Pets are a great source of comfort to many baby boomers these days. Pets have always been a source of comfort to people, but as you age, they help to fill many gaps.
The benefits of living with pets are many. Here we will discuss only a short list. Please feel free to share how your pets help you in everyday life.
If you’re alone, having a living, breathing companion in the house is comforting. Someone to take care of, someone to walk, nurture and feed. They’re a constant companion and a good one. Dogs will follow you from room to room. Just knowing they’re there is comforting.
I talk to my dogs, and they understand. Some people may think it’s crazy; I don’t think so. Dogs truly understand their owners. They get it. If you’re paying attention, you will see it in their eyes.
Dogs give people a reason to get up in the morning. You must walk the dog. You must get up, get dressed and take them out. It also gets you out of the house where you will likely meet other dogs and pet parents. It’s fresh air and exercise for both of you and maybe even some socialization with neighborhood people and their pets.
Pets offer us a sense of solace and calm when the going gets rough. Our pets have an innate ability to understand and sense our moods.
If you’re feeling down or you’re sick, they understand. They will stick by your side until you’re well, helping to comfort you along the way. They just want to please. They’ll sleep with you and watch out for you.
If you are anxious, they will calm you. Stoking the fur of a beloved cat or dog or whatever animal is calming in and of itself. It has been proven that animals help to reduce blood pressure, anxiety and even depression in humans. For a depressed person, having an animal takes away feelings of being alone, because they are not alone. These are emotional support animals, and they can be a lifesaver for some people.
There are also specially trained dogs who are trained to perform specific tasks. They can be taught to alert us to seizures, turn lights on and off and even take clothes out of the dryer. These are true service dogs trained to help the disabled, and they do a wonderful job of it. Service dogs are not emotional support animals.
Pets offer unconditional love. They want nothing from us but to be loved.
The positives of what having a pet can do for humans is nothing short of amazing. How often have we seen a dog go in to save a family after they suffer a terrible loss, yet the family feels they saved the dog. In truth, they saved each other.
Pets have been wonderful companions throughout my life. Each one was special in their own way. I know I will always have a dog or two. It is my hope that people who have found solace and gratification in having a pet for the first time will continue to do so for many years to come. We depend on our pets, and they depend on us.
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.”
― Anatole France
Are your pets comforting to you? What are your day-to-day interactions? How do you benefit each other? As pet lovers, I’d like to think so. If you’d like to have a conversation, let’s talk about it!!!
Two amazing rescue dogs who actually are the ones doing the rescuing. Can’t imagine having a home without dogs in it.
I totally understand your way of thinking, Jill. I can’t imagine having a home without dogs in it either.
Isn’t that the truth, Jill!! I’m with you. I can’t imagine having a home without dogs either!
Neither can I, Jill. Aren’t they amazing? I’m so glad your two rescues rescued you and I know you rescued them. That’s a tongue twister!! But, it’s the truth and we know it.
I have 6 1/2 cats. The half is a foster and I am anticipating failing at letting her go. I am a pet sitter and have a lot of animals in my life. It gives me purpose. And I love them all.
I love the 1/2 Bonnie! I would be like you! It’s so hard to let them go. Those faces and they need you – and we need them!
I have called all my pets, over the years, “my sanity”. Still so very true.
That makes perfect sense to me, Lee Ann!
My cat got hit by a car last night and died so I can’t bring myself to read this article yet even though I know it will be uplifting. God bless all of you that love and care for our fur babies
I’m so sorry for your loss.
So sorry.
we have 2 Italian Greyhounds, they’re brothers, Chip and Dale!
we’ve always had pets, but for some reason, these boys add to our life.
perhaps because we’re in our 70’s and travel with them, but Italian Greyhounds are very sensitive dogs. They get to your soul! So precious!
They sound delightful, Joan. Are they fast? I have papillons and boy are they fast.
I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is real. Bless you.
I’m so sorry to hear about that. Cats are so special – they teach you to love unconditionally.
Cats and dogs both, Carol.
Oh, yes. I just find that since our cats seem to prefer my husband, and our latest one likes to attack me at times, my love is quite unconditional. I think he gets bored and is trying to tell me he wants to attack something, so then I get out the toys. We have always had dogs, kids, cats, and I love them all unconditionally.
I know you do, Carol.
I’m so sorry, Kathleen. Don’t even think about it. Please take care.
I’m so sorry…..
Omg, Kathleen. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I thought I answered you the first time, but for some reason I don’t see my comment. Bless you.
I did the same thing!
I guess animal lovers think alike!
I’m so sorry. The love of and for a cat is very special, like nothing else really. I fell into a depression when our cat disappeared (in the country so probably a coyote). I blamed myself so much, and now our new cat is not allowed outside. That doesn’t stop him from darting between your feet as you go out though, and I’ve spent a few hours worrying myself sick. Even though he occasionally attacks my leg when he is bored, and prefers the company of my husband, I love him unconditionally and would hate to see him suffer. Give yourself some time, and remember that if you get another cat one day it is ok, because the space you have in your heart for your departed cat is only for that cat, and you most likely have other spaces for other cats. That is how I look at it.
One never replaces another, but there is always room for another to fill the void.
good article. I agree.. I love my little 4 legged companion.
I wouldn’t be here without my fur babies.
I’m so glad your fur babies are there for you, Eliza. Bless you.
Thank you, Aleta. I love my furkids, too.
Thank you, Aleta. I’m sure you do and s/he loves you just as much.