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Looking for Love in 2022? 5 Tips for Successful Online Dating

By Andrea McGinty December 31, 2021 Dating

Trying out online dating for the first time or frustrated by the experience? Or heard the hype about January 3 – Dating Sunday/Singles’ Sunday?

Below are five online dating tips I gathered in my 20+ years of experience as a matchmaker.

Enlist Help

With over 104 million singles in America and 30 million dating online, your profile needs to stand out. A dating expert can help you craft a profile you’re proud of – and one that isn’t full of clichés like “long walks on the beach.”

You hire professionals to help you work out, clean your house, and cut your hair, so why not hire a dating pro to help reflect your individuality? Of course, you are the one who knows you best, but if you aren’t a dating expert, you’ll have a hard time expressing your strengths.

Refresh Your Photos

Time to cull from the thousands of photos saved on your phone for five to ten terrific shots. If your photos are more than a year old or low-resolution, consider scheduling a photoshoot with a friend or even a professional.

Pose in natural light, ideally outdoors, and show off your smile. Avoid selfies and sunglasses and include at least one full body shot that conveys your interests, whether it’s hiking, doing a tree pose, or walking along the shore

Lastly, most photos should be solo. Including pets is warm and welcoming, but only a shot or two should include friends or family.

Be Proactive

Start with only one or two dating platforms. You can add more later, but you don’t want to be overwhelmed by all the “likes” you’ll receive!

Once live, don’t wait for replies to bombard you. Set these aside and use the platform’s filters so you see the type of people you’re looking for – there’s no need to be shy about knowing what you want.

After coaching thousands of people and playing a part in 4,200 marriages, I’ve found that those with the highest level of dating success proactively work the system in person and online.

Arrange Video Chats

Set up short video chats/FaceTime calls to determine whether you’re willing to meet in real life. Keep conversations to 10 minutes – this is enough time to get a feel for personality, looks, mannerisms and more. Ask important questions early on to ensure your values align, and remember, chemistry only comes in person!

Have Fun

Now it’s time for the good stuff! Arrange drinks, coffee, or brunch al fresco – these are less pressure, more relaxed and don’t drag on. If you’re ready to leave, you can always say you have errands to run or evening plans.

A coach can help with this part, too. At 33 Thousand Dates offers expert advice on how to communicate and follow up on dates. Keep in mind, you’re seeing if you like the person enough to go on a second date, not marry him! And if it doesn’t go well, those millions of other singles are waiting to meet you!

Don’t continue to tread water. Take proactive steps now to date online with confidence.

To learn more about enlisting the help of dating pros, visit

Have you worked with a dating expert? What did you learn from them? Where was their advice lacking? Please share your comments below.

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The Author

Andrea McGinty is the founder of It’s Just Lunch dating service. She sold it and founded so she could help singles navigating online dating. In the 2020s, she knows the best way to meet people is through online dating using a professional coach and specializes in singles in their 50s-70s!

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