The ravens love my neighbors. Every week, their trash bin overflows with evidence of their huge family, spilling the remnants of their life out and onto the street. The lid is always open, supported by at least a foot of waste that didn’t fit any other way. On a windy day, much of this overflow ends up at my house, yard, flower beds, or lawn. The ravens perch on the rim of the garbage bin, pulling out choice pieces of trash to the ground so they can look closely at what might be inside. Spreading garbage all over the street.
Did you know that ravens are brilliant creatures? They’re known for their problem-solving skills, ability to use tools of many kinds, and highly high social intelligence. Sometimes, I wonder what those ravens are thinking. Do they have a system for predicting which items are more likely to contain food? They’re pretty good at unwrapping and opening, and I wonder where their limit is. Part of me wants to fill my trashcan with carefully wrapped gifts for them, all with food inside, to see just what they’re capable of accomplishing.

It used to bother me, all this garbage all over the place. Now, I find humor in its place. And material. I think about it, possibly too much, as you can probably see, and I write about it. About everything else that I find interesting, unusual, extraordinary, or frustrating. It’s a different way of being and thinking, and it takes the edge off everything, even before I write about it. It’s a fantastic release for letting go of stress. If you want it to be.

If you’re on the fence or haven’t even approached the gate, here are a few reasons you may want to consider writing for personal growth and long-term health.
There are many ways to write, and all of them are beneficial.
Journaling: Regularly writing about daily experiences and emotions.
Gratitude Journaling: Focusing on things you’re grateful for enhances positivity.
Creative Writing: Engaging in fiction, poetry, or other creative forms of writing.
Reflective Writing: Writing about personal experiences to gain insights and self-awareness.
Expressive Writing: Writing freely about thoughts and feelings without worrying about grammar or structure.

Here are some tips to help you maximize the benefits of writing.
Choose a quiet, comfortable place where you feel relaxed and focused. Use a journal or digital device that you are comfortable with. Some people prefer the tactile feel of pen and paper, while others like typing. I like both, depending on my mood.
Use prompts to help you get started, especially if you need help with what to write about. Prompts can be questions about your day, feelings, or specific topics like gratitude or goals.
Examples: “What am I grateful for today?”, “What is one challenge I faced, and how did I handle it?” “Describe a happy memory.”
Spend a few minutes each day writing about things you are grateful for. This can shift your focus from negative to positive aspects of life. Be specific about what you are thankful for and why. This deepens the practice and makes it more meaningful.
Write about your feelings. Acknowledge both positive and negative emotions without judgment. Use writing to process complex emotions and understand why you feel a certain way.
Write fiction, poetry, or creative non-fiction. Creative writing allows you to express yourself uniquely, fostering a sense of accomplishment and joy.
Write honestly about your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Authentic writing is more effective for emotional release and self-discovery.
Reflect on past experiences to learn from them. Write about lessons learned, personal growth, and future aspirations. This can provide a sense of direction and purpose.
Focus on the present moment while writing. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings.
Don’t pressure yourself to write perfectly or have profound insights every time. The goal is the process, not the product. Allow yourself to skip days if needed. Writing should be a helpful tool, not a source of stress. Don’t feel compelled to create a schedule. Write when you feel like it.
I had no idea when I took my dog out for a walk this morning that garbage day would give me an idea for a post here, but I love that it did. Writing is magical in that way. It makes you more observant and lets you deal with the negative in a healthier way. Not every time, mind you. But those moments are surprisingly frequent and completely worthwhile.
Have you ever tried using writing as a way to manage stress or process emotions? What was your experience like? Which of the benefits of writing mentioned in the article resonates most with you and why? Do you think everyone has a book in them?
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My daughters gave me Storyworth. So for one whole year I wrote and short story about growing up. Storyworth prints it at the end of the year. . I’ve missed writing so I am writing a book about the little airline that no one seems to remember but I was a stewardess for. Need to figure out how to publish it!
How fantastic Jane! I would love to read this book when it’s out. Best of luck with it!
How about a solution to raven trash all over your yard? Buy your neighbors a very large trash can so they have one extra can to hold the overflow. And, what a great idea, gifts of food for the ravens. You might even test their reasoning skills by putting food in a box with a blue bow and one empty one with a red one.
Ha, thanks! Unfortunately it doesn’t work that way in our neighborhood as the bins, already enormous, are provided by the collection company. Our neighbors would pay more, every week, for a second one. Color coding would be an interesting experiment! If I ever am at a loss for something to do, I may consider it.
So -ive been journaling for close to 40 years. Just about daily life. Ups, downs, health and kids. Its such a part of me its like daily medicine – thats free!
That’s fantastic Nancy! Do you ever go back and read what you’ve written so long ago?
Hi Tammy, yes I do! Some of the special days ( weddings or vacations etc) nice to relive. Other things I can look up ER. Trips or medical stuff & it’s like a personal reference book.
do you journal?
I do! I love journaling. I have a different journal for my hikes, my sketches, gratitude, books I read, and then one for everything else!
This is something I would like to do I’m thinking of doing a gratitude journal even if I only write a sentence when faced with a blank piece of paper my mind goes blank like a mental block perhaps it like anything new you have to start some where one word in front of the other like steps one at a time
You might appreciate a little journal I found online, called A Line A Day. That’s all you write, just one line a day. It gets easier over time. And looking back on your writing is so very interesting!
I found that during and after my sessions with my therapist that writing was a huge release for me. I even wrote a short memoir detailing my experiences with trauma from a teenage pregnancy followed by an abortion and having been raped along with sexual assaults. I joined a blog for writers and have written several articles on various subject matter along with some poetry. Being a part of a community of fellow writers gives me inspiration and insights for my own writing. I have been having an issue with writers block more recently. I don’t know why but I am giving myself grace and space to sit down with it whenever I feel ready again. It can’t ever be forced. You have to just let it flow!!
You go Julie!
I read your post and it has given me hope that I too can give myself grace to help myself through writing. If I miss a day, there is always tomorrow
It’s a great way to work through your thoughts and feelings. And you’re right, it should never be forced!