Pets are a great source of comfort to many baby boomers these days. Pets have always been a source of comfort to people, but as you age, they help to fill many gaps.
The benefits of living with pets are many. Here we will discuss only a short list. Please feel free to share how your pets help you in everyday life.
If you’re alone, having a living, breathing companion in the house is comforting. Someone to take care of, someone to walk, nurture and feed. They’re a constant companion and a good one. Dogs will follow you from room to room. Just knowing they’re there is comforting.
I talk to my dogs, and they understand. Some people may think it’s crazy; I don’t think so. Dogs truly understand their owners. They get it. If you’re paying attention, you will see it in their eyes.
Dogs give people a reason to get up in the morning. You must walk the dog. You must get up, get dressed and take them out. It also gets you out of the house where you will likely meet other dogs and pet parents. It’s fresh air and exercise for both of you and maybe even some socialization with neighborhood people and their pets.
Pets offer us a sense of solace and calm when the going gets rough. Our pets have an innate ability to understand and sense our moods.
If you’re feeling down or you’re sick, they understand. They will stick by your side until you’re well, helping to comfort you along the way. They just want to please. They’ll sleep with you and watch out for you.
If you are anxious, they will calm you. Stoking the fur of a beloved cat or dog or whatever animal is calming in and of itself. It has been proven that animals help to reduce blood pressure, anxiety and even depression in humans. For a depressed person, having an animal takes away feelings of being alone, because they are not alone. These are emotional support animals, and they can be a lifesaver for some people.
There are also specially trained dogs who are trained to perform specific tasks. They can be taught to alert us to seizures, turn lights on and off and even take clothes out of the dryer. These are true service dogs trained to help the disabled, and they do a wonderful job of it. Service dogs are not emotional support animals.
Pets offer unconditional love. They want nothing from us but to be loved.
The positives of what having a pet can do for humans is nothing short of amazing. How often have we seen a dog go in to save a family after they suffer a terrible loss, yet the family feels they saved the dog. In truth, they saved each other.
Pets have been wonderful companions throughout my life. Each one was special in their own way. I know I will always have a dog or two. It is my hope that people who have found solace and gratification in having a pet for the first time will continue to do so for many years to come. We depend on our pets, and they depend on us.
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.”
― Anatole France
Are your pets comforting to you? What are your day-to-day interactions? How do you benefit each other? As pet lovers, I’d like to think so. If you’d like to have a conversation, let’s talk about it!!!
Our 4-year old mini-goldendoodle, Ginsburg, is a ball of energy, and endlessly mischievous and fun. Mostly, she just loves cuddling up between my wife and me when we are reading or watching a movie. Can’t imagine life without her now.
I know what you mean, Millree. I can’t imagine life without my dogs either. Ginsburg sounds like a total ball of fun and energy. Maybe she needs a friend? lol.
I have always had animals in my life,but now since I am in my late seventies, they are my closest friends and family.
I adopt senior doxies whos owners have passed on.
They are nine and ten years old.
We have an understanding that I saved them and they have saved me.
I understand that, Gayle. Bless you for adopting them for they are lost when their owners pass on. I took an eight year old in. She lived with us another six years. It was wonderful. And like you say, you save them and they save you.
We had a bonded pair from October 2020 pandemic years. They came to us as Rescue Dogs neglected and in ill health. 9 yr old Spaniel Terrier Tetley & 13 yr old Puggle, Tucker. Love them so much! We lost our Tucker at almost 18 yrs old, end of last December 2024 & Tetley this past June at 14 yrs old. Miss them so much. Think of them everyday. So grateful we had that time together. House is empty without them 😢
Tetley and Tucker sound like they were wonderful dogs. I know what the empty house is like and can only imagine how much you must miss them. Who knows, maybe you will get to the point where you’re ready to adopt another one. One never replaces another, but it does help to fill the emptiness.
My dog is the best personal trainer, no excuses accepted get up walk for 30 to 40 mins rain or sun. I love him very much, he brightens our day everyday.💕
That’s so nice to hear, Linda. You’re lucky he gets you up and out for that long. That’s great! I’m happy to hear he brightens your day everyday. So do mine. Don’t you love that about them?
Also important is to make arrangements for your pets in the event you can no longer care for them or pass away. Many local shelters can help you find pet trusts that will care for your pet in a loving home. I recently wrote a column about it. I can share it if interested. Here in Central Florida, Leesburg Humane Society offers this arrangement.
That’s good information to know. I don’t mind if you share it. Would you have to run it by the editors? No idea. Please email the information anyway.