I Don’t Like Feeling My Age

I ran on Sunday, strength trained on Monday, and when my alarm went off to wake up for ballet class on Wednesday, my body rebelled.

Age is just a number, or so we are meant to believe. Well, I prefer the number 30. When I was 30, I could walk into a room and remember what I needed. At 30, I slept through the night and could do a full split. Thirty sounds like a good number to me.

Slowing Down

Alas, I am 30 no more, and at 60, I’m starting to feel my age more readily. I never prepared for this day. Somehow, I always thought that older me would be the same me, with more gray hair and wrinkles. In reality, older me is slowing down. I have less energy and tend to tire more quickly; exercising is tougher; and I tolerate a lot less than I used to.

At this age, it is more important than ever to challenge your mind, body, and soul; and I still do that through exercise, writing, work, and raising a teenager; It just seems at a slower pace. I sometimes wish I had been better prepared for this stage of life, all the while being grateful that I have gotten this far.

So, I thought I would write a “Top 3” list of things I should have said to my younger self and another list of things to say to my current, older self, with the intention of helping others to prepare for their individual journeys.

Things I Would Tell My Younger Self

Go with Confidence

There is no need to feel inferior to anyone. Gather up your strengths and show the world what you can do. Don’t second guess your choices. You are one of a kind with so much to offer; the world will accept you as you are.

You Will Always Bounce Back

No matter how dire the situation seems, you will always move forward. You have the wherewithal and gumption to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and proceed to something new and interesting – EVERY TIME.

Start an Exercise Program by the Time You Are 40

Trust me on this one. Getting into a fitness routine is so important to preserve your physical and mental health. Your body will age no matter what, so get into good habits before it’s too late.

Things I Would Tell My Current Self

Stay Active

Walk, play cards, socialize, go to a gym – do something. You need to keep moving in order for your brain and body to remain alert and nimble. I know you are sometimes tired, and rest is important, but push yourself to get out there.

Your Circle of Friends May Narrow, But It Will Be Filled with Genuine Connections

Don’t just do small talk anymore, opt for deep friendships that can go the distance during good times and bad. Your true-blue friends will reveal themselves.

Travel as Much as You Can

See the world and experience different cultures. Explore by walking through foreign cities, visit famous monuments and art, have adventures. Do it solo or with a companion. There may be a time when you aren’t as physically able and when that time comes, take slower paced trips that can accommodate your needs. There is lots to discover and your mind, body, and soul will be glad you did.

While I sometimes bemoan my current age and state of physique, I am taking my own advice. I have formed meaningful relationships with a select group of people; I keep my body and mind active; am more confident and know whatever comes my way, I will handle it; and I have my passport at the ready and not afraid to use it. Today, I am 60, but I believe my 80-year-old self will thank me.

Also read, Looking and Feeling Young… Beyond 80!

What Are Your Thoughts?

What are some of your favorite things to do to remain active? Do you have anything to add to my “Top 3 Lists?” I would love to hear ideas.