7 Ideas for Preserving Your Family History
One year ago, an historian from a museum in Lueneburg, Germany, contacted me. “Are you the great granddaughter of Robert Heinemann?” she asked.
They were looking for descendants of Robert’s father, my great, great grandfather, Marcus Heinemann, who had been a leading Jewish citizen in Lueneburg many years before Hitler.
The museum had items stolen from Marcus’s estate by the Nazis. Marcus had 17 children and the museum wanted to return the estate items to the descendants. That opened an amazing door to the past.
I had always heard about those 17 children from my grandmother, but there was so much I did not know. So, I began searching for family members around the world and organized a family reunion with forty family members from six countries, nearly all newly discovered.
Through hundreds of email exchanges, we agreed to keep the items in the museum through a long-term loan. But the true value was worth more than money — it woke me up to the deep and powerful story of my family and our history.
As women in our 60s, we have much to reflect back upon in our lives, while still most likely enjoying the company of a few elderly relatives. Suddenly, unique to this time in my life, I realized the accessibility and the incredible power of linking the past, the present, and the future.
By now, we have gained perspective on life and ripened our own little chunk of wisdom. We have experienced ups and downs, adventures, loves, losses, and realized some dreams. We also have a bit more time to examine that collection of saved paraphernalia, from dried flowers to the cherished photos. And even without the benefit of an historian, there are amazing resources from which to draw.
In this blog, I offer seven ways to wake up and explore your family history.
Write Your Memoir
Dig through your own journals and start writing your memoir. The memoir is actually a sub-genre of an autobiography, however it is less a sequenced historical account with exact dates and chronology, and more of a draw upon your feelings and perceptions.
There are many memoir classes, often available at local community centers and colleges, as well as online memoir courses, to get you launched. These classes can help you select an approach to your work.
I like the idea of making my memoir a collection of essays about different times in my life without feeling bound to present them in a sequence. The website, Goodreads, has a list of popular memoirs to inspire you.
Look Into Storycorps
This organization calls themselves America’s “oral history project” with over 600,000 interviews with more than 100,000 participants of all backgrounds.
Anyone can download the Storycorps App that helps you prepare and record a high quality interview on your cell and upload it to the archive. Storycorps also has recording booths in Atlanta, Chicago, and San Francisco, where you can schedule an appointment for a free recording session.
Their model is a two-person interview. Your story will be archived and you will receive a free CD. Or, their Mobile Story Book may be coming to your town. It is a traveling recording studio that makes its way across the country. You may also use your own equipment to conduct an interview.
Make a Film of Your Family Stories
Set up the video camera in your living room and bring your kids, your siblings, or your friends together for a story-telling night. Plan the questions ahead of time.
Put the camera on a tripod for steadiness and be sure you have clear audio. Encourage them to keep answers short so you don’t have to edit. Also, don’t make it too long. You do want people to actually watch it! Then, make copies for everyone.
I am planning to do this during the holiday season, but first, I will help everyone feel nice and cozy and serve hot apple cider. You can also go online to hire hundreds of family story video production companies to do a professional job.
Create a Family History Kit
Gather taped interviews, music recorded by family members, (digitize some of the old tapes). Put together a kit, which could be a box with videos, audiotapes, copies of articles or stories about the family, or include special photos. Make a copy of the family history kit for each of your family members – parents, siblings, children, nieces, and nephews.
For my kit, I had a family tree and I digitized the VHS video interview we made when my mother was alive, together with a short autobiography handwritten by my mother in 1939 when she was 19. Everyone told me they loved the kit.
Make a Printed Photobook through Shutterfly, iPhoto or Blurb
They have a range of templates with stories and captioned pictures for the family. All you need to do is plug in your photos and stories. You can order multiple copies for family members.
I even was able to do this as a project with my young niece and nephew, who made a book for their grandmother. She supplied the pictures and I showed them what to do. An alternative, low-budget method would be to make a spiral bound book and mass produce it at a copy shop.
Dig into Your DNA
Did you know that you can explore your ancestry by having your DNA tested? You can find out about your ethnic background and migrations into and from a particular region, or even discover whether you have notable ancestors.
On the popular PBS show Finding Your Roots, Henry Louis Gates explores the personal histories of celebrities. Their website invites you to share your story. It also offers many family history tools and ideas.
My friend Robin used a service called “23andMe.” She says it’s fantastic! She learned about her ancestry, found medical information, and even discovered distant cousins around the world.
Online Search for Family Records
There are so many websites that can help you. The well-known Ancestry.com is one of many websites that can help you make a family tree and explore your family history.
You might even find a photo of the headstone of one of your ancestors. The website, One Great Family is another collection of family trees that is becoming an online database of birth and death dates, as well as photos and biographical information.
Kathe searched the internet and used these tools to find out many details about her mother’s family. Then, she e-published a 97 page book with photos and stories, which she is giving to her three brothers and sister to commemorate her mother’s recent death.
I am now working on a short film about the life-affirming reunion, transformation and healing that occurred last summer between my family, the descendants of Marcus Heinemann, and the German community currently residing in Lueneberg. We are still uncovering the stories from both communities.
Just one small caveat – just because you become a born-again family historian, your siblings, children, or even your parents may not be interested. Not to worry. They may come around when they reach their 60s. Besides, sometimes it’s the future generations who benefit from your splurge into your family history.
What interesting facts have you found out about your family history? Have you used any of the tools listed in this article? Please share your story in the comments section below.