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Janet Gourand stopped drinking at 63 and founded Tribe Sober, an international community helping people change their relationship with alcohol. Now 75, she has written her first book, The Tribe Sober 90-Day Reset: How Smart, Successful People Quit Drinking, which shares her personal journey and a practical roadmap to alcohol-free living.

Latest Posts By Janet Gourand

24 hours ago

Is Wine Really the Retirement Treat We Think It Is? 7 Lessons I Learnt After Quitting at 63

Towards the end of my corporate career, I used to spend quite a lot of time dreaming about my retirement. I had a very clear picture in my mind. There I was, sitting in a beautiful garden, reading a good book, with a large glass of chilled white wine beside me. No meetings. No deadlines. No demanding colleagues…

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1 month ago

What Kind of Drinker Are You?

Are you someone who enjoys a glass or two of wine every evening? Perhaps you rarely drink during the week but look forward to a few glasses of wine at the weekend. Or maybe alcohol appears only at dinners, celebrations and social occasions. Most of us have no problem justifying our drinking habit. The daily […]

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2 months ago

Why Are Older People Drinking More?

Alcohol use among senior citizens is on the rise. Although historically older adults were less likely to drink than younger adults, recent studies show that older adults are now drinking more frequently and in larger quantities than in the past…

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4 months ago

Brain Fog in Our 60s: Why So Many Women Feel Like They’re Losing Their Edge

Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you went there? Opened your laptop and completely blanked on the password you’ve used for years? Lost your train of thought halfway through a conversation? If so, you’re not alone. One of the most common concerns I hear from women who are 60 plus…

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4 months ago

Could Alcohol Be Making Aging Harder Than It Needs to Be?

A few months ago, a friend told me about an older woman who had fallen at a wedding. “She was dancing,” he explained. “She stumbled and went down. She’d been drinking.” The story stayed with me because falls are no small matter as we get older. A broken wrist, a fractured hip, or a head injury can change the course of a life in an instant…

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5 months ago

11 Ways Life Gets Better When You Stop Drinking

On 23rd May I celebrated 11 years without alcohol. I stopped drinking at 63, and now at 74, I can honestly say I feel happier and healthier than I did when I was drinking. That still surprises me sometimes. For many years, alcohol felt woven into the fabric of my life…

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5 months ago

Why I Stopped Drinking in My 60s – and Never Looked Back

I didn’t stop drinking because I hit rock bottom. I stopped at 63, after a lifetime of what most people would call normal drinking. A glass of wine in the evening. Sometimes two. Occasionally more at weekends or social occasions…

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7 months ago

6 Reasons to Take a Break from Alcohol

There often comes a quiet moment. Not dramatic. Not urgent. Just a pause. A moment when you begin to wonder whether something that once felt like a treat is no longer serving you in quite the same way. From the outside, everything looks fine. You are managing life, responsibilities, relationships…

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9 months ago

Breaking Free from Alcohol… in Just 3 Months

For many women in midlife, drinking doesn’t look like a “problem.” There are no lost jobs, no dramatic rock bottoms, no intervention scenes from a movie. Instead, it looks like a glass of wine every evening. Then two. Then the bottle quietly becoming a daily companion…

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10 months ago

7 Rules to Aging Gracefully… and How Alcohol Quietly Undermines Every One

Aging gracefully isn’t about pretending we’re still 40. It’s about meeting reality with clarity, strength, and self-respect. Yet many of us carry one habit into later life without ever re-examining it, even as everything else changes…

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