Fun Hobbies for Older Women: The Joy of Singing at Any Age
Do you sing? No, I don’t mean, are you an opera singer, because there are precious few of those. I just mean do you like to sing, for instance, in the shower or in the bath? Or perhaps to yourself as you potter around the house. It is a joyous activity, which can be done at any age.
Some Say They Can’t Sing
A few people will tell you that they can’t sing. And they may be right. Some say that everyone can sing, but I suspect there are a few people in this world who somehow lack a sense of tune or the ability to hit the right note. Not all that many, but I know some.
Singing as a Child
Most of us were expected to sing in childhood – whether at school or in church or within the family. It wasn’t something we were asked about, any more than anything else we did as children, but just another activity we did.
My mother, who was not a very good pianist at all, used to sit down at the piano and play folk songs for me and my siblings to sing with her. I quite enjoyed that and learned a lot of songs, particularly old folk songs.
I am told that I caused a bit of a stir when I proposed “What shall we do with the drunken sailor?” when asked what we would like to sing in nursery school. I thought it was a rousing good tune!
As an older child, I sang in the school choir and found that very satisfying. I sang alto and loved the challenge of not singing the tune, but thereby making the whole sound better. I still do.
Singing in a Choir
For the past 20 years I have sung in a choir. We generally sing serious music, like Brahms’ Requiem or a Mozart Mass or even Bach, but we do branch out to other things from time to time. We even sang Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen on one occasion.
Singing in a choir is the source of enormous pleasure. I highly recommend it.
The sense of singing with others somehow creates a real bond inside the group, because the whole is so much better than the sum of the parts.
You struggle with the hard parts together and triumph together when you get it right. It can be frustrating when things go wrong, but oh so wonderful when everyone is singing well.
Choirs are also a wonderful place to meet people of all ages. I don’t know the age of everyone in my choir, but I know we span from people in their 20s to at least one woman in her 90s. You develop friendships over break-time which often spill over to meetings on other occasions.
And, of course, there is the pleasure of performance – to sing beautiful music for the benefit of others is a wonderful activity, whether in a church or concert hall.
Singing in the Bath or Shower
I never went in for singing in the bath or shower, but I believe many find it a delightful way to enjoy two pleasing activities at the same time.
Singing and Your Health
The cherry on top of all the above is that singing, no matter the location – choir, bath or wherever – is very good for your health. It is good for your lungs and is also good exercise. Certainly, when you are feeling down, you will feel much better after a good singing session.
What’s not to like?
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Do you like to sing? Have you considered joining a choir? What is your favourite song? Please share in the comments below!
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hi! i love listening to music and sing along. it sure makes me feel relaxed and happy.
I’m a handy-woman and I own my own business. I sing while I work (not when clients are around) and oftentimes in the shower. My daughter and I declared the car a singing car when she was growing up – fair warning for her friends – because we belted out 70’s tunes during carpool. It was a great way to connect with her and her friends (who never joined in but told her later it was cool we did that). Hearing a chorus sing Halleluiah in person brings tears to my eyes. It’s such a joyful experience to engage in!
I sing with a small group of older women (before the pandemic, we also had men). We sing weekly at local retirement homes, memory care facilitie and senior centers. We sing old tunes which the audience (even memory care) can join with us. It is a wonderful experience both for us and for the audience. I am 92 and thankful every day that I can still sing – I think it has a great deal to do with my overall well being.
That’s great that you still sing – and do such good work, I get a lot of comments that people are surprised that I am still doing things at 82, but I am a child next to you!
If I could find a choir nearby, I would probably join. I picture myself singing solo or duet with my own voicer in a recording and playing my keyboard. I want to add this to my repertoire which now consists of arts and craft lessons. We’ll see what 2025 brings.