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Christine Moriarty Field is an author, attorney, and speaker. After homeschooling her four children, life fell apart. Divorced after 33 years, she dealt with unimaginable challenges with her adult children, including drug addiction, estrangement, and mental health issues. Therapy, prayer and introspection led her to encourage moms facing similar challenges. She is a criminal defense attorney and a recently remarried pastor’s wife. Learn more HERE.

Latest Posts By Christine Field

6 months ago

I Let My Daughter Sit in Jail – And Saved Our Relationship

They don’t prepare you for this part of parenting in any baby book. Nobody tells you that decades after you’ve stopped cutting grapes into quarters and checking for fevers, you might face the hardest parenting decision of your life. I was in my 60s when my phone rang…

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6 months ago

The Detachment Wall: How to Let Go of Your Adult Children

Some of us moms have a problem with our attachment to our children, to the point where the bond can become unhealthy. Can we love our children but not let their choices or behavior make us crazy? Is some detachment actually a good idea?

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6 months ago

The Rescue-and-Regret Cycle: Why You Keep Getting Pulled Back In

You promised yourself it wouldn’t happen again. You’d stop answering those late-night calls. You’d quit sending money you don’t have. You’d stop fixing problems that aren’t yours to fix. But then, the voice on the other end trembles – your adult child’s, or maybe your ex’s…

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6 months ago

The Guilt Trap: How to Stop Feeling Responsible for Your Adult Children’s Choices

For years, you were the one who made everything better. You found the missing shoes, calmed the tantrums, juggled the bills, and made sure everyone had what they needed. You were the glue. The heartbeat. The fixer. But now your children are grown…

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6 months ago

From Empty to Full: Reclaiming Joy After Divorce, Estrangement, and the Empty Nest

The empty nest isn’t just about missing your kids. It’s about missing yourself. For decades, you knew exactly who you were – the one they needed, the one who kept things running, the one who showed up no matter how tired or invisible you felt. Your days were measured in loads…

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7 months ago

Purpose, Passion, and Pizzazz: The Three Keys to Thriving in Your Next Act

There’s a myth about growing older: that life shrinks with age. That our world gets smaller, our opportunities fewer, and our days predictable. But the truth? For women over 60, this season can be the most expansive, creative, and fulfilling of all. The kids are grown…

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7 months ago

How to Let Go of Responsibility for Your Adult Child’s Choices

By the time we reached our 50s and 60s, most of us thought the hardest years of parenting were behind us. The toddler tantrums, the teenage battles, the sleepless nights – we survived them all. We figured the hard part was done. We thought we had “earned” the rest. But then adulthood…

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8 months ago

Estranged But Not Erased: Finding Yourself Beyond Motherhood

For decades, you lived for your children. Every meal, every carpool, every bedtime story – your life was wrapped around theirs. Motherhood wasn’t just a role; it was your identity, your calling, your heartbeat. So, when that connection is severed – whether…

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8 months ago

Why Your Second Act Doesn’t Need a Perfect Plan

If you’re over 60, you’ve probably noticed life rarely follows the script we imagined. When we were younger, many of us carried a picture of what life “should” look like at this stage. We thought we’d be surrounded by family, enjoying grandchildren nearby, perhaps traveling with a spouse…

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8 months ago

Making Peace with Your Adult Children When Things Haven’t Turned Out the Way You Expected

Let’s just say it: This isn’t how you thought it would be. You didn’t imagine your child avoiding your calls. You didn’t picture a strained holiday dinner, or worse, an empty seat. You didn’t expect silence, tension, or unspoken resentments. And yet – here you are…

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