We all know how important it is to keep active in our later years. It’s the catch-all remedy for any ailment you can think of, along with quitting smoking and eating healthily. And, of course, it is true: the older you get the more the muscles are prone to seize up if not exercised regularly.
Walking is excellent, yes, as are keep fit classes, yoga, Pilates, tennis or swimming. It doesn’t really matter so long as it gets you moving.
But what about enjoyment?
We all know we won’t keep up the classes or the walking or the sports if we don’t get pleasure out of them.
There is one activity that includes not just general movement but a host of other joys and life-affirming blessings, and that is dance.
I don’t mean classical ballet – though that has obvious benefits. Several years ago, I came upon a brand new organisation here in London called DanceWest, which runs classes for older people aimed at the over-60s.
I hadn’t been to dance classes since I went to nursery school. (Where, incidentally, my dance partner went on to become a leading dancer at the Royal Ballet and ended up running it.) I think I showed a certain promise at the age of four, but then I went on to boarding school, where dance was not part of the curriculum, and thus ended my dance aspirations.
Many people are put off by the idea of prancing around a dance studio at our age, but the whole mantra behind DanceWest is that dance is for everybody. Absolutely everybody. Whether you have two left feet or you cannot count is irrelevant. Knowing your left from your right is useful but not mandatory.
The point of the classes is not just to keep your body moving, it’s to work on your balance, your ability to follow a routine and to execute it in your own particular way.
I learned early on that I shouldn’t try to copy the teacher. She’s a trained professional and trying to emulate her will be deeply disappointing. One of the joys of our classes is watching how each of us – and we are all, needless to say, female (though that was not always the case) – interprets the routines in quite different ways.
Not all of us are getting it right, but we are all expressing ourselves in our own unique ways. Some of us are sexy, some are introspective, others flamboyant or exuberant – whoever we choose to be we can be through the medium of dance. And, in the right surroundings, it helps to know that since no one is judging us we can be completely unself-conscious.
I have often said I think dance should be compulsory. Certainly, in schools – and especially for students who aren’t necessarily good at sports – and indeed throughout our adult lives. In an ideal world, dance classes would be available free on the National Health Service.
By concentrating on movement, balance, rhythm, grace and memory, dance stimulates all the faculties that are known to, shall we say, take a back seat in our mature years. Especially, in my case, balance.
It is not competitive, or aspirational, it is simply what it is: challenging – both physically and mentally – and, above all, fun.
Do you find joy in some type of physical activity? What do you think about dance classes? Have you taken any? Does any studio around you offer dance classes for seniors? Would you sign up if so?
i have danced all my life, line, jitterbug, 60’s, etc. now at 80 i have heart failure and i have trouble catching my breath – that makes me sad. dancing actually was my happiness, my life!
I avoided dance my whole life. The prospect of having to dance in front of people was worse for me than the fear of speaking in public. I had successfully been able to dodge any chance of being dragged onto a dance floor for a good fifty years and then something happened. I joined a senior center and I can’t even say what in the world possessed me to sign up for a line dance class, but I did as if I was being led by something I couldn’t explain. When I walked into the crowded room, I don’t know what it was that turned back my impulse to flee. I stayed and I tried and the women in the back row were like angels directing me by calling out the steps and assuring me that everybody has a tough time on the first day. I didn’t know any of the dances, not even the most popular like “The Electric Slide,” I went home got on youtube and learned as many of the dances that we did in class because dancing doesn’t come easy to me, left and right don’t come easy to me, none of it was something that I was naturally good at, but over time I got the steps and then I started to build confidence and then I got better and then I started to experience the joy of dance, a joy that I had always wistfully longed for but never thought would be for me. Now, I learn dances outside of class and practice just for fun twirling around my living room. It has been such an experience to be able to accept being a beginner, to the getting better part and to just being completely surprised that something so new and unexpected to me could come around in my 66th year. For anybody, who is shy about dancing, line dance is a great way to get started. It’s a bit like “paint by numbers.” You are given the steps so that you don’t have to figure out too much. I can’t even begin to express how happy this makes me!
Dance has so many benefits for physical and mental health. Moving and stretching, increasing flexibility, improving balance and co-ordination. Boosting confidence and self-esteem, reducing stress, producing a buzz and feel-good factor afterwards. Everyone should dance!
I couldn’t agree more! Plus learning and remembering dance routines is very good for the brain. And it’s fun.