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How I Went from Downsizing to Minimalism

By Lynn Clare November 28, 2023 Mindset

I began my downsizing journey many years ago. I found that it is more of an ongoing process than an event. Even though there were many events within the process, it was always focused around the removal of things. All of those cherished possessions that were taking up all of my time and space.

Each time I moved, I got rid of as many unwanted and unneeded things as possible. But always, within a short amount of time, they would creep back in. Gifts from family, purchases that I really didn’t need, items I thought were too sentimental to part with, etc. All of it, just stuff.

Very Little of It Actually Enhanced My Life or Well-Being

Most of these things were relics of a life that I no longer live. Their purpose has been served and yet I still hang on. Somehow there is an anxiety about letting go of these things that feels like a loss. That is when I started thinking about what that means in my life today. Am I willing to stay shackled to the past because I refuse to release these things?

I started reading more about minimalism and how it is much more of a mindset than a physical activity. Decluttering and organizing are ways to manage your belongings but neither of them helps to improve your inner environment.

Downsizing vs. Minimalism

For me, looking at a clean, sparsely decorated room feels peaceful. Realizing that truth made me take things to a new level. I wanted that feeling in all areas of my life, not just my home. I wanted to feel that way with work, my relationships, social interactions – everything.

Downsizing: To reduce or decrease in size.

Minimalism: A style or technique that is characterized by simplicity.

When I looked at the definitions of downsizing and minimalism, the word that jumped out at me was simplicity. That is what I am after. It doesn’t have to be small; it just has to be simple.

I have been slowly inching toward being more deliberate in how I live my life. Evaluating what brings purpose and joy to me right now and what does not.

I’ve had to reassess what I truly value and what the cost is to keep it.

Pricing Things in Life

Henry David Thoreau said, “the price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.”

Now, in my 60s, life is more precious than ever, and I want to make the most out of this amazing chapter.

As with most new things, I am starting small and taking it easy. I don’t need to rush; I want to be thoughtful about this new lifestyle.

So, I am noticing that the more changes I make the better I feel and the better I feel the more changes I’m ready to make. I love how it all works together.

Something as simple as turning off the notifications on my email feels like a victory.

Every day I am on the lookout for another area to simplify. Is it a plant that needs repotting or a shelf that has gotten too cluttered? Whatever it is, I just take care of it.

All the little things add up to the big things in your life. It doesn’t matter how much you have as long as you have room for what really matters.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you downsized but still feel there is more to be done? Is Minimalism something you would try? Share your stories and join the conversation.

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Barb

I really like your focus on simplicity/joy. I’m part of our neighborhood Buy Nothing Group, and when I find something I don’t need/want/use anymore, I offer it to my neighbors. This has helped me to gradually declutter the things I find I’m just not using anymore, while bringing joy to my neighbors. I’m also slowly giving away various family items to my kids, as well as nieces/nephews. I get the joy of seeing who wants to come visit me and take special family items home with them to use it NOW. Plus, if I ever want to see the items, I have an excuse to go visit them ;). Since I’ve gifted my kids most of the family holiday ornaments and decorations already, I have just a smattering of items to put up for Christmas – but it’s all easy-care stuff I love right now! Here’s a short video tour of my downsized/empty-nester seasonal home decorations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynfXU37Yq4g

Sal

Very Little of It Actually Enhanced My Life or Well-Being
Most of these things were relics of a life that I no longer live. Their purpose has been served and yet I still hang on. Somehow there is an anxiety about letting go of these things that feels like a loss. That is when I started thinking about what that means in my life today. Am I willing to stay shackled to the past because I refuse to release these things?

The paragraph above summarized my feelings exactly! Very well put, and I could not agree more after choosing a new way of life in a new city.
Thank you!

Velma

I recently retired and thought I could downsize fairly quickly.that is not the case. I’ve been debating on giving storing or yard sale.

Deb

Downsized with a job change, we bought a tiny place near downtown Seattle to be on the water. Our home was twice the size with two large attics and a massive garage for storage. Now that we are retired, looking back, it was the best thing to happen. Before the big move, I had younger friends come over several times and take what they could use from our larger home. We dropped off much of the furniture and appliances to a newly single mom’s home. Many things went to Habitat for Humanity.
 
Our new place doesn’t hold much but we still have the things we couldn’t part with in a
storage unit close by. Life happened, and a significant illness caused my partner to retire at home (pancreatic cancer) so we are living simply and modestly at home, but that problematic and costly in many ways, storage unit still exists.

Rebecca

This is a excellent article if you are systemically working to distress and experience more of life and not stuff.

The Author

Lynn Clare is a freelance writer living in Denver, Colorado. She is an avid traveler and loves writing about her adventures for women who travel solo at http://www.Womens-Independent-Travel.com

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