I’ll never forget the day I looked down in the shower and saw clumps of hair swirling around the drain. My heart sank. I was just 48.
“What’s happening to me?” I thought. Was it stress? Diet? Something more serious?
That moment turned me into a detective of my own health. After digging into the research and working with my PA, I discovered the culprit: low progesterone. Once I started bio-identical progesterone, the shedding stopped – and my hair has been thick and full ever since.
Even more good news arose as I noticed the benefits didn’t stop with just my hair:
Whenever I felt overly weepy or emotional (so not me), I realized my body was crying out for progesterone. A small dose, and it was like the emotional clouds lifted almost immediately.
Progesterone makes a profound difference in both sexual desire and the ease of orgasm. I’ve found it works in as little as 20 minutes – and the fact that I can just rub it on my forearm and let it absorb transdermally makes it simple and stress-free.
So many women notice their “hourglass shape” turn into a “soda can shape” after 40. With bio-identical hormones, I began to notice my waistline returning – my curves came back, and with them, my confidence.
Each year, I get my hormones tested – progesterone, estrogen, testosterone – to stay balanced. Having the data takes away the guesswork and lets me feel in control of my body again. (If you’d like to know more about the lab I use for testing, I’m happy to share details – just reach out.)
Progesterone prepares the uterine lining for implantation. Without enough, even a fertilized egg won’t “stick.”
In early pregnancy, progesterone maintains the uterine lining and keeps the uterus from contracting. Low levels can lead to early miscarriage.
Progesterone helps counterbalance estrogen. Without it, estrogen dominance can trigger mood swings, irritability, heavy periods, weight gain, and even cancer risk.
Progesterone has a calming effect on the brain – it’s often called the “feel-good” or “chill” hormone.
Progesterone starts to decline in your mid-to-late 30s, often dropping off more dramatically during perimenopause (usually mid-40s to early 50s). It can decline years before estrogen does – and this imbalance is where many symptoms begin.
Research shows that women in perimenopause can lose up to 75% of their progesterone production while estrogen levels remain relatively high – a recipe for estrogen dominance and its frustrating symptoms (Prior, 2005).
By the time we’re in our 60s, progesterone is down 90–95% from youthful levels, leaving only small amounts from the adrenal glands to sustain the delicate hormonal symphony. True aging can really hit hard during these years if every hormone is operating at a bare-bones level.
If you’re noticing changes in your mood, weight, energy, or even your hair or sleep – don’t ignore the signs. Hormones are powerful messengers, and progesterone in particular plays a starring role in how we feel every single day.
The good news? You don’t have to just “accept” the changes of midlife. With safe, bio-identical progesterone therapy and regular testing, you can restore balance, protect your health, and rediscover the vibrant, confident, joyful version of yourself.
In fact, studies show that:
Because truly – your 40s, 50s, and beyond can be your most radiant decades yet. 🌸
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Have you tested your hormone production? What symptoms made you do so? Did you know that female health is different than male health and also less investigated?
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I use a low dose progesterone cream called Serenity which comes as a dual version containing a very small amount of bio identical oestrogen (I avoid this version as I had breast cancer). The company who produce it ship globally, I order from the UK and have it shipped to Switzerland.
You only need a small pea sized blob rubbed on fatty tissue. It really takes the edge off things like mood swings and my gynaecologist approves of me using it.
For vaginal dryness I use Gynoflor pessaries containing a small amount of Estriol. I’m 64 and have been post menopausal since the age of 46.
I’m so happy you found a solution that works for you…well done!
I tried to do the “natural” peri-menopause journey and just couldn’t do it. Menopause really kicked my butt. It was the most awful time. Before my period actually ended completely, I went on bio-identical hormone therapy with estradiol and progesterone. I was luckily able to dial down the estradiol to 1/2 of the lowest dose they actual make by cutting the pill in half every day. I stopped it for a while before a big surgery and immediately felt the effects. Hot flashes like you wouldn’t believe. Anxiety off the charts. Pain in all my joints. Just terrible. I went back on, and within a few days, I was back to being able to live life. I’m never going off.
What a beautiful story! I’m so happy for you…and all the women you are encouraging with your words of inspiration…well done, Maureen!
I hear you, Maureen! After you’re balanced and then have to stop, so many of the issues come raging right back…I’m so glad you’re back!
Does this help if you’ve had a total hysterectomy?
Yes, the professionals at Trident Anti-Aging take every medical piece of our history to create a specific program based on our needs…I get tested every year to allow for any changes that may have occurred…. If you do go with them, they have a space for a coupon code that gives you 20% off-it’s Shirley20 Good luck!
I’m wondering the same thing!
Yes, absolutely. When you talk to the professionals at Trident Anti-Aging, they take a full med history, then an oral one and put together what you need based on a deep dive blood test. Most costs are out of pocket so the 20% discount (code shirley20) really can help, too.
Thank you for this article. Being post menopausal, I can relate to the loss of curves, weight gain around the belly, poor sleep quality, and loss of hair. Which lab do you use for testing and what progesterone product do you use?
Hi Kay! Thanks for writing! I use Trident Anti-Aging…you can find them online and after the consult and testing I order from them, and they FedEx me out the product in just a few days. You can use Shirley20 as a coupon code to receive 20% off like I do-every little bit helps! Bio-Identical hormones can really change your life. Do let me know if I can help in any way!
I would like that information as well.
Yes I’m also interested. Are we talking US or UK?
Google it; it’s in Florida, and does telehealth treatments. I am going to be investigating it too.
Yes, Trident is located in Florida. There’s a code to save 20% Shirley20 if you do end up finding them a good fit. You’ll get your blood done locally, then do a history then have an appointment tele-health. Products get sent out right away.
What kind of progesterone can you recommend for someone who has autoimmune and sensitivity issues. Bioidentical hormones seems to be prescribed generically and by protocol and not individually and when I did try, had an unpleasant reaction. Also do you have to take estrogen at the same time. I have a difficult time tolerating estrogen because I think I’m overloaded with it. I’m post menopausal.
Hi Sandi, I’m not a medical Doc, but the pros at Trident Anti-Agin have a PA and doc on staff and do a very thorough med exam by intake form and orally during your tele-appointment. I personally take progesterone, estrogen and testosterone. I do take my estrogen separate from the other two as I like to control that some!
Hi Sandi!
I now work with a professional grade over the counter Apothecary that has high-grade progesterone at a very low price (around $35). You can find those options at http://www.drshirleysays.com. :)
Hi Sandi, I’m not a med doc, but the people at Trident Anti-Aging do a great job getting your blood results, doing a thorough written med history and a full consultation before suggesting what amounts of what will be best for you. Very specific to you and all your needs. I take my progesterone and testosterone together and estrogen separately so I can control it better. :) There is a 20% discount code of Shirley20 if you end up wanting to give them a try…