Pets are a great source of comfort to many baby boomers these days. Pets have always been a source of comfort to people, but as you age, they help to fill many gaps.
The benefits of living with pets are many. Here we will discuss only a short list. Please feel free to share how your pets help you in everyday life.
If you’re alone, having a living, breathing companion in the house is comforting. Someone to take care of, someone to walk, nurture and feed. They’re a constant companion and a good one. Dogs will follow you from room to room. Just knowing they’re there is comforting.
I talk to my dogs, and they understand. Some people may think it’s crazy; I don’t think so. Dogs truly understand their owners. They get it. If you’re paying attention, you will see it in their eyes.
Dogs give people a reason to get up in the morning. You must walk the dog. You must get up, get dressed and take them out. It also gets you out of the house where you will likely meet other dogs and pet parents. It’s fresh air and exercise for both of you and maybe even some socialization with neighborhood people and their pets.
Pets offer us a sense of solace and calm when the going gets rough. Our pets have an innate ability to understand and sense our moods.
If you’re feeling down or you’re sick, they understand. They will stick by your side until you’re well, helping to comfort you along the way. They just want to please. They’ll sleep with you and watch out for you.
If you are anxious, they will calm you. Stoking the fur of a beloved cat or dog or whatever animal is calming in and of itself. It has been proven that animals help to reduce blood pressure, anxiety and even depression in humans. For a depressed person, having an animal takes away feelings of being alone, because they are not alone. These are emotional support animals, and they can be a lifesaver for some people.
There are also specially trained dogs who are trained to perform specific tasks. They can be taught to alert us to seizures, turn lights on and off and even take clothes out of the dryer. These are true service dogs trained to help the disabled, and they do a wonderful job of it. Service dogs are not emotional support animals.
Pets offer unconditional love. They want nothing from us but to be loved.
The positives of what having a pet can do for humans is nothing short of amazing. How often have we seen a dog go in to save a family after they suffer a terrible loss, yet the family feels they saved the dog. In truth, they saved each other.
Pets have been wonderful companions throughout my life. Each one was special in their own way. I know I will always have a dog or two. It is my hope that people who have found solace and gratification in having a pet for the first time will continue to do so for many years to come. We depend on our pets, and they depend on us.
“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.”
― Anatole France
Are your pets comforting to you? What are your day-to-day interactions? How do you benefit each other? As pet lovers, I’d like to think so. If you’d like to have a conversation, let’s talk about it!!!
I have always had pets in my life starting in early childhood. I can’t even imagine life without one. My dog has been a comfort during difficult times and reduced my stress during my divorce. He provides unconditional love and doesn’t care what I wear or look like – just wants to be by my side.
Isn’t that wonderful, Debbie! They don’t care if we get dressed or put on makeup or even get out of bed. They just want to be with you. I’m so happy you have your dog and, of course, he wants to be by your side!
Recently widowed, estranged from my children my 5 Boston Trrriers give me everything!
I’m so sorry to hear that, Wendy, but at the same time I’m loving hearing about your 5 Boston Terriers!! What a group they must be!!
I have 2 german shepherd’s and they make my life worth living
I’m happy to hear that, Kim. They must be wonderful dogs.
I live with a 170 lb. St. Bernard. He is such a joy. Of all the dogs I’ve had in my life, he is that special one.
They’re all special in their own way, Victoria, but there’s always that one special one. Your St. Barnard sounds like the joy you describe him as. Lucky you!
I have always had a dog. Just recently, I was given an English Bulldog to “foster.” She has been with me for 3 years. Never thought I would have a Bulldog, having seen them stop stubbornly in the street with other owners. I was wrong. Helga is my companion, my friend, my company; she sleeps with me, eats with me, follows me everywhere, including the bathroom. She is funny with her body positions and her facial expressions. She makes me laugh out loud, and she amuses me every day. Dogs save us, and we save them. It’s win/win. And yes, I do need to bribe her to go for walks. But, she is inspired by the tiniest treats, so it’s ok.
You made me laugh, Roberta. Here I am picturing Helga stubbornly not wanting to go for her walk but willing to go for a treat. I agree with you – it’s a win/win. So happy you have her. Btw, mine follows me to the bathroom, too.