What do men over 60 want? For women who have been trying to find that illusive “special someone” for a while, this may seem like an impossible question to answer. After all, for most of our lives, men were simple creatures. Now, as we reach our 50s and 60s, the situation is somewhat more complicated.

To get a view into the male mind after 60, I sat down with dating coach, Lisa Copeland for a quick chat. Lisa Copeland is a fabulous woman, with a passion for helping women to find quality men. If you have you have ever noticed that older men are unlikely to make eye contact with your or have felt completely ignored at a dance or party, Lisa thinks she knows why.

What Are Single Men Over 60 Looking for?

In our interview, I asked Lisa this question directly and she gave me a simple answer. Single men in their 60s are looking for a woman who is feminine and is willing to help them feel like a man. Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations and even at home.


Now, as we reach our 60s, it’s difficult to put our swords down and just relax a bit. According to Lisa, single men over 60 want women who are in touch with their feminine side. They want encouragement, not criticism. They need confirmation, not competition.

Do Older Men Really Only Want to Date Younger Women?

Lisa and I also discuss the perception that men only want to date younger women. Lisa mentions that this is often the case, but, not for the reasons that many of us assume. Men are not always looking for a younger body to cuddle up next to. More important is that fact that younger women are more willing to show their feminine side to win a man’s heart.

Of course, they don’t have our experience, or our battle scars for that matter, but, this is beside the point. Lisa argues that, if we can connect with our feminine side, we can find a quality man, regardless of who we are competing with.

Lisa is a straight shooter. You may not agree with her on every point. Or, you may decide that she is right, but, that finding a partner is just not worth the trouble. But, I promise you that her opinions come from interactions with 100s of older women, just like you. As a result, she knows what she’s saying, even if her advice is not always pleasant to hear.

Please join Lisa and I as we discuss:

  • Why men in their 60s will do anything humanly possible for their woman
  • How your desire to be a superwoman may be impacting your dating life
  • The four magic words that you can say to a man that will change everything
  • Why men and women look in dating profiles and see their grandmother and grandfather
  • What you can do to help a man feel more manly
  • Why women are more focused on nourishing and men on protecting
  • The real reason that older men are attracted to younger women
  • The difference between an alpha and beta male… and why this matters

I hope that you enjoy the show! Please don’t forget to like, share and comment on the video!

Do you think that the feminist movement disrupted our ability to express our feminine side? Are you dating after 60? What has your experience been? Please watch the video and add your thoughts in the comments section below.

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