As a woman over 60, how do you feel about wearing makeup? Does it give you a lift and you wear it everyday, and wouldn’t dream of going out the front door without it? Or perhaps you just wear it for special occasions like parties, weddings, going out to dinner, etc.? Or maybe you never wear make up any more (or never did)? Perhaps you can’t be bothered, or feel it doesn’t look right on older skin?
Most women over 60 I speak to think skincare is more important and would rather put their money and time into keeping their skin hydrated and looking as good as it can be. I can still recall my teenage years of putting Ambre Solaire oil all over my body, and basking in the sun until I fried!
Now, of course, I am much more careful and recently found a sunscreen that really works for me. It’s a bit expensive to buy, but I bought it at the airport and, so far, it has lasted me six months of travel in hot countries, without even a red face.
I also use a retinol cream I buy in Spain. I don’t think it is available over the counter in the UK. Other than that, it’s good old-fashioned Nivea. :)
Oh, my goodness, does anyone else remember Pan Stick? It was a stick of foundation in a thick block. You twiddled the knob and up would pop a claggy lump. I would like to say it glided beautifully over my skin, but even with the gorgeous fresh skin of youth, I know it clumped together, a little bit like a weak cement mixture!
Now I give foundations a wide berth. They only fill my wrinkles up anyway (no wonder I used to use so much!) and then crack when I smile. I think I will stick with just a tiny bit of concealer, if I bother at all.
Have you found one that you like? Or maybe you are one of the lucky (un-fried) ones who have perfect porcelain skin!
Being a blonde (ok a greyish blonde!) my eyelashes need a little something or they just disappear. Thankfully, they are still reasonably thick and quite long, so a smidgen of mascara goes a long way.
How many of you can remember sticking false eyelashes on (mine often looked a little like dead spiders at the end of the night!). What were we thinking of? Now, young people seem to be wearing eyelashes so thick they can barely open their eyes! How do they see where they are going? I’ve got enough trouble with my eyesight as it is, thanks!
How I used to love lipstick! The brighter the better! But that was when I had plump, luscious lips. Where did they go? Now they seem to have shrunk to half the width and instead of thick bow-shaped voluptuous lips, I have two thin straight lines that seem to droop down at the edges, rather than smile upwards.
For me, the only thing they get is a nude lip gloss (on high days and holidays) but mostly vaseline!
I have recently been introduced to something I think we used to call rouge, but now seems to be called bronzer. It is amazing! I use the teeny-tiniest amount, and it completely transforms my face. It is so fine it doesn’t even go in my wrinkles, just gives me a lovely holiday glow.
I haven’t told anyone I use it, but every time I do, someone says to me, “You look well.”
I’ll take that. :)
But, you know, the real beauty is the one inside us. I know it’s a bit of a cliche, but I think it’s true. If you look at photos of really old people, not spring chickens like us, you can see so much beauty and radiance in their faces. It’s as if their wisdom, experiences and love shine through, and the best bit is, us, young ones, have still got all that to come!
For now, think about what is in your heart and your soul. If what you find in there is beautiful, then so are you. Your skin may never have that dewy look of youth again, your eyelashes may be a bit sparse, you may be lucky enough to have those lost hairs on your eyebrows not sprout on your chin, but you are gorgeous just the way you are. It’s as simple as that!
How do you feel about make up? Does it change how you feel when you have it on? Is make up best left for young skin?
Still being a Flight Attendant at almost 64 I do wear make up but I’ve always been a less is more kind of gal. I wear a lightweight tinted sunscreen for foundation, a little concealer, eye shadow primer (which brightens the eye just on it’s own), neutral eye stick, mascara and a neutral lipliner with a gloss over it. Not sure if I can mention brands but I’ve started wearing something called Miracle Balm (not saying the maker) which is a multipurpose glossy product and I get so many complements on glowing skin. It comes in many shades and the container is big enough to dollop some out to share with multiple friends. My tip is to not wear a powdery or drying foundation at this point in life.
Hi Anne, thanks for joining the conversation. Miracle Balm sounds interesting, I have never heard of that before.Love that you are still working as a flight attendant :) Lily x
Miracle Balm is absolutely wonderful, and it smells so good!
I used to wear makeup every day until I got assaulted and my nose broken so it hurt just to touch my face. I had two huge black bruises under my eyes that no makeup would be able to conceal. Additionally, my age (70 at the time) made me basically invisible in public so I didn’t wear makeup for quite a while. Now I’m retired and only wear makeup for meetings or occasionally for shopping days. I like wearing red-orange or red-brown lipstick every day just to brighten my pale face a little bit but age-related invisibility has been kind of a nice benefit for me.
Hi Kelly, sorry to hear about the assault. That must have been traumatic. I am a bit like you and only wear make up sometimes, but I do feel it gives me a lift when I do. Lily x
I too still wear makeup and I don’t go very far without it at 70 next month. I wear, concealer, a light dusting of blush and mascara. On my lips I either wear lip balm or lipstick if I’m going out. I also still color my hair. Any ideas about our hair coloring at this stage in our lives. Have a wonderful weekend! Hugs
Hi Beverley Happy Birthday for next month!! I bet you look fabulous! I used to colour my hair but when I was visiting lots of countries the sun bleached it so I stopped. Luckily my grey is mixed with my natural blond :) Lily x
Hi Beverley, it is my birthday next month too, Happy Birthday :) I think less is more as well. I used to colour my hair but spent a while full-time travelling and the sun bleached my hair so much I stopped. You have a wonderful weekend too! Lily x
OK I own up…..I.love just wearing sunscreen but going out yes, very soft make up. I have a super pale skin and colours like soft caramel eyeshadow or even pink look good on me
Yes just sunscreen for me. I still tan well and I have only just started going grey (behind the ears). Enough to show it isn’t dyed! Wear my mostly dark brown hair in a ponytail or clamped up on top of my head. 70 in August but people think I am much younger. Occasionally use a bronzer and nude lipstick if I am “dressing up”. Otherwise I can’t be bothered!
Hi Sue, Lucky you! I wish I had a natural tan but I am quite pale skinned. Bronzer is my new best friend :) Lily x
Hi Jane, thanks for joining the conversation. I wish I was as good as you for wearing sunscreen but sometimes I forget! Lily x
Hi Jane, I thought I replied before but it has disappeared! Thank you for contributing. Very soft make up suits most skin, I am really pale like you! Lily x
I do wear makeup and I am 71. It is the way I can keep my skin safe from the sun since I had skin cancer. Face makeup is not that noticeable really and I do wear mascara and some eye defining eyeshadow. I am an artist so I do like to change it up a bit and wear colorful eye shadows at times because, to me, it is about having fun, even at 71!!
Love it. I’m 70 too and can still get away with grey kohl. I prefer powder to foundation. On the days where I look “like hell” (= sick or very pale), à light dusting of pink powder makes me look more human. I find lip gloss way prettier than lipstick.
Hi Jane,I am sure you always look gorgeous!! I agree about lip gloss, especially now my lips are a little thin! Lily x
Hi Steph, I completely agree. Having fun is what life is all about and if you can do that with make up, fabulous! Lily x