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Yes, You Can Design Your Mind

By Alainnah Robertson January 17, 2024 Mindset

The human mind is a complex and powerful entity that has been a subject of fascination and exploration throughout history. In our quest for self-improvement and personal growth, we often seek ways to design and shape our minds to become better versions of ourselves.

The brain is malleable, and the subconscious mind believes anything that is fed into it. This allows us to shape our thinking and attitudes. We are not at the mercy of whatever has been imprinted on our brains by our parents, teachers or culture. It is up to us to be free thinkers and decide for ourselves what we want to believe.

Historical Perspectives on Mind Design

The idea of consciously designing one’s mind is not a recent phenomenon.

Ancient Views on Mind Design

Ancient philosophers and thinkers from various cultures have pondered the nature of the mind and how it can be cultivated to achieve a more fulfilling life.

The Stoic philosophers of ancient Greece and Rome, including luminaries like Epictetus, Seneca and Marcus Aurelius, emphasized the importance of mastering one’s mind. They believed that by practicing self-control, rationality and the acceptance of things beyond one’s control, individuals could attain inner peace and eudaemonia (flourishing).

Eastern Views on Mind Design

Eastern philosophies like Buddhism and Taoism have long explored the concepts of mindfulness and meditation as tools for shaping the mind. These practices focus on cultivating mental clarity, inner balance and a deep understanding of oneself. They bring an objectivity to life and open up a realistic perception of human nature.

Later Philosophies

The Renaissance and Enlightenment periods brought about a renewed interest in human potential. Thinkers like René Descartes, John Locke and Immanuel Kant explored the mind’s nature and its potential for self-improvement. Descartes expounded his idea that the human mind and body are two separate entities. Locke put forward the theory that the self is a rational, thinking being. And Kant called for free thinking.

Curiously, the first psychologists did not primarily study the brain’s workings with a view to helping people fulfil their psychological potential. Instead, they fixated on disorders of the mind, developing a framework known as the disease model. But then Abraham Maslow came along. In his book Motivation and Personality (1954), he introduced the world to the concept of positive psychology, which is all about understanding habits and conditions that allow people to achieve mental well-being.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Operating within the premise set out by Maslow, other psychologists have developed techniques specifically aimed at achieving well-being through mental reprogramming. One of the most important contributions has been the American Albert Ellis’s development of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).

Guided by the proposition that our emotional distress at an event lies in our thoughts about the event rather than in the event itself, CBT is a set of tools that allow us to reframe those thoughts and so relieve ourselves of our distress. (Incidentally, that guiding proposition can be traced all the way back to Epictetus, one of the Stoics. I found Dr. Donald Robertson’s book Stoicism and the Art of Happiness [2014] to be a very interesting and helpful practical guide to acting upon it.)

Why Design Your Mind?

The goals of personal growth, well-being and the pursuit of happiness within a meaningful life can be found in cultures across the globe and down the ages. Achieving them is the broadest motivation for designing your mind.

But let’s try to be more specific. In a world filled with challenges and uncertainties, a well-designed mind can help you develop emotional resilience, enabling you to navigate life’s ups and downs with greater equanimity. Designing your mind involves setting clear goals, values and priorities; this clarity can lead to a more purposeful and intentional life, in which you focus your energy on what truly matters to you.

A well-designed mind can improve your interpersonal relationships by fostering empathy, effective communication, and the ability to manage conflicts constructively. And mind design can help you tap into your full potential, leading to a sense of personal fulfilment and a deeper connection to your passions and talents.

A Framework for Mind Design

To embark on the journey of designing your mind, consider a framework that combines the wisdom of Stoicism, self-help principles and the knowledge found in books.

Incorporate Stoic principles into your daily life. Practice self-awareness, acknowledge what is within your control, and develop the resilience to accept what is not. Embrace the Stoic virtues of wisdom, morality, courage and moderation as guiding values. Explore contemporary self-help literature and resources.

Techniques such as setting goals, practicing mindfulness and developing a personal growth mindset can provide practical tools for mind design. And books are a treasure trove of knowledge and wisdom. Read widely across genres and time periods to gain insights into different perspectives and worldviews. Seek out works that resonate with your goals and values.

All that said, reading books and understanding principles is not enough. We have to do the hard work necessary to change our thinking. This can be done by incorporating daily rituals and practices that promote self-reflection and growth. Journaling, meditation, mindfulness and gratitude exercises can help you cultivate a thoughtful and purpose-driven mindset.

You will probably find it helpful to share your mind-design journey with a trusted friend, mentor or therapist who can provide guidance and hold you accountable for your goals. There is also scope for you to build your own support group with other people who want to grow psychologically and improve their lives. Mindfulness Together by Alainnah Robertson (yes, that’s me!), offers guidance on how to do this.


A lifelong endeavor, designing your mind is all about combining ancient wisdom with modern insights. Drawing from the principles of Stoicism, self-help and the knowledge found in books, you can craft a mindset that fosters resilience, clarity of purpose, enhanced relationships and personal fulfilment. Embrace this journey as an opportunity to become the architect of your own mind and, in turn, shape the course of your life for the better.

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Annette Weinold

So good Alainnah. In a world of too much information and solutions this is really very useful. Thank you so much.

Alainnah Robertson

Thank you, Annette!


As the saying goes “Your perception is your reality” and another one is “we become what we think”. Very powerful article and much to think about and apply to our daily lives.

Alainnah Robertson

Thank you, Joyce! I’m glad you liked the article!

The Author

Alainnah is 90 years old, lived on three continents, and has been a lifelong learner, pursuing knowledge and wisdom. She’s always formed groups to study together. She prefers to ask questions and enjoy what others have to say. Alainnah has compiled her group study sessions in a book, Mindfulness Together.

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