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Makeup After 60? Always, Sometimes, Never?

By Lily Bradshaw June 13, 2024 Beauty

As a woman over 60, how do you feel about wearing makeup? Does it give you a lift and you wear it everyday, and wouldn’t dream of going out the front door without it? Or perhaps you just wear it for special occasions like parties, weddings, going out to dinner, etc.? Or maybe you never wear make up any more (or never did)? Perhaps you can’t be bothered, or feel it doesn’t look right on older skin?

Skincare

Most women over 60 I speak to think skincare is more important and would rather put their money and time into keeping their skin hydrated and looking as good as it can be. I can still recall my teenage years of putting Ambre Solaire oil all over my body, and basking in the sun until I fried! 

Now, of course, I am much more careful and recently found a sunscreen that really works for me. It’s a bit expensive to buy, but I bought it at the airport and, so far, it has lasted me six months of travel in hot countries, without even a red face.

I also use a retinol cream I buy in Spain. I don’t think it is available over the counter in the UK. Other than that, it’s good old-fashioned Nivea. :)

Foundations 

Oh, my goodness, does anyone else remember Pan Stick? It was a stick of foundation in a thick block. You twiddled the knob and up would pop a claggy lump. I would like to say it glided beautifully over my skin, but even with the gorgeous fresh skin of youth, I know it clumped together, a little bit like a weak cement mixture!

Now I give foundations a wide berth. They only fill my wrinkles up anyway (no wonder I used to use so much!) and then crack when I smile. I think I will stick with just a tiny bit of concealer, if I bother at all.

Have you found one that you like? Or maybe you are one of the lucky (un-fried) ones who have perfect porcelain skin!

Mascara

Being a blonde (ok a greyish blonde!) my eyelashes need a little something or they just disappear. Thankfully, they are still reasonably thick and quite long, so a smidgen of mascara goes a long way.

How many of you can remember sticking false eyelashes on (mine often looked a little like dead spiders at the end of the night!). What were we thinking of? Now, young people seem to be wearing eyelashes so thick they can barely open their eyes! How do they see where they are going? I’ve got enough trouble with my eyesight as it is, thanks!

Lipstick

How I used to love lipstick! The brighter the better! But that was when I had plump, luscious lips. Where did they go? Now they seem to have shrunk to half the width and instead of thick bow-shaped voluptuous lips, I have two thin straight lines that seem to droop down at the edges, rather than smile upwards.

For me, the only thing they get is a nude lip gloss (on high days and holidays) but mostly vaseline!

A Little Rouge?

I have recently been introduced to something I think we used to call rouge, but now seems to be called bronzer. It is amazing! I use the teeny-tiniest amount, and it completely transforms my face. It is so fine it doesn’t even go in my wrinkles, just gives me a lovely holiday glow.

I haven’t told anyone I use it, but every time I do, someone says to me, “You look well.” 

I’ll take that. :)

Beauty Is Only Skin Deep

But, you know, the real beauty is the one inside us. I know it’s a bit of a cliche, but I think it’s true. If you look at photos of really old people, not spring chickens like us, you can see so much beauty and radiance in their faces. It’s as if their wisdom, experiences and love shine through, and the best bit is, us, young ones, have still got all that to come!

For now, think about what is in your heart and your soul. If what you find in there is beautiful, then so are you. Your skin may never have that dewy look of youth again, your eyelashes may be a bit sparse, you may be lucky enough to have those lost hairs on your eyebrows not sprout on your chin, but you are gorgeous just the way you are. It’s as simple as that!

Let’s Start a Conversation:

How do you feel about make up? Does it change how you feel when you have it on? Is make up best left for young skin?

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Stacy

Funny mascara story…I don’t wear makeup anymore but decided to buy and wear some new mascara for my granddaughter’s high school graduation. We baked in the sun for a few hours during the ceremony then went to a lovely restaurant for dinner. I exchanged my prescription sunglasses for my indoor glasses and enjoyed the dinner and conversations around me. When I got home I looked in the mirror and a football linebacker was staring back at me! My mascara had melted and settled on the tops of my cheeks. I laugh now but was a tad bit embarrassed at the time!

lilybradshaw88

Hi Stacy, thanks for joining the conversation! Oh poor you! I’m sure many of us have had similar embarrassing make up events. I know I have:) How lovely to be with people who didn’t care and were just happy to have you with them! Lily x

Bev

I wear tinted moisturizer, a little cream blush (Elf), grey eyeliner, mascara and lipstick . Very minimalist. But I wear it every day and wouldn’t go out without it. Whatever gives you joy to start your day is what is important.
P. S. Margaret, I love love your make up videos 😊.

lilybradshaw88

Hi Bev, thanks for joining the conversation. I use a little tinted moisturiser as well, as it gives a little cover and colour without feeling thick. I love your sentence ‘Whatever gives you joy…’ I couldn’t agree more ( I also love Margarets make up videos :) Lily x

Marie

I have always wondered, men don’t wear makeup…and they usually look great!

lilybradshaw88

Hi Marie, So true!! I think its a little easier for men, especially getting dressed to go anywhere special! Lily x

Amy

My longtime dermatologist told me that the ONLY and best way to really clean skin is to use a good soap with warm water. He said that expensive creams and tonics don’t do anything, except clog the skin. A good lotion is all that’s necessary, Another point he mentioned was to stay out of the sun.

As to makeup – foundation creates a heavy, dated look. A bit of cover-up is fine – then light blush, a beautiful lipstick, and a bit of eye make-up do the trick.

lilybradshaw88

Hi Amy, Thanks for joining the conversation. I am a soap and water girl as well! I just love the clean feeling on my skin.Lily x

gloria

Why wouldn’t I ? It’s a feminine privilege and one that uplifts me. I feel prettier, younger and just better. Research with skincare, cosmetics that are appropriate and attractive in texture and color, quality –all important . It’s like dressing –one can let go or enhance . I have made my choice and it’s fun and a mood booster.

lilybradshaw88

Hi Gloria, Absolutely! Anything that makes you feel uplifted and prettier is worth its weight in gold! I love how so many women who have commented say they use make up because its fun :) Just how it should be! Lily x

The Author

Lily Bradshaw has had an interesting and varied career. Twenty years working as a psychotherapist and part time lecturer, followed by 20 years of writing educational courses. Now she is enjoying semi retirement writing books and articles that interest her, mostly about having fun and enjoying life. She has spent the last 2 years travelling solo.

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