you found a spiritual community? Are you a happy person?
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Happiness is ephemeral. I’d go with peaceful. I relocated at 70, single to the northeast. It’s not so easy meeting people, making friends here and this is cultural. I have put myself out there to exhaustion. Having come from a tightly-knit spiritual community (mostly Buddhist and incorporating other philosophies/belief systems) to a New England one, I can not say this has been easy for me. I moved here to be closer to children and this has been wonderful. I know I need more balance in my life and that comes with being part of a community which I am not. Working to reset myself. The sad reality is that I am not alone. Others seem content to stay in a depressed mindset and disconnected. I’m a social gerontologist by training and see this behavior in volumes.
I’ve been in that position too, Janel. The building I live in has 800 apartments, and a large number of the tenants are older people who have sold their homes, and down-sized. The building is attached to a mall, which is wonderful as everything we need is in the mall. Everything except activities. I’ve written a book about the Groups I started in the building, from Bridge, Book Group, to Mindfulness. It’s available on Amazon. You may find it gives you ideas as to how to create a community for yourself.
https://www.amazon.ca/s?k=alainnah+robertson&crid=3ITNS8A1D3V65&sprefix=%2Caps%2C111&ref=nb_sb_ss_recent_1_0_recent
Saying religion does not deal with spirituality is just wrong. I used to meditate but nothing brings me profound peace as going to Catholic Mass, learning the Gospel and how it relates to our lives. It feels like God’s grace drapes me with the incoming sense of peace, yet with a tingling energy of love, a soft embrace. I just started going to Mass after being away for 40 years, and have noticed a profound difference in my life.
Many people find God in religion, Valerie. I know what you mean about the peace and sense of God’s presence and love in the Catholic Mass. How wonderful you have found it after such a long time! :)
She doesn’t say religion doesn’t deal with spirituality. “These systems can be a uniting force in a community, and they encourage individuals to find the numinous in a form they can understand and accept.” Numinous meaning spiritual quality/feeling the presence of divinity. Then, the next sentence is missing the first word. I think the first word might be “But” giving meaning to the sentence that a person CAN be religious and not spiritual. Just because someone is going through the religious motions doesn’t automatically mean they’re spiritual people. You, however, have clearly found your spiritual strength by attending Mass. I think her overall message is…..find your spiritual connection where you can (church, nature, meditation etc) and nurture that private relationship.
Thank you, Stacy! You’ve said it so beautifully. :)
I am comforted and guided by my “Spirit Team” constantly. When the world is too much and earthly relationships drift apart, especially with family members, I call upon my spiritual guides. I am reminded Life is good, the Universe takes care of us, I am right where I am meant to be, and not to take things too seriously. As a survivor of early childhood abuse, I have always drawn strength from this energy source. I believe it comes from the collective spirit of my deceased family members watching over me – I call them my Angels.
Good for you, Kathy! It works! :)