Eye lashes start to do curious things as we age. They get thinner, grey lashes start poking up, and your old mascara suddenly doesn’t cut it. I noticed this on my own lashes, and it ran parallel to other droopy bits on my body that never used to look like that. I honestly think being positive about your body as you age takes on a whole new level, and also of grace. Speak sweetly to those thinning lashes, and let’s find some easy solutions!
Today we are looking at some easy tricks of the trade to help lashes look longer, thicker, and more lush for all those wild parties you go to.
Eyelashes thin with age in women primarily due to hormonal changes, especially during menopause, which decrease estrogen and progesterone levels, slowing the hair growth cycle. Because of this, hair follicles can shrink, produce finer hair, and slow down regrowth.
Taking collagen internally can help, as can getting help with hormones. Having said that, in the end we all start searching for the best mascara for mature eyes or wondering whether there’s a mascara that doesn’t look harsh after 50.
The solution is finding a mascara created for mature lashes and using smarter techniques and softer definition.
One of the most important makeup tips for older women is also one of the most overlooked: curling the lashes. This goes for me, too, as I don’t often take the extra couple of minutes to curl my lashes. When I do, though, it’s pretty spectacular! Straight lashes tend to point downward, casting shadows that can make eyes look tired or heavy.
One of the absolute best tricks to better curl lashes is to heat up the curler. In the video, I used a hair dryer for about 30 seconds, and then curled Elaine’s lashes. It doesn’t damage the lashes, and makes them curl even more and better.
Once I curled Elaine’s lashes and added mascara, her eyes were instantly opened and lifted. If your lashes are delicate, use a soft pumping motion instead of one firm squeeze. This helps lift without stressing mature lashes.
When it comes to how to apply mascara for mature eyes, separation and lift matter far more than thickness.
Start by running the tip of the wand across all the lashes to coat them. Then place the mascara wand at the base of the lashes and wiggle it slightly and pull upward. This technique deposits product where lashes need support while keeping the tips light and fluttery.
One thin coat is often enough for daytime wear. If you want more definition, allow the first coat to dry briefly before adding a second. Applying too much mascara too quickly is one of the main reasons lashes clump and look heavy on mature eyes.
If lashes begin to stick together, gently comb through the tips with a clean spoolie or brush. Softness and movement are key to keeping lashes looking elegant and natural.
Color choice plays a bigger role than many women realize. While black mascara can still work beautifully, it can sometimes feel too intense against mature skin or lighter lashes.
A softer option like Smokey is ideal for women who want definition without harsh contrast. It’s especially flattering for daytime wear, lighter complexions, or women with silver or gray hair.
For those who enjoy subtle enhancement, Emerald mascara can be surprisingly wearable. On brown or hazel eyes, a touch of emerald adds depth and brightness without looking bold or trendy. Applied lightly, especially toward the outer lashes, it enhances eye color in a refined, understated way.
Classic shades like brown, deep brown, and black all have their place. The key is choosing what feels balanced and comfortable for you. The best mascara shades for older women are the ones that enhance rather than overpower. Having said that, if you want to wear fuchsia mascara and color your hair purple, go for it!
The best mascara for women over 50 focuses on definition, comfort, and wear. Look for formulas designed to resist flaking and smudging, with brushes that separate rather than overload the lashes.
Some brands, like PrimePrometics, specifically design mascaras with mature women in mind, prioritizing softness and control over trends. This is the brand I wear and love.
Beautiful lashes after 50 aren’t about chasing youth or dramatic effects. They’re about thoughtful choices, gentle techniques, and understanding what truly flatters mature eyes.
With the right approach, mascara can once again become one of your favorite beauty steps, creating lashes that lift the eyes, frame the face, and feel natural and comfortable all day.
If you’ve been frustrated with mascara and thinning lashes lately, consider this your invitation to rethink, refine, and enjoy the process again. Small changes really do make a big difference. . . and don’t forget to speak sweetly to your lashes!
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How important are your lashes after 50? Do you pay special attention to them or ignore them completely?
I use a lash primer by Essence, $5.00 and it makes a world of difference.
Hi Sue, That sounds affordable and good! Suz
I’ve always read you should curl your eyelashes but mine are not long enough. They have always been short, even as a teenager. Yes, I tried curling them when I was younger but never worked. Suggestions for those of us who fall into this category?
Hi Joyce, Here is a video talking about a small eye lash curler for short lashes. Maybe this would work? https://youtube.com/shorts/bbL_lAwe6Qo?si=hd-8tFfWbLWQpemk
What’s your suggestion for heating the lash curler for those of us who don’t own a hair dryer?
Hi Margie, Good question! You can put it over your stove top weather it’s electric or gas. It only takes like 30 seconds to a minute. Have fun! Suz
Warm water, then dry with towel
I have blue eyes and I’ve been wearing a maroon colored mascara that really makes the blue pop.
Hi Cindi, Yes maroon mascara is amazing on blue and green eyes! I also love blue for blue eyes as long as the blue mascara doesn’t overpower the eye color. Thanks for commenting!
I have rather sensitive, hazel eyes that run or weep rather easily. I do use an eyelasher curer and mascara on the top lashes only, otherwise they just end up running. Violet mascara would probably look gorgeous on.me….I think I will try that….
Yes, talking about parties, someone made à rude remark about my sex life. I could not resist poking fun by saying, very seriously, yes, I’m thinking of doing à threesome. Wanna come? The woman was embarrassed. Serves her right…..
Hi Jane, The Mulberry mascara is beautiful and I have green eyes and wear it all the time. As far as the sex thing, that’s hilarious! You gave a good come-back:)