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When Retirement Becomes Less About Money and More About Emotional Wealth

By Stan Corey March 07, 2018 Lifestyle

In 1964, Bob Dylan wrote the song, “The Times They Are a-Changin’.” As he sang those famous words, I wonder if he had any idea how much they would come to represent an entire generation of Americans.

No doubt, those born in the 40s, 50s and 60s have improved the world through championing civil and women’s rights, the technological revolution, the redefinition of family and the workplace, and rock and roll. And their ability to shift paradigms continues as they influence what it means to retire.

Retirement No Longer Exists

Webster defines retirement as “The state of being retired, withdrawal from one’s position or occupation or from active working life.” There’s only one problem with this definition – retirement no longer exists!

The current generation of retirees is not following the path of their parents. Now the r-word, retirement, is problematic because it conjures up images of sitting in a rocking chair and staring out the window to the outside world.

In fact, retirement today bears little resemblance to withdrawing from working life. Many of today’s retirees have no intention of stopping and are seeking to live out the rest of their lives with purpose and adventure. This is not just a shift in living it is a shift in thinking.

When Work Becomes Optional

It is why I replace no longer relevant terminology with what I refer to as “When Work Becomes Optional.” Retirement is no longer a noun, it has become a verb.

The r-word may signal an end to one type of work – no more showing up to the office Monday through Friday and no more mandatory commutes and work travel.

But, more meaningful to today’s retirees, it signals a bright beginning – freedom to define work on your own terms and according to your own wishes. Who wouldn’t be thrilled to embark on that kind of amazing journey?

Retirement Is About Developing Emotional Wealth

For these financially savvy and motivated individuals, the r-word is less about asset accumulation and more about developing ‘emotional wealth.’

Money is not the driving force anymore. Instead, emotional wealth guides us to enhance our lives by doing good, following our own paths, continuing to learn, seeking new challenges and exploring new opportunities to benefit ourselves and others.

Options for Working in Your 60s

While the possibility of work becoming optional is full of opportunity, like any major transition, this stage can also induce anxiety. It can be a time to continue what you have been doing, but possibly at a reduced pace.

Or it can be a difficult period of letting go, as you release your hold on an identity that has been linked to the workplace your entire adult life.

Or you may find yourself working well into your 70s because you’re afraid of running out of money. Also, you may be fortunate enough to have a passion for what you have been doing and just do not want to stop doing it.

Whatever your circumstances, when work becomes optional is less about a specific age and more about taking control of your life, physical and emotional wellness, maintaining financial independence and pursuing your passions.

What are your passions, and what dreams are you looking forward to once work has become optional? Are you taking on new challenges? Are you trying to make a difference in your community? Are you caring for an aging parent? Please share your emotional wealth and what you do to accumulate more of it. Join the conversation!

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The Author

Stan Corey is a retired Certified Financial Planner Professional, Chartered Financial Consultant, and Certified Private Wealth Advisor and has worked with many individuals, families, and small businesses for almost 40 years. He has published two books, The Divorce Dance and When Work Becomes Optional. His current project is a series of short stories for children about life on the water, called “Sailing Adventures of Mac Brown.”

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