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Pets as Comfort in Life

By Elyse Berman September 26, 2025 Family

Pets are a great source of comfort to many baby boomers these days. Pets have always been a source of comfort to people, but as you age, they help to fill many gaps.

The benefits of living with pets are many. Here we will discuss only a short list. Please feel free to share how your pets help you in everyday life.

Pets Help to Ease Loneliness

If you’re alone, having a living, breathing companion in the house is comforting. Someone to take care of, someone to walk, nurture and feed. They’re a constant companion and a good one. Dogs will follow you from room to room. Just knowing they’re there is comforting.

I talk to my dogs, and they understand. Some people may think it’s crazy; I don’t think so. Dogs truly understand their owners. They get it. If you’re paying attention, you will see it in their eyes.

They Give You Reason to Move

Dogs give people a reason to get up in the morning. You must walk the dog. You must get up, get dressed and take them out. It also gets you out of the house where you will likely meet other dogs and pet parents. It’s fresh air and exercise for both of you and maybe even some socialization with neighborhood people and their pets.

They Give Us Comfort

Pets offer us a sense of solace and calm when the going gets rough. Our pets have an innate ability to understand and sense our moods.

If you’re feeling down or you’re sick, they understand. They will stick by your side until you’re well, helping to comfort you along the way. They just want to please. They’ll sleep with you and watch out for you.

Taking the Stress Away

If you are anxious, they will calm you. Stoking the fur of a beloved cat or dog or whatever animal is calming in and of itself. It has been proven that animals help to reduce blood pressure, anxiety and even depression in humans. For a depressed person, having an animal takes away feelings of being alone, because they are not alone. These are emotional support animals, and they can be a lifesaver for some people.

Practical Helpers

There are also specially trained dogs who are trained to perform specific tasks. They can be taught to alert us to seizures, turn lights on and off and even take clothes out of the dryer. These are true service dogs trained to help the disabled, and they do a wonderful job of it. Service dogs are not emotional support animals.

A Loving Companion

Pets offer unconditional love. They want nothing from us but to be loved.

The positives of what having a pet can do for humans is nothing short of amazing. How often have we seen a dog go in to save a family after they suffer a terrible loss, yet the family feels they saved the dog. In truth, they saved each other.

Pets have been wonderful companions throughout my life. Each one was special in their own way. I know I will always have a dog or two. It is my hope that people who have found solace and gratification in having a pet for the first time will continue to do so for many years to come. We depend on our pets, and they depend on us.

 “Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.”

― Anatole France

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are your pets comforting to you? What are your day-to-day interactions? How do you benefit each other? As pet lovers, I’d like to think so. If you’d like to have a conversation, let’s talk about it!!!

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Jill

Two amazing rescue dogs who actually are the ones doing the rescuing. Can’t imagine having a home without dogs in it.

Elyse Berman

I totally understand your way of thinking, Jill. I can’t imagine having a home without dogs in it either.

Elyse Berman

Isn’t that the truth, Jill!! I’m with you. I can’t imagine having a home without dogs either!

Elyse Berman

Neither can I, Jill. Aren’t they amazing? I’m so glad your two rescues rescued you and I know you rescued them. That’s a tongue twister!! But, it’s the truth and we know it.

Bonnie

I have 6 1/2 cats. The half is a foster and I am anticipating failing at letting her go. I am a pet sitter and have a lot of animals in my life. It gives me purpose. And I love them all.

Elyse Berman

I love the 1/2 Bonnie! I would be like you! It’s so hard to let them go. Those faces and they need you – and we need them!

Lee Ann Rottler

I have called all my pets, over the years, “my sanity”. Still so very true.

Elyse Berman

That makes perfect sense to me, Lee Ann!

Kathleen

My cat got hit by a car last night and died so I can’t bring myself to read this article yet even though I know it will be uplifting. God bless all of you that love and care for our fur babies

Deborah Powell

I’m so sorry for your loss.

Joan Lamoureux

So sorry.

Joan Lamoureux

we have 2 Italian Greyhounds, they’re brothers, Chip and Dale!
we’ve always had pets, but for some reason, these boys add to our life.
perhaps because we’re in our 70’s and travel with them, but Italian Greyhounds are very sensitive dogs. They get to your soul! So precious!

Elyse Berman

They sound delightful, Joan. Are they fast? I have papillons and boy are they fast.

Charlene

I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is real. Bless you.

Carol Cole

I’m so sorry to hear about that. Cats are so special – they teach you to love unconditionally.

Elyse Berman

Cats and dogs both, Carol.

Carol Cole

Oh, yes. I just find that since our cats seem to prefer my husband, and our latest one likes to attack me at times, my love is quite unconditional. I think he gets bored and is trying to tell me he wants to attack something, so then I get out the toys. We have always had dogs, kids, cats, and I love them all unconditionally.

Elyse Berman

I know you do, Carol.

Elyse Berman

I’m so sorry, Kathleen. Don’t even think about it. Please take care.

Karen Marie

I’m so sorry…..

Elyse Berman

Omg, Kathleen. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I thought I answered you the first time, but for some reason I don’t see my comment. Bless you.

Carol Cole

I did the same thing!

Elyse Berman

I guess animal lovers think alike!

Carol Cole

I’m so sorry. The love of and for a cat is very special, like nothing else really. I fell into a depression when our cat disappeared (in the country so probably a coyote). I blamed myself so much, and now our new cat is not allowed outside. That doesn’t stop him from darting between your feet as you go out though, and I’ve spent a few hours worrying myself sick. Even though he occasionally attacks my leg when he is bored, and prefers the company of my husband, I love him unconditionally and would hate to see him suffer. Give yourself some time, and remember that if you get another cat one day it is ok, because the space you have in your heart for your departed cat is only for that cat, and you most likely have other spaces for other cats. That is how I look at it.

Elyse Berman

One never replaces another, but there is always room for another to fill the void.

aleta

good article. I agree.. I love my little 4 legged companion.

Eliza

I wouldn’t be here without my fur babies.

Elyse Berman

I’m so glad your fur babies are there for you, Eliza. Bless you.

Elyse Berman

Thank you, Aleta. I love my furkids, too.

Elyse Berman

Thank you, Aleta. I’m sure you do and s/he loves you just as much.

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The Author

Elyse Berman PA is a Pet-Friendly REALTOR® who has been helping people buy and sell homes for 22 years. She serves Boca Raton/Delray Beach/Boynton Beach, Florida and the surrounding areas. Check out her blog.

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