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Perley-Ann Friedman retired to a small Thai island, where she writes about life, reinvention, and retirement abroad on her Substack “Retired Way Out There.” She is the author of Retired Way Out There: My Evolving Life on Koh Lanta Thailand, full of stories, challenges and insights on retiring abroad. Available on Amazon.

Latest Posts By Perley-Ann Friedman

1 week ago

The Conversations We Almost Don’t Have

Yesterday was an eye-opener for me. I learned something new, and at 72, that’s something. I was reminded of the many small opportunities for connection that exist in everyday life, and how easy they are to overlook. When I’m out and about, I try to smile, give people the benefit of the doubt, and not take things personally…

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1 month ago

What Long-Haul Travel Has Taught Me About Traveling Well

The reality of a long-haul trip can feel daunting, especially if traveling alone. My bi-annual journey between Koh Lanta, Thailand and Ottawa, Canada has two very long flights, with shorter ones at the beginning and end. In total, it’s usually close to 40 hours…

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1 month ago

Doing Things Alone Has Simply Becomes Easier

Yesterday I made a roast chicken with all the fixings. There was no occasion. I wasn’t expecting anyone for dinner. I roasted potatoes, made carrots and turnip mash, and put together a large salad with whatever was ready in the garden. At the last minute, I baked a lemon pound cake because there was a lemon in the fridge, and it seemed like a good idea…

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2 months ago

5 Reasons Why Walking Is My Best Thinking Time

My alarm goes off every day around 4 pm. It’s not a loud alarm, but only I can hear it. It’s my internal walking alarm, letting me know it’s time to get ready to head out. Time to change, put on my shoes, fill a bottle with water, and grab some bubble gum and a bit of money. I always chew gum on my walk…

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2 months ago

5 Ways Adventure Looks Different After 60

Heart pounding, adrenaline flowing, anticipation peaking. Is that really what adventure means? Does it have to be physically extreme to qualify? If it isn’t seeing penguins in Antarctica, swimming with manta rays in Belize, or climbing Machu Picchu, does it still count?

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3 months ago

5 Small Changes That Can Make Your Home More Comfortable and Calm

Home is supposed to be our safe place. A refuge from the busyness outside. A place where we can relax and feel comfortable. But is it always? I used to get home, trip over shoes in the hallway, struggle to key in the right code…

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3 months ago

5 Simple Changes That Make Everyday Life Easier After 60

Most of us wake up each morning with a simple hope, that the day ahead will be calm and manageable. Yet even a quiet life can quickly fill with unexpected tasks, interruptions, and small demands on our time. What begins as an easy, quiet morning can quickly become hectic, especially if we allow every interruption…

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4 months ago

5 Ways to Reduce Mental Clutter After 60

You may have spent the last few years decluttering your home. You cleaned out closets and cabinets, keeping what you truly need and letting go of what you do not. You sorted old papers and donated kitchen gadgets you no longer use. Perhaps you moved to a smaller space or to a location better suited […]

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4 months ago

The Surprising Benefits of Saying No

I had lunch with a dear friend the other day. We live far away from each other but make the effort to meet up a few times a month. I could tell she was stressed about something, and it took some effort before she finally told me why. She felt she had to travel to Europe for her granddaughter’s birthday, even though she clearly didn’t want to go…

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5 months ago

Downsized? 4 Ways to Keep Clutter from Returning

So, you have finally done it. You have cleared out your closets and drawers, rearranged your shelves, and let go of the things you no longer use. When you step back and look around, your home feels different. There is more space, more air, and a sense of lightness…

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