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Diary of a Total Knee Replacement 

By Lily Bradshaw February 20, 2026 Health and Fitness

After a little delay, I was so excited to be given a date for my operation. Living alone in an two-storey cottage, I knew it would be important to be organised. I was also aware that my mental happiness was as important as my physical one. :)

Operation Minus 1 Week

Having been offered a cancellation, there was just one week to go, which suited me fine. It was plenty of time to get shopping, arrange transportation, batch cook some nutritious meals, re-arrange a little furniture, and do some early spring gardening (hoping we wouldn’t have snow!).

As the bathroom is downstairs, I decided I would sleep on the sofa until ready to go upstairs. Fortunately, there is a sofa bed, but just to make it extra comfy I added the thick mattress topper from my bed. I also knew I would need pillows of various sizes (to prop up my knee) so I took them downstairs, too.

Next, a checklist of everything to purchase, ranging from food, pain medication, ice packs, a flask (easier to carry than a cup of tea!) and, of course, some flowers. :)

I wanted to freeze some homemade meals so bought organic chicken and meat to make casseroles, curries, chillies and pasta sauces. Protein is very important for recovery. I also have a fresh milk delivery subscription, so ordered organic full fat milk to be delivered three times a week.

Re-Arranging the Cottage

My home is very small, but I wanted to make sure everything was within easy reach. The sofa bed was made up with soft pillows, cosy blankets, with a small table next to it. On this there was some bottled water, a small tin of plain biscuits, pain medication, crossword puzzles, chargers, laptop and spare glasses.

I knew I would be sent home with crutches, so checked to see that I could easily navigate my way to the bathroom and also placed a chair there to rest.

The Day!

I arrived at the hospital at 7.00 a.m. and was shown my bed and changed into a gown. My nurse explained the procedure and told me, if all was well, I could return home the following day.

At 12.00 noon a hospital porter took me to the operating theatre. The hospital is very small and specialises in joint replacement, so I felt very comfortable being in the hands of such experts. I was wrapped in a soft blanket, and a warm heating tube was placed beside me, such luxury!!

The anaesthetist asked what level of sedation I wanted (the block would ensure no pain) and was given the opportunity to stay awake, which I took. There was a sheet so I couldn’t see anything, but the noises that came from the other end were interesting, to say the least! :)

After a short while in the recovery room I was taken back to the ward… just in time for tea! As I had not had a full anaesthetic there was no nausea, so I happily tucked into my tuna sandwich, and a delicious cup of tea!

Recuperation

As I began my recuperation, the spinal block began wearing off so was offered an arrangement of pain medication. Although I wanted to take as little as possible, I also knew that physio needed to start immediately. I opted for the mid-range pain relief, feeling reassured that more could be added if needed.

Within a few hours I was up and attempting to take my first steps with a walker. It seemed impossible to imagine that I was going home the following day. Would I be able to manage? 

After a wakeful night, I was grateful for the nurse’s round, when my next pain medication would arrive.

Before I could leave, I had to:

  • Walk to the toilet with crutches
  • Wash and dress myself
  • Have X-rays 
  • Begin physio… and climb up and down three stairs!

On My Way Home

Fortunately, I managed all of the tasks and, by early afternoon, was on my way home. A little anxious, but that was only natural. But I was all set up, my home was warm, cosy and comfortable, and several people were popping in during the first week.

I knew recovery might be slow and had to be patient. I needed to heal, take care of myself, do my physio, take my medication and, most importantly, keep myself happy.

After a tiring (and bumpy!) 40-minute journey, I arrived home, pleased that everything was ready for me. I slept an exhausted, disruptive sleep, interspersed with thoughts of ‘have I done the right thing?’

By the next morning, I felt much more in control. My beautiful flowers lifted my spirits, and I knew that by the time they had finished blooming, my healing would be much further ahead.

Slowly, life began at a pace and pattern that suited me. Sleeping in short bursts, any time of the day or night. Having visitors pop by, perhaps with a slice of cake, or a plant for the garden… always with a smile.

My homecooked meals were delicious, and it was even better knowing they were doing me good. I wrote (lots!), completed crosswords, read books, watched films, called and emailed family and friends. It has been a real joy!

This first week I have cared for myself really well, and that has made me proud. The surgeon did a fantastic job giving me a new knee, but I also knew I needed to do my part.

It is still a long way to go until I am fully recovered, but I am doing great and looking forward to so much! Tonight, I am sleeping in my own bed for the first time and that makes me so happy! :)

No-one said it was going to be easy, but I am very grateful that doctors have the skills to help make my life wonderful again, and I am going to enjoy every second.

Now, where shall I go for my next trip? :)

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Have you had a joint replacement? What was your experience? How has life changed?

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Angie

Thank you for this insight to having this surgery and living alone. I haven’t ventured to do one of my knees bc I live alone. Thanks again!

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Angie, thanks for joining the conversation. I too was a little concerned. However, I found it much easier than I thought. Just be prepared and have back up if you can. I am day 15 and since the beginning have been doing everything I needed… even if it did take some time :) So far I am delighted and if I can get back to travelling all be very happy :) Lily x

The Author

Lily Bradshaw has had an interesting and varied career. Twenty years working as a psychotherapist and part time lecturer, followed by 20 years of writing educational courses. Now she is enjoying semi retirement writing books and articles that interest her, mostly about having fun and enjoying life. She has spent the last 2 years travelling solo.

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