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Just an Old-Fashioned Sunday

By Lily Bradshaw November 29, 2025 Mindset

One of the things I love about being older is the huge amount of precious memories I have accumulated, many that have been stored for decades. On dreary rainy days, like today, I take them out and enjoy replaying them again. 

One of the most enjoyable is a good old-fashioned Sunday.

Sixpence

The day started with a shout from my dad, “Who wants to earn sixpence?” With a large household there was always someone happy and willing to run to the shops to pick up the morning newspapers.

I was the youngest of seven, so rarely got the chance, but if I did, my sixpence would probably be spent on a bar of Caramac chocolate, half eaten before I arrived home. I would usually save a few squares to share with one or two of my siblings.

Sunday Roast

Oh, the smell of Sunday Roast! Mum would start cooking soon after breakfast, and the whole house would smell delicious. :) Roast lamb was my favourite. How, each and every Sunday, my poor mum rustled up such a magnificent feast on such a tight budget, I will never know. Roast potatoes, mash, cabbage, peas, carrots, Yorkshire pudding, and, of course, the roast meat itself. However hard I try, I can still never recreate that incredible aroma of my mum’s Sunday Roast.

Children would be sent out to play, returning home just in time for it to be dished up. I never remember any of us being late! No one would risk getting what was left. :)

Full Bellies 

With tummies full to bursting, everyone settled down in the sitting room for games or debates. I loved these times, especially in winter, with a huge crackling fire (my dad was a coal man). Snakes and ladders, chess, ludo, cards, where there was always someone to play with. Debates were lively and always interesting. As the youngest, my points were not very valid, but I learnt so much from everyone else… and also learned how to have a voice in the noisy confusion of life. :)

Afternoon Tea

It is hard to imagine, but even though we were a relatively poor family, Sunday afternoon tea was a sight to behold. It sometimes reminds me of the John Betjeman poem, Myfanwy. Fortunately for mum, she took a backseat at the event, which was usually left to the children (my eldest brother was 17 years older than me). Various sandwiches, two Swiss rolls (chocolate and jam), a trifle, fruit cake, angel cake, tinned fruit, a jug of custard, jars of marmalade and jam, delicious homemade bread, and lots of fishy things! 

My sister and I, being the youngest, were often paid a penny to make winkle sandwiches, or take the shells off prawns for my dad. That meant we could buy a penny bun on the way to school the next day. :)

Goodnight

After a long and eventful day, we were bathed, hair washed and sat in front of the fire, gleaming clean and smelling of medicated shampoo. :) If we were lucky, there would be enough milk for an Ovaltine or cocoa before being sent up to bed, with strict instructions to read for only half an hour and then lights out.

In wintertime, the rooms were freezing, no central heating back then. The windows were also single glazed, and I can remember marvelling at the beautiful patterns made by the inside frost. Hopefully, dad would have popped a brick wrapped in an old towel, in our beds, heated in the oven above the fire.

Downstairs you could hear the comforting sounds of the rest of the family talking, and as my eyes gently closed, I dreamed of the day’s adventures playing in the bomb sites of London, completely oblivious to the dangers. What a very lucky lady I am to have such wonderful memories! :)

Join the Conversation:

What is your favourite Sunday memory? Have Sundays changed much for you? What, if any, traditions do you keep?

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Winifred Kovacik

On Saturday night my mother would quite often have made an angel food cake to have on Sunday. I think of that with a hand egg beater. Our home had just one bathroom so Sunday morning, I would quite often sit on a chair in the kitchen with mother sort of giving me a hand done washcloth bath. Dinner would be waiting in the oven – simple, but more substantial than through the week. Sunday afternoons were visits to relatives – always my paternal grandparents. It was a time when “children should be seen, not heard”. My brother and I took a book with us to read. What wonderful memories.

Mary T. Lynch

We also played Ludo and snakes and ladders in Ireland . There was no afternoon tea as we were so poor. We were poor and we didn’t even know as so was every other family in out Irish village.

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Mary, thanks for joining the conversation. I loved Ludo! I am forever grateful for the memories Lily x

Jane

I loved it when we played card games. My granddaughter enjoys it too.

Patricia

Sundays in my childhood included a taxi ride to church with my grandma who was living with us. A stop on the way home to the restaurant where my parents worked for breakfast with grandma was a real treat, cooked by dad and served by mom. Mom let me pass the coffee pot around to the diners. With parents arriving home mid afternoon mom would put dinner on to cook the rest of the day while dad napped. In the summer we would have BBQ with extended family outdoors. In the winter it was time around the fireplace to sing with the piano playing of my mom and sis and later on to watch some TV. Prep for the next day to school was picking out what to wear, washing and curling hair and finishing up any homework so it was ready to turn in. I looked forward to returning to classes on Monday morning as I loved to learn.

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Patricia, thanks for joining the conversation. Your childhood sounds wonderful :) I am so thankful to have been born when I was! Lily x

Patricia

What was this era? Playing in the bomb sites I imagine it was during WWII in the UK but where?

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Patricia, I was born in the mid fifties but London took a long while to recover from the war and bomb craters were still everywhere Lily x

Jane

For me, the Sunday afternoon tea you describe sounds pretty luxurious but we would often have Swiss roll. Money was very tight.

I like to take it easy on Sunday and occasionally go out to eat, particularly if my little granddaughter comes. It’s fun to see what we fancy because there are many fabulous restaurants locally. (Pizza, burgers, thick.noodle soups ….she is just 10 and loves going out to eat smiley).

A tradition I like too. At Christmas time, I enjoy eating candied chestnuts and granddaughter, filled chocolates. In winter, it’s really enjoyable to take her to the chocolate shop and I let her ask for her favourite chocolates…she feels very grown up.like this (ruined recently by her unreeling the wrapping ribbons!)

Lily Bradshaw

Hi Jane, thank you for joining the conversation. What a lovely relationship you have with your grand daughter. It is wonderful to think these things you do together, will still be living in her memories many decades from now :) Lily x

Jane

My granddaughter is called Élisabeth. We call her Lily too.

Lily Bradshaw

How beautiful :) It is my daughters middle name. Lily x

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Lily Bradshaw has had an interesting and varied career. Twenty years working as a psychotherapist and part time lecturer, followed by 20 years of writing educational courses. Now she is enjoying semi retirement writing books and articles that interest her, mostly about having fun and enjoying life. She has spent the last 2 years travelling solo.

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