As a woman over 60, how do you feel about wearing makeup? Does it give you a lift and you wear it everyday, and wouldn’t dream of going out the front door without it? Or perhaps you just wear it for special occasions like parties, weddings, going out to dinner, etc.? Or maybe you never wear make up any more (or never did)? Perhaps you can’t be bothered, or feel it doesn’t look right on older skin?
Most women over 60 I speak to think skincare is more important and would rather put their money and time into keeping their skin hydrated and looking as good as it can be. I can still recall my teenage years of putting Ambre Solaire oil all over my body, and basking in the sun until I fried!
Now, of course, I am much more careful and recently found a sunscreen that really works for me. It’s a bit expensive to buy, but I bought it at the airport and, so far, it has lasted me six months of travel in hot countries, without even a red face.
I also use a retinol cream I buy in Spain. I don’t think it is available over the counter in the UK. Other than that, it’s good old-fashioned Nivea. :)
Oh, my goodness, does anyone else remember Pan Stick? It was a stick of foundation in a thick block. You twiddled the knob and up would pop a claggy lump. I would like to say it glided beautifully over my skin, but even with the gorgeous fresh skin of youth, I know it clumped together, a little bit like a weak cement mixture!
Now I give foundations a wide berth. They only fill my wrinkles up anyway (no wonder I used to use so much!) and then crack when I smile. I think I will stick with just a tiny bit of concealer, if I bother at all.
Have you found one that you like? Or maybe you are one of the lucky (un-fried) ones who have perfect porcelain skin!
Being a blonde (ok a greyish blonde!) my eyelashes need a little something or they just disappear. Thankfully, they are still reasonably thick and quite long, so a smidgen of mascara goes a long way.
How many of you can remember sticking false eyelashes on (mine often looked a little like dead spiders at the end of the night!). What were we thinking of? Now, young people seem to be wearing eyelashes so thick they can barely open their eyes! How do they see where they are going? I’ve got enough trouble with my eyesight as it is, thanks!
How I used to love lipstick! The brighter the better! But that was when I had plump, luscious lips. Where did they go? Now they seem to have shrunk to half the width and instead of thick bow-shaped voluptuous lips, I have two thin straight lines that seem to droop down at the edges, rather than smile upwards.
For me, the only thing they get is a nude lip gloss (on high days and holidays) but mostly vaseline!
I have recently been introduced to something I think we used to call rouge, but now seems to be called bronzer. It is amazing! I use the teeny-tiniest amount, and it completely transforms my face. It is so fine it doesn’t even go in my wrinkles, just gives me a lovely holiday glow.
I haven’t told anyone I use it, but every time I do, someone says to me, “You look well.”
I’ll take that. :)
But, you know, the real beauty is the one inside us. I know it’s a bit of a cliche, but I think it’s true. If you look at photos of really old people, not spring chickens like us, you can see so much beauty and radiance in their faces. It’s as if their wisdom, experiences and love shine through, and the best bit is, us, young ones, have still got all that to come!
For now, think about what is in your heart and your soul. If what you find in there is beautiful, then so are you. Your skin may never have that dewy look of youth again, your eyelashes may be a bit sparse, you may be lucky enough to have those lost hairs on your eyebrows not sprout on your chin, but you are gorgeous just the way you are. It’s as simple as that!
How do you feel about make up? Does it change how you feel when you have it on? Is make up best left for young skin?
Hi there – I must be in the minority – I retired at the end of ’23 & I began loosening up on the makeup while I have worked from home for many years anyway. I have very sensitive-allergy eyes so I only put on eye makeup when I have somewhere to go & not just grocery shopping. My feeling is – who am i trying to impress? I am pretty fair so I always take care of my skin as I experienced a lot of sun damage as a teen. I have discovered Laura Geller baked foundation for when I do wear makeup & I love it as it doesn’t fall into those lines! As I said I have very sensitive eyes so I have to stick with Clinique mascara & eye shadow but Laura Geller has a highlighter that I use for my eyelids that takes the redness out before I put on eye shadow – which I only use sparingly these days – mainly cream & brown but the highlighter takes the redness out that I’ve found I have with age. I have also lightened up on the blush & lipstick color since turning 60 (I’m 64) because I find heavy colors age me being so fair. I do still like makeup but I just don’t like putting it on everyday & taking it off every night after doing it since I was about 14 LOL! It’s nice to be FREE!!
Hi Jane, Thank you for joining the conversation. I have to admit I am similar to you. I don’t wear it to pop to the shops or if I am at home, and only use a fraction of what I used to, when I go out. Having said that, I do feel better when I have a little make up on… not sure why :) Lily x
Having lupus, the importance of sunscreen can’t be exaggerated! My makeup routine, for the days when I go out of the house, involves several steps. First I use Neutrogena hydroboost city shield water gel with 25 spf. Then I cover that with Australian gold botanical sunscreen/ mineral lotion 50 spf. To blend everything together I use Laura Geller baked balance and glow Face powder. I’ll admit I’m a bit nervous about using blush/ bronzer. My face usually has some red on it anyway due to the lupus. I finish with a little eye shadow and mascara and I have to use some eyebrow pencil so they don’t look washed out! It sounds like a lot of work but I have it down to a very simple routine!
Hi Cynthia, thank you for being part of the conversation.You seem to have got a great routine for your skin! If you’re like me it’s amazing how quick it can be done! Lily x
I wear makeup everyday and would never leave the house without it. I forego mascara on the days I am staying home but otherwise use a serum, sunscreen, bronzer, blush, lip gloss, eyeshadow and eyeliner every day. I am blonde so I look too washed out without makeup.
Hi Babs, thank you for contributing to the conversation. I am blonde to (well greyish blonde) and I know what you mean about looking a bit washed out without a little something. Well done with the sunscreen, still working on remembering that! Lily x
I retired last August at age 70. My New Year’s resolution was to have cataract surgery so I could enjoy my retirement. At my first eye appointment in January I was told no more contact lenses (I’d worn them for 54 years), wear glasses instead, and no eye makeup. Fast forward to now. I’ve had 2 successful surgeries, can see perfectly and am eternally grateful. I still don’t wear eye makeup, just do my eyebrows and wear tinted lip gloss and occasionally some blush. I don’t want to do anything to jeopardize my vision.
Hi Donna, Well done you! Thankfully my eyes are ok at the moment but I often wonder whether I would be brave enough for surgery. So happy to hear your success! Lily x
I’ve modified my make up routine to some quality crayon and powder blush, mascara for “aging” lashes, and lip stain that hydrates. I’ve left out brand names, but have found some amazing mascara and lip tint that really work for me.
Hi Laura, thank you for your comment.I haven’t tried lip stains but that sounds interesting! Lily x