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What’s the Deal with To-Do Lists?

By Ann Richardson December 14, 2022 Lifestyle

Today was a special and very rare day (it will be several days ago by the time you read this, but that is unimportant).

Did I win the lottery? Was a new grandchild born? Did my hair suddenly stop being grey?

No, none of these things. But I got all the things on my to-do list done. That is a rare event.

And rather pleasing.

Lists

I don’t know about you, but I am always making to-do lists. I used to do it because it was so wonderful when I could cross something off (and I would get very annoyed if I completed some task, only to discover that it wasn’t on a list).

Now I make lists as I am increasingly forgetful, and my lists sit on my desk where I can’t miss them. I worry that if I don’t have it written down, I might miss something important.

Why more than one? The simple answer is that I scrawl all over everything and, in the end, one list is a mess, so I start another one. Sometimes, I try to combine them, but that never lasts long.

And sometimes, I try to separate the home list from the work list, but even that gets into a tangle, as there is a certain amount of crossover.

What Is on a List?

Anything and everything. Running a home ­– even for two people – seems to involve encountering an awful lot of problems.

There was a Mastercard bill that I paid but was returned to my bank. Why? How to stop it happening again?

Phone calls to banks and the equivalent take ages these days. There is a consistent message, at least in England, to the effect that “call volumes are unusually high at the moment” to explain long waiting times.

When I finally got through to Mastercard – and, more amazingly, to an actual breathing person – I was told by way of explanation that there had been a ‘glitch’ as if this were a technical term that explained anything.

But I got to the bottom of it and that was one thing solved.

My email was down. This doesn’t happen often but is incredibly annoying when it does. It seemed that, due to some new rule, I had to prove that I was a real person by uploading a photo of my driving license. Not easy, but I managed to do it successfully.

An important App wasn’t working on my phone. I asked various people and then realised that I could re-set it by deleting it and downloading it. Yes, fixed again.

And finally, the ‘contact us’ message on my website wasn’t working for my email, so the only way interested people could contact me was via the email of the manager of the site. But he finally found a way around this, and I am now contactable. You can try if you like.

All these are boring – you really should not be interested.

Completing Lists

But I will let you share my pleasure at getting loads of little things done. You feel so free. Rather like when you finished your exams, whether as a teenager or much later.

A weight is lifted. Your jobs are done.

For the moment.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you keep one or more to-do lists? Do you get great pleasure from crossing off jobs that have been done? If you don’t do lists, how do you keep track of everything you need to do in a day?

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Amy Leigh Martin

I make lists for all the reasons you mentioned plus. The thing I don’t do is assign a date. I do prioritize and do “musts” 1st. But being retired take the stress off of time.

parwatisingari

I did, I gave myself a point when i did the task and a -ve point when I didn’t. the idea was when I hit 100 points I would buy myself a gift. Guess what I ran right down to -100 and gave up the list.

Arshi Aziz

Hello! Lists are fantastic. They clear your mind of clutter, add as a reminder of things to do and help you to keep track of all that has to e done in our lives, regardless of how old we are, and what is happening. I use Keep (I think it is a Google App) on my phone for my lists. This works really well for me, as my phone feels attached to me most of the day. It is also easy to prioritise, as just by sliding my to dos up or down, I know I am tackling those most important for me. Happy Listing! Happy Holidays!

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Ann Richardson’s most popular book, The Granny Who Stands on Her Head, offers a series of reflections on growing older. Subscribe to her free Substack newsletter, where she writes fortnightly on any subject that captures her imagination. Ann lives in London, England with her husband of sixty years. Please visit her website for information on all her books: http://annrichardson.co.uk.

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