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How to Stop Your Guest Room from Becoming a Source of Clutter Creep

By Karen Kingston June 02, 2024 Lifestyle

It’s lovely to have a guest room in your home, but it can easily turn into yet another place to store things you rarely or never use.

What Gets Stored in Guest Rooms?

In this category fall clothes and shoes you haven’t worn in years. Also, other household items you can’t squeeze into any of the other storage areas of your home but don’t feel ready to part with just yet.

Guest bedrooms are also sometimes used as a place to hang washing to dry or to put laundry that is waiting to be ironed or folded.

Maybe it’s where you throw your yoga kit or sports equipment when it’s not in use? Or put items that need to be repaired?

Obviously, if you’re having a clutter clearing purge, where better to stash all the things you eventually plan to donate to charity?

The problem is that most items dumped in guest bedrooms tend to take up permanent residence there, so the room is never actually available for guests.

When a Guest Arrives to Stay

When an actual guest arrives to stay, you have some urgent choices to make. You can gather up all the things you have stashed in the room and temporarily put them elsewhere (usually, in your own bedroom, because that’s the area they are least likely to see).

You can remove some of your stuff to create just enough room for them to unpack their case and store their things. Or you can simply leave everything as it is and expect your guest to put up with it.

The problem is not unique to private homes. A surprising number of landlords wantonly inflict their clutter on paying guests, too.

You won’t see it shown in any of the photos advertising the property, but when you start opening cupboards and drawers, they may very well be filled with the owner’s belongings, especially in holiday lets and Airbnb.

An immaculate one-bedroom apartment my husband and I recently stayed in turned out to have nowhere at all to store our clothes. When we asked why the closet was locked, the landlady admitted it was full of her own things. She had run out of space in her home next door and couldn’t resist using the storage area for herself.

How to Prevent Guest Room Clutter Creep

The best strategy of all is to pretend the guest room doesn’t exist. Nothing gets stored in there. It’s a clutter-free zone, only for guests.

This means that if your personal belongings won’t fit in the storage space you have available in the rest of your home, you’ve got some clutter clearing to do. And, if ever you find yourself tempted to put something in the guest room “just for now,” think again. Make it off-limits, out of bounds, strictly verboten.

“But I only have guests once or twice a year,” you may say (and even more rarely lately). “Surely, I can use the room the rest of the time?”

Well, it’s your decision. Still, clutter of any kind stored in your home will affect you in some way. The stagnant energy that accumulates around it will cause you to feel stuck in some aspect of your life.

Moreover, guest bedrooms are usually stuffed full of things you never use anyway. If you didn’t do this, would you have guests more often?

Many studies have shown that social interaction of the face-to-face kind is an important key to living a happier, longer life. In 2010, Julianne Holt-Lunstad, a psychologist at Brigham Young University, Utah, undertook a review of 148 of these studies, involving 308,000 people over a 7.5 year period.

Her very revealing, and somewhat surprising conclusion was that having a close circle of friends, neighbours or relatives gives a 50% better survival rate than taking more exercise, losing weight, giving up alcohol or quitting smoking. In other words, close relationships make life worth living.

So, the choice is yours ­– your clutter or your friends?

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you have a guest room where you store things? Does it make you think twice before inviting friends or relatives to stay? Please join the discussion below.

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Peggy

Our guestroom, along with another bedroom and full bathroom, have been occupied by my adult daughter for the past 22 months. I WISH I had the challenge of removing my own clutter.

Shelley C

Yep, time to purge the guest room. Thing I hate… I often end up needing just that item in the next few months. My memory is such that if I don’t see it, it doesn’t exist.

I don’t see things because there is so much. I have been donating, but I need to turn on the turbo charger!

Releasing these things reduces the physical pressure I feel of things encroaching on my space.

I can do this! I just need to not foist this need to shed stuff on my husband! Wish me luck!

Thank you for the inspiration Karen!

Sharon

I laughed when I read the title of this article. My guest room constantly is filled up. For years, we were stashing dorm room furnishings in it during the summers. It takes me weeks to put away the Christmas decorations. The non-working Christmas window candles lie on the bed until I get around to fixing them. The linens I’m purging from the linen closet are dumped in the guest room until I can find time to take them to Goodwill. The books I no longer want, but am not quite ready to donate wind up in the guest bedroom for awhile. When a guest comes, I have to move everything out of the room (usually to my bedroom, as the author describes). I’m going to try the author’s suggestion and pretend that my guest room doesn’t exist, so no clutter will get stored in there. Great article!

Linda

I have a large guest room but it has to also serve as an office. My husband works from home at least 2 days a week (he was doing this way before the pandemic).
He has a standing desk and various IT equipment for his job, I have a corner desk, laptop,monitor and printer, plus an extra length added to my desk for writing, any crafts etc.

The guest bed is a comfortable studio couch which opens out to a double bed and when someone is staying I supply a clothing stand which has hooks for hangers, a shoe rack on the bottom and a tray part on the top for things like jewellery.

As the room has to be used for 2 purposes we try to keep it as tidy as possible. I owned a previous house where the guest room was a small boxroom and it was hard not to dump things in there or the dining room we rarely used!

jean

Just the motivation I needed to sort out the spare room, many thanks! Yes my yoga bag gets thrown in there.

The Author

Karen Kingston is the author of two books with combined sales of over 3 million copies in 26 languages. She is a leading expert on clutter clearing, feng shui and healthy homes, and the world’s leading authority on space clearing. She currently runs online clutter clearing courses that have helped thousands of people from over 50 countries. Follow her blog at http://www.karenkingston.com/blog or connect via Facebook or Twitter.

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