A woman over 60 wrote to me not long ago. She had written something for a friend who was leaving for another job. It wasn’t dramatic or elaborate. It was simply honest – an expression of how much she had valued the friendship, how much she would miss her, and how hard it felt to say goodbye…

If you keep “fighting yourself” around food and exercise, it’s usually not a willpower problem – it’s competing motivations in your brain, and the one with the strongest feeling wins in the moment. If you’re a smart woman, this is the part that makes you feel extra irritated…

You may have spent the last few years decluttering your home. You cleaned out closets and cabinets, keeping what you truly need and letting go of what you do not. You sorted old papers and donated kitchen gadgets you no longer use. Perhaps you moved to a smaller space or to a location better suited […]

There’s a stage of midlife and beyond that rarely gets attention. We talk about the grief. We talk about the betrayal. We talk about the shock of divorce, empty nests, career shifts, aging parents. But we don’t talk enough about what happens after the emotional storm passes. The calm. And how unsettling that calm can feel…

Dear Me, I’ve been thinking about you – the younger version, the braver version, the version who didn’t yet know how easily fear disguises itself as practicality. I want to start with this: you were not lazy, unmotivated, or lacking ambition. You were cautious. And when you are young, caution can quietly reroute an entire life…

One of the most powerful tools for visualizing your dream life is a Visualization Sanctuary. Unfortunately, it is also one of the most neglected and overlooked areas for creating your dream lifestyle after 60. Last summer I was having dinner at a friend’s…

Living as a single woman after having been in a long-term relationship is a major adjustment. How is that for the understatement of the year? Whichever loss you went through, divorce or death, it isn’t an adjustment… it’s a major life change! And “grieving the loss” happens in both situations…

I’m currently in India and have been here for three weeks. It feels like a long time, yet in the grand scheme of things, three weeks is nothing. I arrived in the laid-back state of Kerala in the south-west of India. I remember sitting in my Uber from the airport, trying to pry my eyes open so I could take in everything I was seeing…

Over the past few months, I’ve been thinking a great deal about legacy. After losing both of my parents not long ago, I’ve found myself reflecting on what truly endures. Not just accomplishments or milestones, but the quieter things we pass down without fully realizing it. Grief has a way of sharpening that question…

We love the idea of reinvention. It sounds bold. Empowering. Almost glamorous.
New chapter. New purpose. New clarity.
But no one tells you how quiet reinvention really is. Especially after 60. Reinvention doesn’t usually begin with applause.
It begins with discomfort…