During my 25+ years helping singles, divorcees and widows with dating, I’ve identified several traits that your date will definitely find unattractive. Are you aware of these potential characteristics you may be presenting? For most people, the answer is no…

Thinking about dating again after divorce? Whether you’re ready to cannonball into the deep end or just dip a toe in, you’re not alone – and yes, it can feel terrifying. Especially if your last date involved pagers, Blockbuster, or dial-up internet. If your marriage lasted…

Ever heard of the 5-Day Momentum Rule? It’s a very powerful concept. As a dating coach/counselor with over 25 years of dating experience, I know this for a fact! This rule has gained even more importance in the past five years as our attention…

Everyone’s talking about AI – and yes, it sparks everything from awe to “Um, should I be concerned?” When my clients ask me how AI can help their love lives, I say, “It’s a tool, not a soulmate. Used right, though, it’s like having a nerdy-but-brilliant best friend who edits your texts…

Ladies, I always enjoy reading your feedback and comments – and after 30 years, I still learn from all of you! Considering about 35-40% of my clients are men in the 50–80-year-old age group, believe me, after a recent divorce or being widowed, they definitely need help…

Online dating: it’s a wild mix of hope, hilarity, and the occasional “Did I just swipe on my cousin?” With profiles flashing by faster than a Netflix binge, standing out is non-negotiable. Whether you’re a rookie or a seasoned scroller, these tips will sharpen your game…

Love isn’t a one-size-fits-all deal – if it were, every couple would be blissfully in sync, and therapists would be out of business. Enter the theory of Love Languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Receiving Gifts. Supposedly, cracking…

Everyone is thinking about Valentine’s Day – love it or hate it, you know the media and every retail outlet is reminding you of it. Boxes of heart-shaped chocolates assault as you walk in CVS to red Valentine bears holding expensive fragrances at Neiman Marcus. You just can’t escape…

Being crazy passionate about what I have been doing as a dating coach for four decades (gulp, I just counted them – the ’90s, ’00s, ’10s, and now the ’20s), you bet I notice differences! Trends seem to shift every few years, and thanks to AI, an aging population…

January: the Olympics of “new year, new me” chaos, is coming in hot. And guess what? You’ve got two weeks to plan your winning strategy. Wait… who am I kidding? The race already started, and you’re jogging in place with a cookie in hand. Yes, enjoy the holidays…